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Aug 22, 2010 8:55 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
keepinitsimple
keepinitsimplekeepinitsimpleJakarta, Indonesia4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
When you were (/are) in a relationship with a lady, do you call her? How often? Or do you use text messages mostly?
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Aug 22, 2010 8:59 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
keepinitsimple: When you were (/are) in a relationship with a lady, do you call her? How often? Or do you use text messages mostly?

Nope...I wait to be called ore messaged
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Aug 22, 2010 8:59 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
jeffc320
jeffc320jeffc320burnley, Lancashire, England UK11 Threads 461 Posts
I call so i can hear their voice. its much better than texting.
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Aug 22, 2010 9:01 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
I have set up an intercom to the kitchen ......grin
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Aug 22, 2010 9:03 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
jeffc320: I call so i can hear their voice. its much better than texting.


I have to agree with you jeff handshake
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Aug 22, 2010 9:04 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
Yes, I do.grin
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Aug 22, 2010 9:16 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
keepinitsimple
keepinitsimplekeepinitsimpleJakarta, Indonesia4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
Why? If u miss her, shouldn't u tell her?
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Aug 22, 2010 9:16 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
keepinitsimple
keepinitsimplekeepinitsimpleJakarta, Indonesia4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
Boban1: Nope...I wait to be called ore messaged


Why? If u miss her, shouldn't u tell her?
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Aug 22, 2010 9:17 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
keepinitsimple
keepinitsimplekeepinitsimpleJakarta, Indonesia4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
RDM59: I have set up an intercom to the kitchen ......


Nice...thumbs up
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Aug 22, 2010 9:17 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
keepinitsimple: Why? If u miss her, shouldn't u tell her?


and give an ego booster ????devil
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Aug 22, 2010 9:18 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
ooivoryloveroo
ooivoryloverooooivoryloveroolondon, Greater London, England UK1 Posts
In response to: When you were (/are) in a relationship with a lady, do you call her? How often? Or do you use text messages mostly?


Yes I call/text as and when the impulse comes to me... sometimes too often and sometimes not often enough it all depends on the girl in question...
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Aug 22, 2010 9:21 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
why did i click on this? confused
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Aug 22, 2010 9:25 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
plainlyjune: why did i click on this?


Probably looking for me
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Aug 22, 2010 9:25 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
keepinitsimple: Nice...


I am very thoughtful you know, and it saves her having to shout ....yawn grin

I don't like that when the football is on TV ...cheers
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Aug 22, 2010 9:48 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
The last time I was in a relationship texting had not been invented yet.
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Aug 22, 2010 9:51 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts

grin
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Aug 22, 2010 9:52 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
Amrita
AmritaAmritaRiga, Latvia3 Threads 1 Polls 139 Posts
diogenes: I say trust your gut instinct.

Personally, I would find that kind of behavior suspicious. He knows you prefer to voice talk, because you told him so; and still he insists on texting. Could be nothing, but I think he's hiding something.


Maybe he is simple at work and not so comfortable calling and say sweet words when other people listen?.....

I don't like if somebody call me without a concrete reason and bother me when I'm working, so text is not so annoying... I never call to my man with stupid question 20 times in a day 'What are you doing honey, I miss you...?" and don't want receive such calls yay
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Aug 22, 2010 9:53 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
sunny_1982
sunny_1982sunny_1982Malmö, Skane Sweden1 Threads 24 Posts
keepinitsimple: When you were (/are) in a relationship with a lady, do you call her? How often? Or do you use text messages mostly?

call her, if she deseve it
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Aug 22, 2010 9:54 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
hotstuff34
hotstuff34hotstuff34belfast, Antrim Ireland1 Threads 555 Posts
sunny_1982: call her, if she deseve it
laugh laugh
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Aug 22, 2010 9:55 AM CST Guys, do you call ur girlfriends?
keepinitsimple
keepinitsimplekeepinitsimpleJakarta, Indonesia4 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
tarcandor: Well, I can understand him texting more then calling, for some people it's more convenient that way. I for one prefer to call, unless I think I might catch her at a time when she's too busy to answer the phone.

As for your case, since you've told him often that you would prefer to be called, I think it's a bit strange that he would continue to text instead of calling..... Maybe jsut ask him why he doesn't call more often ?


I already did...but he'd laugh or somehow divert the topic. Well, I realize that I get distracted quite easily too, so I seldom push for the answer. Should I give him one more chance, and ask him via text, or ask him when we meet or do I just ignore his texts and refuse to respond unless he calls (in which case, I think he'll call me childish for doing that...) What's the most mature thing to do here?
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