I live in four-wheeling country. In fact there is a state 4 wheeling park not too far from where I live (about 1 mile). They ride up my street often and I often find that there is no one monitoring what is really going on. There is laws, but somehow they are ignored. They are driven on the streets where other cars are on occasion. I have witnessed several accidents with adults and children. I think you shouldn't be able to ride any motor vehicle without having a license to do so. Children and some adults are not cognitively developed enough to handle a responsibility. And it is a responsibility. Some knowledge of the rules of the road even a dirt one should be attained first. Just my thoughts.
Yes I agree......that's why I take it with a grain of salt. I really wish there was a way to figure it out because maybe I would be busy doing something else (like cuddling). So instead I use my best judgment when I decide to talk with someone. I guess it's the best radar I have.
I am as safe as I choose I guess. I have met some nice people here, some confused people here, some intelligent people here, some scammers here (which you learn to pick out), and some not so single people here.
I think the person that posted about people feeling safe because they live so far away is somewhat true. I also think distance wouldn't stop me if I met the right person. I mostly come on here now to talk on the forums and see others opinions. It interesting. So is it safe? I think so. How much safer could you be? They are not knocking on my tower door or shooting a gun through the screen.....so I guess I feel safe.
If I stop believing there is someone out there for me...then there will be nobody out there for me. So....I believe.
I have a list due to all the experiences I have had and because of those experiences......I was able to solidly write down what I am looking for and what type of person I will allow in my life...because not everyone just "gets" to be a part of my life.
I don't negotiate with the list. If the person does not have the qualities I am looking for, I move on so they can move on because chances are I do not have the qualities they are looking for either. I believe it saves heartache. I realize that there are things we all have to accept in people, the little idiosyncrasies, but my list has the simple things on it. A job, a car, a driver's license, and their own place to live. Why those things? Because if a person has those things, it means they are being responsible. They are paying their bills, and are self-sufficient. Then I have a few others, dedication, honesty, loyalty.....just to name a few. So yes all of my experiences have influenced me. I know what I want today and I would rather be alone than be unhappy.
SO I keep believing....
P.S. I believe I have found someone with all those qualities in the last couple of months.....it is hopeful.....and I stuck to my list.
I am a great cook, and I really love it. Many years ago I received a degree in cooking. I still have friend and family gatherings from time to time where I cook up a storm.
But on a daily basis: I am single and most of my friends are single. We socialize a lot and go out to eat a lot. I really enjoy it. It is good company and I am not eating alone. I have a very busy life and concentrate on other things that I consider more important than cooking. And no I do not get sick of it either. I have a lot of places I know that make home cooked meals and quite frankly, sometimes I can eat out cheaper than it would cost me to cook.
Haven't been on here for a while and I really miss chatting with the great people in here. But to answer your question, I met someone here on this site and have been talking to him more than talking on here. You can find someone. I was just beginning to give up on all dating sites, and actually quit coming as much. I answered a message one day a couple of months ago.....started chatting on IM, and the rest is history. I really think he's the right person for me. SO IT CAN HAPPEN!
That's rich......some guy acts like a fool....totally disrespects woman, and really treats people badly.....and I am scary. I think you better check your own morals if that's what you think and don't worry about taking my inventory.
I think it is very hard to find a mate that is a compatible person for me anywhere, not just online. I really think that if I believe there is someone out there for me, there is someone out there for me, and I don't know when or where that will happen. Maybe it will be online, and maybe they will live far away. But if I found that person, and they were a long distance, or some other obstacle, I would deal with it when the time arose. It seems that a frame of mind regarding finding a mate is important. It's like anything else, if I believe that I can get a degree than I will get a degree. If I stop believing there is someone out there for me, than it probably won't happen. So I keep believing there is someone out there for me. And the scammers.....f'em. LOL
I am a drug counselor by trade and just because her mother is on drugs does not mean she does not care for her daughter (alcohol is a drug, so if people drink that means they are unfit?). And at this point you don't have enough information to process what should happen, because it's not your affair. I am not trying to be negative here, just real about the situation. I think this is a family affair. If it were my daughter, I wouldn't want anyone else to be involved or thinking they could be involved. She does have a mother, and it doesn't matter whether you agree with her lifestyle choices or not. It is her daughter. Sometimes we are powerless over some situations. It seems to me you are powerless over someone else. Just my thoughts, it doesn't mean I am right or wrong, just trying to give you another point of view.
Why try to analyze why a person does something. You really don't know what was going on in her thoughts and it's hard to judge what that is standing from afar. Things are not always what they appear. I always like to think that most people are fundamentally good, so try not to judge her or the situation. Just realize it for what it is. Nothing.
By choice. I wouldn't mind having a significant other someday, but I've been mostly single 13 years and most of the time...at least for right now it suits my lifestyle. At this point, why settle...the person that's a good fit for me hasn't come along yet.
In dollars, I don't know how much that is....but it sounds like a lot. I have been in debt and got myself out of debt more than once. What I've learned is how to do something called a budget. Sometimes it makes more sense to buy a car with a loan, than use your savings, if you pay the car loan off fast. I think debt isn't a bad thing depending on why you are in debt. My student loans and education were the best thing I could do for my future and I make good money based on those student loans and education......so I guess it depends on how you look at debt.
Four years ago, my best friend lost her 16 year old daughter in a tragic, controversial death. She feel off a mine pit where we live and the events of the death were suspicious. There isn't a day that goes by that she is still traumatized over the experience and many times she states she would've given anything for it to be her instead of her daughter.
My feelings are that our children are not supposed to die before we do. I would give my daughter anything in this world including my life if I had to make a choice. After all, I am the one that gave her life to begin with and I would much rather have her life continue the way it is supposed to be. I would save my daughter. I gave her the commitment of life when I had her and would continue to give her that commitment.
Doesn't it matter some who asks who out on a date? If I ask a man out on a date and he accepts, I don't expect him to pay. I asked him and therefore, it is my responsibility to pay. And Visa Versa! I think that makes a little more sense than trying to figure it all out while were on the date. Also, someone said to clarify beforehand. Another good idea.
Last Friday I sent a message to a person, as we were chatting. He states he didn't get it. I went to the outbox to retrieve it aand re-send....and it was gone. So I agree there has been glitches.
I've been mostly single for 13 years. I have had a couple of periods were I was in a relationship, but for the most part I've been single. In the earlier part of my life I was married for ten years so I have some experience being in a relationship as well.
I have found that I am happiest when I am cognitively, emotionally and spiritually healthy. It doesn't seem to matter if I am in a relationship or not. If I am not together...mind, body, and soul, I won't be happy no matter who I am with (even alone) or where I am.
Very cool!! Congrats!! My friend always says that if you believe there is someone out there for you....it will happen, but you have to believe it. You must have a belief! Again congrats!!
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RE: What is a good safe age to buy a child a 4 wheeler?
I live in four-wheeling country. In fact there is a state 4 wheeling park not too far from where I live (about 1 mile). They ride up my street often and I often find that there is no one monitoring what is really going on. There is laws, but somehow they are ignored. They are driven on the streets where other cars are on occasion. I have witnessed several accidents with adults and children. I think you shouldn't be able to ride any motor vehicle without having a license to do so. Children and some adults are not cognitively developed enough to handle a responsibility. And it is a responsibility. Some knowledge of the rules of the road even a dirt one should be attained first. Just my thoughts.