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Aug 8, 2010 4:18 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
MKR1015
MKR1015MKR1015Gilbert, Minnesota USA1 Threads 61 Posts
I have only been a member for a couple of weeks and these are the experiences I have found:

Two people tried to scam for money from another country (good luck with that), one person wanted to fall in love right away and doesn't even know me, almost every person has tried to get my Yahoo ID (which by the way can be another scam to send you spam), have been accused of not being trusting enough to be in a relationship (after all I know a person on here so well that I am supposed to automatically trust you), a 26 year old trying to pick me up and I am 46, and people lying about who they are.

Now I am not in any way trying to be a B.... here, but have a few people fallen down and bumped their heads? I am just an honest girl looking for love in my life. I am stable and do not need hassle or drama. I may be 46, but I am not desperate (that's why I won't give anyone money-been there done that in life), I think trust is earned not just given because you say you are a trusting person, I think relationships are built and can't be known until we meet a person (we can find potential people here, but I don't see how people can profess love to someone after talking on the internet for two days), and quite frankly I feel it takes time to get to know someone. I realize there are people on this site that are genuine and really are looking for a partner in life.

DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE THE SAME VALUES AS ME? HAS ANYONE HAD GOOD EXPERIENCES HERE? PLEASE SHARE IF YOU HAVE BECAUSE I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR ABOUT THEM!
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Aug 8, 2010 4:20 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
MKR1015: I have only been a member for a couple of weeks and these are the experiences I have found:

Two people tried to scam for money from another country (good luck with that), one person wanted to fall in love right away and doesn't even know me, almost every person has tried to get my Yahoo ID (which by the way can be another scam to send you spam), have been accused of not being trusting enough to be in a relationship (after all I know a person on here so well that I am supposed to automatically trust you), a 26 year old trying to pick me up and I am 46, and people lying about who they are.

Now I am not in any way trying to be a B.... here, but have a few people fallen down and bumped their heads? I am just an honest girl looking for love in my life. I am stable and do not need hassle or drama. I may be 46, but I am not desperate (that's why I won't give anyone money-been there done that in life), I think trust is earned not just given because you say you are a trusting person, I think relationships are built and can't be known until we meet a person (we can find potential people here, but I don't see how people can profess love to someone after talking on the internet for two days), and quite frankly I feel it takes time to get to know someone. I realize there are people on this site that are genuine and really are looking for a partner in life.

DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE THE SAME VALUES AS ME? HAS ANYONE HAD GOOD EXPERIENCES HERE? PLEASE SHARE IF YOU HAVE BECAUSE I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR ABOUT THEM!


Well so far I have made some great chat friends and no one has asked for money..lol..I think this is a great site and it might be hard to exercise patience in meeting mr right but I think in time you will.
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Aug 8, 2010 4:23 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
MKR1015: I have only been a member for a couple of weeks and these are the experiences I have found:

Two people tried to scam for money from another country (good luck with that), one person wanted to fall in love right away and doesn't even know me, almost every person has tried to get my Yahoo ID (which by the way can be another scam to send you spam), have been accused of not being trusting enough to be in a relationship (after all I know a person on here so well that I am supposed to automatically trust you), a 26 year old trying to pick me up and I am 46, and people lying about who they are.

Now I am not in any way trying to be a B.... here, but have a few people fallen down and bumped their heads? I am just an honest girl looking for love in my life. I am stable and do not need hassle or drama. I may be 46, but I am not desperate (that's why I won't give anyone money-been there done that in life), I think trust is earned not just given because you say you are a trusting person, I think relationships are built and can't be known until we meet a person (we can find potential people here, but I don't see how people can profess love to someone after talking on the internet for two days), and quite frankly I feel it takes time to get to know someone. I realize there are people on this site that are genuine and really are looking for a partner in life.

DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE THE SAME VALUES AS ME? HAS ANYONE HAD GOOD EXPERIENCES HERE? PLEASE SHARE IF YOU HAVE BECAUSE I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR ABOUT THEM!


is that a wedding dress on you ????....redclown
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Aug 8, 2010 4:25 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
MKR1015
MKR1015MKR1015Gilbert, Minnesota USA1 Threads 61 Posts
Thanks for the support Blueeyes!
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Aug 8, 2010 4:25 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
MKR1015
MKR1015MKR1015Gilbert, Minnesota USA1 Threads 61 Posts
On my daughter!
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Aug 8, 2010 4:28 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
MKR1015: On my daughter!


okay... I had to look at your profile.... since that is your only picture... and you are barely visible ... it makes me think... who are they actually referring to ...uh oh
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Aug 8, 2010 4:29 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
MKR1015: Thanks for the support Blueeyes!


Your welcome..Just try and enjoy making friends first then eventually some great guy will notice..
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Aug 8, 2010 4:37 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
MKR1015
MKR1015MKR1015Gilbert, Minnesota USA1 Threads 61 Posts
New photo....fair enough?
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Aug 8, 2010 4:38 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
MKR1015
MKR1015MKR1015Gilbert, Minnesota USA1 Threads 61 Posts
Just proud of my lovely daughter....no deception here!
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Aug 8, 2010 4:38 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
MKR1015: New photo....fair enough?


perfect....bouquet

now enjoy the wild ride on the forums... meet people and have fun

party
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Aug 8, 2010 5:00 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
Aw, you'll get so that you can sort them out pretty quick.

By the way, you're daughter is nice looking (and NO, I'm not gay..just a comment)hug
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Aug 8, 2010 5:04 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
MKR1015
MKR1015MKR1015Gilbert, Minnesota USA1 Threads 61 Posts
Thanks Ladyfingers. I have already spotted them...that's why I was asking because so far....most have not been genuine. Thanks about the daughter comment...she is a beauty!
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Aug 8, 2010 5:06 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
MKR1015: I have only been a member for a couple of weeks and these are the experiences I have found:

Two people tried to scam for money from another country (good luck with that), one person wanted to fall in love right away and doesn't even know me, almost every person has tried to get my Yahoo ID (which by the way can be another scam to send you spam), have been accused of not being trusting enough to be in a relationship (after all I know a person on here so well that I am supposed to automatically trust you), a 26 year old trying to pick me up and I am 46, and people lying about who they are.

Now I am not in any way trying to be a B.... here, but have a few people fallen down and bumped their heads? I am just an honest girl looking for love in my life. I am stable and do not need hassle or drama. I may be 46, but I am not desperate (that's why I won't give anyone money-been there done that in life), I think trust is earned not just given because you say you are a trusting person, I think relationships are built and can't be known until we meet a person (we can find potential people here, but I don't see how people can profess love to someone after talking on the internet for two days), and quite frankly I feel it takes time to get to know someone. I realize there are people on this site that are genuine and really are looking for a partner in life.

DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE THE SAME VALUES AS ME? HAS ANYONE HAD GOOD EXPERIENCES HERE? PLEASE SHARE IF YOU HAVE BECAUSE I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR ABOUT THEM!
cswelcome
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Aug 8, 2010 5:13 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
wave Welcome to the forums.

I have made some wonderful friends through here. I've also had a few dates grin sadly nothing has really worked out in that area.

I think that you get out what you invest. I go to meets and have had the chance to travel to lots of places and meet loads of people that way.

Of course a degree of caution is required. You do get better at picking the 'scammer' or inappropriate contact, and block them accordingly.
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Aug 8, 2010 5:40 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
MKR1015
MKR1015MKR1015Gilbert, Minnesota USA1 Threads 61 Posts
Thanks Shell. I appreciate it.
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Aug 8, 2010 6:57 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
Welcome & good luck finding someone MKR cswelcome party danceline
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Aug 8, 2010 11:15 PM CST Bumped Your Head!
MKR1015
MKR1015MKR1015Gilbert, Minnesota USA1 Threads 61 Posts
Thanks Darren...I appreciate it. MKR
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