How much do you want to know... (137)
Laura25: In your new relationship,
are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?
Do you want to know if they were better lovers?
I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...
But would you ask?
And would you tell the truth if you are asked?
are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?
Do you want to know if they were better lovers?
I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...
But would you ask?
And would you tell the truth if you are asked?
I wouldnt ask or reply to any of those things.
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Hi LauraI do not think i would wish to know....what is the past should remain there.
And i also feel that what someone shared with someone else should be private....i would hate to think of an ex discussing my love making with his new GF
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Costapacket: I wouldnt ask or reply to any of those things.
Would you be happy staying in this relationship if the truth you leart is not favorable?
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Amity: Hi Laura
I do not think i would wish to know....what is the past should remain there.
And i also feel that what someone shared with someone else should be private....i would hate to think of an ex discussing my love making with his new GF
I do not think i would wish to know....what is the past should remain there.
And i also feel that what someone shared with someone else should be private....i would hate to think of an ex discussing my love making with his new GF
I am of the same opinion, Ami.
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Amity: Hi Laura
I do not think i would wish to know....what is the past should remain there.
And i also feel that what someone shared with someone else should be private....i would hate to think of an ex discussing my love making with his new GF
I do not think i would wish to know....what is the past should remain there.
And i also feel that what someone shared with someone else should be private....i would hate to think of an ex discussing my love making with his new GF
Hey Amity
what she said
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Laura25: Would you be happy staying in this relationship if the truth you leart is not favorable?
The past is the past and should remain there, if the "lady" in question gave me reason to belive this wasnt in the past then I would rapidly lose interest.
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No I wouldn't ask, and if asked I would be reticent to comment on previous lovers. I think it shows a sign of insecurity to pry onto the subject. You either click together or you don't, previous history is not important.
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mariespoodles: Hey Amity
what she said
what she said
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Costapacket: The past is the past and should remain there, if the "lady" in question gave me reason to belive this wasnt in the past then I would rapidly lose interest.
No, it is the past.
By *not favorable truth* I meant -- if/when you ask her directly, you learnt that her ex was a better lover that you.
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Laura25: No, it is the past.By *not favorable truth* I meant -- if/when you ask her directly, you learnt that her ex was a better lover that you.
Your getting into the realms of fantasy now.....
If and I say if, I would do whatever to improve the relationship in the bedroom.
but if she told me something like that tehn she clearly has serious mental issues and im the out the door.
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hi Laura
after i feel intimacy i can talk about those relationships of mine which meant something to me.i would not go on a first date asking :hey let me know about that a**hole you used to date before!
after i feel intimacy i can talk about those relationships of mine which meant something to me.i would not go on a first date asking :hey let me know about that a**hole you used to date before!
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RDM59: No I wouldn't ask, and if asked I would be reticent to comment on previous lovers. I think it shows a sign of insecurity to pry onto the subject. You either click together or you don't, previous history is not important.
I feel pretty much the same...
Don't think it's necessarily a sign of insecurity, but a *dangerous and complicated road to travel* for sure, IMO.
R.
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RDM59: No I wouldn't ask, and if asked I would be reticent to comment on previous lovers. I think it shows a sign of insecurity to pry onto the subject. You either click together or you don't, previous history is not important.
My thoughts exactly.
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strict: hi Laura
after i feel intimacy i can talk about those relationships of mine which meant something to me.i would not go on a first date asking :hey let me know about that a**hole you used to date before!
after i feel intimacy i can talk about those relationships of mine which meant something to me.i would not go on a first date asking :hey let me know about that a**hole you used to date before!
Right, I didn't think you'd have something to compare with on a first date...
Hiya Strict
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Since no one is better than me, it's a moot point. 
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Laura25: Right, I didn't think you'd have something to compare with on a first date... Hiya Strict
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I would never ask or tell. 
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ballerina9: yep, i agree, over a real long term relationship, theres nothing that isnt or shudnt be talked about
I can't imagine wanting to be in one's closest relationship - the kind of relationship one ought to enjoy with a lover/spouse - where certain issues couldn't be discussed. That might be appropriate with one's mom or children or casual friends - but surely not with one's soul mate.------ This thread is Archived ------
q1: nopes
q2: nopes
q3: nopes
q4: yeps! (with as little detail as possible)
some things should be kept private and left where they should be.
q2: nopes
q3: nopes
q4: yeps! (with as little detail as possible)
some things should be kept private and left where they should be.
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are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?
Do you want to know if they were better lovers?
I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...
But would you ask?
And would you tell the truth if you are asked?