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Larf75: Sometimes I think that it's because we don't allow ourselves to be single long enough to move on in the right direction. I was never single before I split from my ex but now I've been single for so long that I don't seem to want to settle at all.
we eventually become comfortable with the fact we don’t really need anybody else to complete us. We function quite well as a single unit. I don’t want to start my life all over again- Ive done all the dreaming, bounding, accumulating with my ex spouse over many years… now I just want to live my life happily within my own means. oh and write about my dates on here. 
ybfayl: we eventually become comfortable with the fact we don’t really need anybody else to complete us. We function quite well as a single unit. I don’t want to start my life all over again- Ive done all the dreaming, bounding, accumulating with my ex spouse over many years… now I just want to live my life happily within my own means. oh and write about my dates on here.
I agree that we become comfortable at being a single unit, I have done so for years now
But I dont believe that human beings are meant to live by themselves............whats the point of a great event or experience in your life if you cant share it with someone who cares and understands you
DJMcC: I agree that we become comfortable at being a single unit, I have done so for years now But I dont believe that human beings are meant to live by themselves............whats the point of a great event or experience in your life if you cant share it with someone who cares and understands you
There are always benefits when it come to holding onto memories. I cannot share the best years of my life, my youth, my events with the person I wrote them with. Do I want to write new ones? I am with many new people and at the end of the day the value is the same. A passing memory that eventually dies out. 
ybfayl: There are always benefits when it come to holding onto memories. I cannot share the best years of my life, my youth, my events with the person I wrote them with. Do I want to write new ones? I am with many new people and at the end of the day the value is the same. A passing memory that eventually dies out.
My thoughts are that we are, intrinsically, the same people that we were years ago .. but maybe our experiences since have made us grow and learn
Especially for those of us who haven't been in a relationship for a while, we may find that we have become more comfortable in our skins and know what we want now, and particularly, what we don't.
I think that being with someone 24/7 can tend to cloud your judgement for a while and if the relationship ends, you need to clear your head, go back to scratch and find you again.
So it's a two-way street in my books, yeah we can get too comfortable in that skin, thinking we can do it all alone or we can take our growth and knowledge into a new relationship ... grounded, balanced and truly knowing what we need from, and have to give to it.
serene56: My thoughts are that we are, intrinsically, the same people that we were years ago .. but maybe our experiences since have made us grow and learn
Especially for those of us who haven't been in a relationship for a while, we may find that we have become more comfortable in our skins and know what we want now, and particularly, what we don't.
I think that being with someone 24/7 can tend to cloud your judgement for a while and if the relationship ends, you need to clear your head, go back to scratch and find you again.
So it's a two-way street in my books, yeah we can get too comfortable in that skin, thinking we can do it all alone or we can take our growth and knowledge into a new relationship ... grounded, balanced and truly knowing what we need from, and have to give to it.
Especially for those of us who haven't been in a relationship for a while, we may find that we have become more comfortable in our skins and know what we want now, and particularly, what we don't.
I think that being with someone 24/7 can tend to cloud your judgement for a while and if the relationship ends, you need to clear your head, go back to scratch and find you again.
So it's a two-way street in my books, yeah we can get too comfortable in that skin, thinking we can do it all alone or we can take our growth and knowledge into a new relationship ... grounded, balanced and truly knowing what we need from, and have to give to it.
The more you know yourself the more difficult it becomes finding your equal. Our past defines our character, this is our base structure- it is also our trap of greater possibilities in all aspects of our lives. We say this is our past but where have we placed our past??? into our future, limiting ourselves to transformation of new possibilities. This probably wont make sense right now- not unless you can see how our past by placing it into your future places limitations into our present.
ybfayl: I think people want us to be the person they have foolishly pushed away in search for somebody better.
Maybe or maybe they wouldnt know what they wanted even if they tripped over it.
annie_nsw: Maybe or maybe they wouldnt know what they wanted even if they tripped over it.
I know one thing- I can live with my mistakes but I cannot accept anybody else’s, even if they are the same mistakes I have made. I want somebody better than me but wont accept anybody the same or less. I bet there are many out there like me. ybfayl: The more you know yourself the more difficult it becomes finding your equal. Our past defines our character, this is our base structure- it is also our trap of greater possibilities in all aspects of our lives. We say this is our past but where have we placed our past??? into our future, limiting ourselves to transformation of new possibilities. This probably wont make sense right now- not unless you can see how our past by placing it into your future places limitations into our present.
Hmmm, I know what you're saying
But if in knowing myself, it stops me making the same mistakes I'm thinking that's gotta be a good thing ..
So then, if I resist being attracted to the type of man who has done my head in, in the past, surely that opens my psyche up to the possibilities/opportunities that may have been there but I missed them
.. if they are still there, only time will tell. I feel that I'm using my past to clarify my future, not limit it and my present is at this time, set in neutral, in a good way
Yeah yeah yada yada..
Twodawgz: Yeah yeah yada yada..
like my new hair do? you should do something with that mop on yer head 
ybfayl: like my new hair do? you should do something with that mop on yer head
You should try straightening it would suit you better.
Twodawgz: Yeah yeah yada yada..
Bit too deep for ya luv
Twodawgz: Yeah yeah yada yada..
yada yada yada........
tarnsnz: yada yada yada........
That's after watching a few chick flicks
The one joys of been single
tarnsnz: That's after watching a few chick flicks
The one joys of been single
The one joys of been single
And here's another one
heyhey hunn
hey hunny im deffinitly intrested in u , and would love to meet u in person and to get to noe u mwaaa , if u intrested msg me on my number ########## mwa hope we speek soon .
23yr olds these days
serene56: And here's another one heyhey hunn
hey hunny im deffinitly intrested in u , and would love to meet u in person and to get to noe u mwaaa , if u intrested msg me on my number ########## mwa hope we speek soon .23yr olds these days
hey hunny im deffinitly intrested in u , and would love to meet u in person and to get to noe u mwaaa , if u intrested msg me on my number ########## mwa hope we speek soon .23yr olds these days
Did the reply message say "go sit & rotate"
Where do they get off
NO, actually - don't answer that
out of curiosity- has anybody gone on a date from here without seeing a photo of the person they are just about to sit down for coffee with? I don’t have a photo up on any sites I belong to, yet may people are willing to meet me without any form of ID.
the question is would you?
the question is would you?
ybfayl: out of curiosity- has anybody gone on a date from here without seeing a photo of the person they are just about to sit down for coffee with? I don’t have a photo up on any sites I belong to, yet may people are willing to meet me without any form of ID.
the question is would you?
the question is would you?
Nope, NEVER and no way would I
tarnsnz: Nope, NEVER and no way would I
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Sometimes I think that it's because we don't allow ourselves to be single long enough to move on in the right direction. I was never single before I split from my ex but now I've been single for so long that I don't seem to want to settle at all.