Personally, I would find that kind of behavior suspicious. He knows you prefer to voice talk, because you told him so; and still he insists on texting. Could be nothing, but I think he's hiding something.
Maybe he is simple at work and not so comfortable calling and say sweet words when other people listen?.....
I don't like if somebody call me without a concrete reason and bother me when I'm working, so text is not so annoying... I never call to my man with stupid question 20 times in a day 'What are you doing honey, I miss you...?" and don't want receive such calls
tarcandor: Well, I can understand him texting more then calling, for some people it's more convenient that way. I for one prefer to call, unless I think I might catch her at a time when she's too busy to answer the phone.
As for your case, since you've told him often that you would prefer to be called, I think it's a bit strange that he would continue to text instead of calling..... Maybe jsut ask him why he doesn't call more often ?
I already did...but he'd laugh or somehow divert the topic. Well, I realize that I get distracted quite easily too, so I seldom push for the answer. Should I give him one more chance, and ask him via text, or ask him when we meet or do I just ignore his texts and refuse to respond unless he calls (in which case, I think he'll call me childish for doing that...) What's the most mature thing to do here?
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