Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here? (69)

Aug 13, 2010 4:53 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
skinnyminnypink: Sorry, petal ... just be careful?


no problem at allhug
Aug 13, 2010 4:54 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
libroman: No I wish there were more sites like here. Nice to get to know people first and it can help get across your personality.

I don't mean this in an insulting way, but most of the regulars here are out of my age range (and vice versa I'd imagine) so it is not really an issue anyway.


G-man, how's you? We do make friends here ..... I think of you as a friend and would love to meet you at one of the picnics?? But we don't match each other's needs/wants/desires ... whilst we can have a laugh, you know that I will not fulfill your every desire !!!!!!!!!!

teddybear
Aug 13, 2010 4:54 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
i would say friendship comes before love
i knew sv nearly 2 years on cs before we started dating seriously
and even after 9 months living together we still manage to suprise each other
Aug 13, 2010 4:54 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
skyblue43: Is this 'dickhead' phenomenon a recent thing? There have been some prime specimens of the male and female variety this past couple of weeks...


Oh we've had many dickheads of epedemic proportions down through the years. A lot of good people left due to fake profilers last year. We still haven't quite recovered though we seem to be getting there.grin
Aug 13, 2010 4:55 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
Godsgift: No big deal. She did call me Godsgift in Stephens Green which passers by found very amusing!


Ha ha- well of all the folk I had to ask for directions to the bar the meet was in!!laugh ( and it did raise your street cred that all women approach you like thatwink )
Aug 13, 2010 4:55 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
libroman
libromanlibromanDublin/Wicklow, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 764 Posts
James_Pond: speaking for myself, i'll be honest i'm probably a bit too familiar on here, i miss the regular hangouts with friends in real life, would do anything to have that back. plenty of nice folk on here, but ya know..


I get that a bit too. My time on here has coincided with having a research project to do, so I have to be online doing that anyway. I miss the day-to-day interactions and hang-outs from class or work.

On that note, next Friday...FREEDOM!!!
Aug 13, 2010 4:56 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
tallaght_guy: i would say friendship comes before love
i knew sv nearly 2 years on cs before we started dating seriously
and even after 9 months living together we still manage to suprise each other


And does sv know about you and the snake?laugh
Aug 13, 2010 4:57 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
libroman
libromanlibromanDublin/Wicklow, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 764 Posts
skinnyminnypink: G-man, how's you? We do make friends here ..... I think of you as a friend and would love to meet you at one of the picnics?? But we don't match each other's needs/wants/desires ... whilst we can have a laugh, you know that I will not fulfill your every desire !!!!!!!!!!


Oh yeah you are dead right, you'll get to see my real-life madness at some stage too laugh

I was very surprised at how quickly I made friends here, the likes of yourself, alpha, passion, modders etc, all great people!
Aug 13, 2010 4:57 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
I wonder if we're a little bit backwards about coming forwards.

We don't want the piss taken out of us on the forums if something did come of a mutual attraction. Not that it would happen hole

Does that prevent us taking the first steps towards a date?

What if the breakup is a tough one? Could we still continue on in a normal fashion on the forums even though the other person is still there, and posting?
Aug 13, 2010 4:58 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
James_Pond: speaking for myself, i'll be honest i'm probably a bit too familiar on here, i miss the regular hangouts with friends in real life, would do anything to have that back. plenty of nice folk on here, but ya know..


why can you not have that back? ( if that's not toopersonal a ??) I think there's nothing wrong with being on here if you can't go out that night, but not healthy if you don't go out so that you can be on here. ( using 'you' because saying 'one' just seems so pretentiouslaugh )
Aug 13, 2010 4:59 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
70Libra: I wonder if we're a little bit backwards about coming forwards.

We don't want the piss taken out of us on the forums if something did come of a mutual attraction. Not that it would happen

Does that prevent us taking the first steps towards a date?

What if the breakup is a tough one? Could we still continue on in a normal fashion on the forums even though the other person is still there, and posting?


Many good questions, D ... it's like a little club and we all know each other and we drift in and out ...


dunno
Aug 13, 2010 5:01 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
70Libra: I wonder if we're a little bit backwards about coming forwards.

We don't want the piss taken out of us on the forums if something did come of a mutual attraction. Not that it would happen

Does that prevent us taking the first steps towards a date?

What if the breakup is a tough one? Could we still continue on in a normal fashion on the forums even though the other person is still there, and posting?


That question has me wondering too! Do you get one shot at dating a forum poster and if it doesn't work out its all too public?
Aug 13, 2010 5:03 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
L1977C
L1977CL1977Cdublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 3,219 Posts
skyblue43: That question has me wondering too! Do you get one shot at dating a forum poster and if it doesn't work out its all too public?

na ye pick yourself up and move onhandshake
Aug 13, 2010 5:05 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
libroman
libromanlibromanDublin/Wicklow, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 764 Posts
skyblue43: That question has me wondering too! Do you get one shot at dating a forum poster and if it doesn't work out its all too public?


I think that is where people should both agree to not post about any dates/relationships here. Even if thngs were going well, just leave personal details out of here. It can get messy and I'd include posting threads about what somebody was e-mailed as well.

I think the forums should be for a laugh, a flirt and a bit of debate.
Aug 13, 2010 5:06 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
well best policy is dont advertise it on forums
L1977C: na ye pick yourself up and move on
Aug 13, 2010 5:07 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
was to sky blue
tallaght_guy: well best policy is dont advertise it on forums
Aug 13, 2010 5:07 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
L1977C: na ye pick yourself up and move on


Been there, done that, worn the t-shirt ....

agree whole heartedly ....


teddybear
Aug 13, 2010 5:07 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
70Libra: I wonder if we're a little bit backwards about coming forwards.

We don't want the piss taken out of us on the forums if something did come of a mutual attraction. Not that it would happen

Does that prevent us taking the first steps towards a date?

What if the breakup is a tough one? Could we still continue on in a normal fashion on the forums even though the other person is still there, and posting?


tried to mail you but I'm blocked- I promise not to hit on you!!laugh ( well not on the first mail anywaydunno )
Aug 13, 2010 5:08 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
GalwayGuy35
GalwayGuy35GalwayGuy35galway, Galway Ireland25 Threads 1,537 Posts
In response to: Do you remember when you joined CS hoping you would find the partner of your dreams?

Well, it occurs to me that many of us have become such good friends, that there is no hope of any of us dating on here. There's no mystery for us.

What's your thoughts?

Sure only a few people use the foruns its a big site and who says that you have to only date someone that uses the forums. I find it strange that some people have been on here for years though.
Aug 13, 2010 5:09 PM CST Do We Know Each Other Too Well On Here?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
skyblue43: That question has me wondering too! Do you get one shot at dating a forum poster and if it doesn't work out its all too public?


I think it's ok if you do it the right way. I've seen relationships turn into soap operas on here and it's disasterous with both parties playing to the gallery. When they break up, sometimes you feel you're expected to take sides.

But we do have members who are in relationships but they come in here as individuals. So basically, have fun but keep your private life private.conversing
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