Why is it so hard to find someone if so many persons are seeking the same thing (58)
OH my..................
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auch.... 
maybe its something that u didnt do?
maybe its something that u didnt do?
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linzy: auch....
maybe its something that u didnt do?
maybe its something that u didnt do?
What linzy sed...;-)))))))
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linzy: auch....
maybe its something that u didnt do?
If you're thinking what i'm thinking that you are thinking, then i think we were on different wave lenght. I have heard it said that men only want one thing. Isn't it a fact now that that is not true. A man could go to strip club and find his way rather than go through all this trouble for painmaybe its something that u didnt do?
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It could be a lot of reasons..could be she was letting you down easy because there was no chemistry in person,you no you can talk all day on the internet,get a long great,but theres no click in person.Only she can can give you the reason.I think its time to move on and try again with someone else,it doesn't always work the first time.good luck.
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If that is all the info she gave you then there is no point in beating yourself up about it or blaming yourself.There are countless reasons someone may have came to decide they do not want to continue with a relationship that has no baring on you or your own personality.
I would put it down to a fun day together and move on.
But I know how dispondent it must feel mate.
I would put it down to a fun day together and move on.
But I know how dispondent it must feel mate.
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One of the reasons i like being around ladies, is to hear their views on life and it helps me to understand them. I can remember hearing things like "don't give in too easy, he'll think you're cheap" or " make him sweat a while see how far he will go" even "give him a hard time, if he loves you he will try harder" I wonder if this is one of those situations. dunno, just wondering.
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Sampe1967: Met some one here and she said she'd be surprize if anyone didnt reply to a message like the one i wrote to her. she discribe me as a man of words who just know what to say and that my mind was her delight, we chat through the day every day untill she said we should meet. I told her i would do the traveling because i'm self employed. I got to her place at about 7:30pm because of a hectic journey. we hugged in the street and i thought she was perfectly made, we are of the same hieght, enjoyed the same meals and music and were of the same relious group. i went with her but slept in separate beds. next morning i head back home and the first message i got from her bore these words, "I'm sorry, I am not looking for a relationship"
Many a time,pple you meet on the net are not who you imagined them to be in real life............we tend to go crazy when we're in e-love, imagining the person to be something they're not in real life.........and when the real life meeting happens,dissapointed faces meet each other......the more letters,both handwritten and e-mail,videos,audios and phone calls you send to each the better...........but only if both are 100% honest in everything and are able to open up and tell each other the good things and the bad things about themselves........become best friends first......then you can become lovers......good luck mate.......
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Sampe1967: Met some one here and she said she'd be surprize if anyone didnt reply to a message like the one i wrote to her. she discribe me as a man of words who just know what to say and that my mind was her delight, we chat through the day every day untill she said we should meet. I told her i would do the traveling because i'm self employed. I got to her place at about 7:30pm because of a hectic journey. we hugged in the street and i thought she was perfectly made, we are of the same hieght, enjoyed the same meals and music and were of the same relious group. i went with her but slept in separate beds. next morning i head back home and the first message i got from her bore these words, "I'm sorry, I am not looking for a relationship"
Look at the bright side: you must be relationship material, otherwise she wouldn't have felt the need to say what she said. Forget her, but before you travel to meet the next girl make sure you ask the questions you need answers for. Good luck!
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Sampe1967: Met some one here and she said she'd be surprize if anyone didnt reply to a message like the one i wrote to her. she discribe me as a man of words who just know what to say and that my mind was her delight, we chat through the day every day untill she said we should meet. I told her i would do the traveling because i'm self employed. I got to her place at about 7:30pm because of a hectic journey. we hugged in the street and i thought she was perfectly made, we are of the same hieght, enjoyed the same meals and music and were of the same relious group. i went with her but slept in separate beds. next morning i head back home and the first message i got from her bore these words, "I'm sorry, I am not looking for a relationship"
I bet she enjoyed reading this one.
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DarkAngel_4Life: every girl is different .... all you can do is be who you are and let the chips fall where they may
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First of all, when I say I like a person with a sense of humor, that does not mean the person who claimed to have a sense of humor matches mine. In other words its the interpretation of the personality traits. Another aspect is that what I think my personality traits to be may not be what others perceive it to be.
Also there are the visual stimuli that takes place. Maybe I dont enjoy watching the person suck up their drink from a straw up her nose. What I'm getting at is the way we do things, move, sit, stand, walk etc also plays a roll in the overall effect.
That's why I think it is better to have known the person for some period of time before you try to become a couple. Start off as friends, get to know each other. I think meeting people who you interact with out in the real world and not the cyber-world makes meeting people who are compatible a little easier. You've seen their mannerisms, you've heard them talk, so now you need to get to know their personality.
Also there are the visual stimuli that takes place. Maybe I dont enjoy watching the person suck up their drink from a straw up her nose. What I'm getting at is the way we do things, move, sit, stand, walk etc also plays a roll in the overall effect.
That's why I think it is better to have known the person for some period of time before you try to become a couple. Start off as friends, get to know each other. I think meeting people who you interact with out in the real world and not the cyber-world makes meeting people who are compatible a little easier. You've seen their mannerisms, you've heard them talk, so now you need to get to know their personality.
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Sampe1967: Met some one here and she said she'd be surprize if anyone didnt reply to a message like the one i wrote to her. she discribe me as a man of words who just know what to say and that my mind was her delight, we chat through the day every day untill she said we should meet. I told her i would do the traveling because i'm self employed. I got to her place at about 7:30pm because of a hectic journey. we hugged in the street and i thought she was perfectly made, we are of the same hieght, enjoyed the same meals and music and were of the same relious group. i went with her but slept in separate beds. next morning i head back home and the first message i got from her bore these words, "I'm sorry, I am not looking for a relationship"
So sorry you had this experience. It wasn't anything you did wrong, she didn'the feel that spark. Her loss, just keep searching till you find the right gal for you. Some folk seem to pass up a good man/woman purely because of the outside packaging thinking they'll wait for something better to come along. Looks are unimportant, its a good heart that matters. Good luck.
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Sampe1967: Met some one here and she said she'd be surprize if anyone didnt reply to a message like the one i wrote to her. she discribe me as a man of words who just know what to say and that my mind was her delight, we chat through the day every day untill she said we should meet. I told her i would do the traveling because i'm self employed. I got to her place at about 7:30pm because of a hectic journey. we hugged in the street and i thought she was perfectly made, we are of the same hieght, enjoyed the same meals and music and were of the same relious group. i went with her but slept in separate beds. next morning i head back home and the first message i got from her bore these words, "I'm sorry, I am not looking for a relationship"
there may be several things she didn't like about you but was polite and endured time together as you went all that long way.
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tinypixie: Many a time,pple you meet on the net are not who you imagined them to be in real life............we tend to go crazy when we're in e-love, imagining the person to be something they're not in real life.........and when the real life meeting happens,dissapointed faces meet each other......the more letters,both handwritten and e-mail,videos,audios and phone calls you send to each the better...........but only if both are 100% honest in everything and are able to open up and tell each other the good things and the bad things about themselves........become best friends first......then you can become lovers......good luck mate.......
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Think i'll place an add on TV, "Audition on 7/8/2010 best wife being sought. wife need."
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Ahhh yea man this don't feel good i just found out for sure. why are people so dishonest
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Sampe1967: Met some one here and she said she'd be surprize if anyone didnt reply to a message like the one i wrote to her. she discribe me as a man of words who just know what to say and that my mind was her delight, we chat through the day every day untill she said we should meet. I told her i would do the traveling because i'm self employed. I got to her place at about 7:30pm because of a hectic journey. we hugged in the street and i thought she was perfectly made, we are of the same hieght, enjoyed the same meals and music and were of the same relious group. i went with her but slept in separate beds. next morning i head back home and the first message i got from her bore these words, "I'm sorry, I am not looking for a relationship"
no one is honest, but yet they want honest people ??? just lie the hell of the way and they will come running. what for i dont know.------ This poll is Archived ------
Sampe1967: Ahhh yea man this don't feel good i just found out for sure. why are people so dishonest
because most of them dont belive in them selfs. alot of people thing that lies will get you some where. at the end of the day, just be your self just be straight , or dont bother anyone. we all dont need this crap. we want direct answeers not fooling with words. if you like me say ok. if not just say f////////// off. simple as that 
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Sampe1967: Ahhh yea man this don't feel good i just found out for sure. why are people so dishonest
you will never get far with this post. its just too honest 
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everything happens for a reason..... and she has the reason why she did that... if she won't reveal the reason now, maybe tomorrow or in due time she will...
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cylinder: everything happens for a reason..... and she has the reason why she did that... if she won't reveal the reason now, maybe tomorrow or in due time she will...
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bradlee1: because most of them dont belive in them selfs. alot of people thing that lies will get you some where. at the end of the day, just be your self just be straight , or dont bother anyone. we all dont need this crap. we want direct answeers not fooling with words. if you like me say ok. if not just say f////////// off. simple as that this is a good thread dont mess it up you lot
Thanks brad. i wasn't expecting these kinds of results on the web you know, always thought people were actually more honest. and even those who dicribe themselves as down to earth, ask certain questions and the'll have your troat.------ This poll is Archived ------
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By now i have tried to contact most of the females on eath and got replies from only ten. of those the conversations continued for two weeks with three and i finally met one who rejected me on some falls excuse so i am still with none. man i give up. love is not out thtere for me.
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cylinder: everything happens for a reason..... and she has the reason why she did that... if she won't reveal the reason now, maybe tomorrow or in due time she will...
perhaps she's married / having someone else...?
Anyway
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Sampe1967: Met some one here and she said she'd be surprize if anyone didnt reply to a message like the one i wrote to her. she discribe me as a man of words who just know what to say and that my mind was her delight, we chat through the day every day untill she said we should meet. I told her i would do the traveling because i'm self employed. I got to her place at about 7:30pm because of a hectic journey. we hugged in the street and i thought she was perfectly made, we are of the same hieght, enjoyed the same meals and music and were of the same relious group. i went with her but slept in separate beds. next morning i head back home and the first message i got from her bore these words, "I'm sorry, I am not looking for a relationship"
you're a good guy. she wanted to be used but you slpt in a different bed. keep the faith brother. I think she was wrong for you, she needed a speed boat and you were a cargo ship. you won. she was a hypocrit.------ This poll is Archived ------
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