nanners2863: Time is only relevant to the couple involved.
Absolutely. Everyone's journey is different. In times of war, many couples met briefly and hit it off and married, then were separated for months, even maybe over a year, and then reunited, etc... These marriages astonishingly seem to last, while some relationships which were carefully groomed over long periods of time, before tying the knot, last, oh, ten, fifteen, maybe even twenty-five years and then, poof, they're gone. No guarantees. And yes, I do believe in love at first sight. On the internet? Um, the jury is still out, but I am open-minded to the idea.
Amity: Is that wrong of me then?yes it was banter...nothing more.God i never thought i would be warned from having a laugh with someone..i dont know the man, i dont know the mans history...and i dont care.
Amity: Is that wrong of me then?yes it was banter...nothing more.God i never thought i would be warned from having a laugh with someone..i dont know the man, i dont know the mans history...and i dont care.
catcha laters.
WTF do you mean warned??, geez woman you have a sensative issue, dont go getting upset over nothing!
Well, my parents who have been married for 35 years knew each other for 3 weeks before getting married, seems to have worked for them, however, they met in real life and I would not likely go down the same route as them personally. But I think it can work.
deadbutwhy: I've come across a few folks in here who have announced being in love after a week of talking to each other, and folks who have arranged their marriage and their future together after a month. They didn't have the chance to meet, as they live in different continents.
I do wish these folks the best in their lives and that their love remains strong. However, I'm a bit skeptical/worried when things happen so fast, like we are in a hurry or something... maybe I'm wrong.
Do you think there is such a thing as too much too soon?
Is this the same people always getting frustrated with so called scammers or the real deal scammers
deadbutwhy: I've come across a few folks in here who have announced being in love after a week of talking to each other, and folks who have arranged their marriage and their future together after a month. They didn't have the chance to meet, as they live in different continents.
I do wish these folks the best in their lives and that their love remains strong. However, I'm a bit skeptical/worried when things happen so fast, like we are in a hurry or something... maybe I'm wrong.
Do you think there is such a thing as too much too soon?
Skeptical is good. But so it hope. Personally it takes me alot longer to think I like someone. And a meeting would be preferred.
Just brings to mind that some people like to throw caution to the wind to take a risk.
Some people are sure this is the 'one'.. or at least that is 'one of the ones'. Some are in a hurry. Feeling that time is of the essence, make something now, even if it is a memory.
And I think, we all want to be the exception to the rule.
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
trurorob: WTF do you mean warned??, geez woman you have a sensative issue, dont go getting upset over nothing!
Who said i was upset? I just dont like being named as someone who is "on a seek and destroy"mission...whatever that means? Its not nice to have your posts monitored...and as for being sensitive...guess i am.
I am not saying real or not but a lot of these people are falling for false prophets (scammers) in first couple weeks than wonder why that happened to me?
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