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I had a man, and we were together for over a year, 'two peas in a pod', absolutely and totally in love, never a harsh word between us. He was separated (had been for a year before I met him) .. and the 'ex' didnt know that he was moving on. Trust me when I say, that when she found out, she was one of those women who doesnt actually want him, but NO ONE else will ever get their hands on him either.
She gave him an ultimatum, come back or loose it ALL - the kids. He went back .. I stepped back and walked away (the good church girl). I never contacted him again.
He rang the other day ... We'd not spoken for a year, not one word, text, email. He rang to hear my voice. I hope she is happy, its clear that he isnt. I respect that he (as a man) has to finish what he started, has to stay and make whatever their marriage is work.
But I will never get involved with a separated man again.
that's the scarey part, getting involved in a relationship like that - there are some horrible people out there.
When 2 people split for good, it's good to have a clean cut and both get on with ya own new lives.
You were strong and sensitive Shell to do what you did with someone who you obvioulsy cared about deeply