I think this is the exact reason he is looking in other places. Why is some one stupid to look at this option? I think people have become to jaded both men and women in NA as we are spoiled in our countries. I think there had been alot of good points made. I dont see why there has to so much negativity if he wants to do and does what needs to be done thats his choice. Money wasted is one thing its only money a broken heart is another whole story.
Ok so I went and did the same. the only thing I was specific about was age and turned up 14 1 of them was a Brad looked like a man in picture but said women looking for men.
Confused all you need to do is look around the news the tabloids what do you see everyone is selfish some to different degrees but we all are did you really need that 2nd plate of chicken or that extra scoop of ice cream do you really need a new car every year. This comes back to personal preference.
Is there really a correct answer. Men usedto always pay and that was the norm and expected but now do you look cheap if you dont pay. If you try to pay are you trying to send women back 50 years as you know women have the right to vote now. I think it has become so wishy washy now I dont ex[ect alot any more i just try to go with the flow and if i feel like paying it all I do.
I am not saying real or not but a lot of these people are falling for false prophets (scammers) in first couple weeks than wonder why that happened to me?
ya it always does but I am also realistic. I think there might be all of 500 people on this whole site from Saskatchewan and maybe 10 from Saskatoon But I do love to travel I am thinking when it hit -40 this winter here I will need lots of candy to keep me warm ok I will settle for hot coco.
Want me to smack him for ya? I will even go as far as say we are going o such and such a place and formal is the dress or if we are going to a ball game I make sure she knows in advance to wear the shorts and flip flops if she wants.
It’s never easy to find that right one internet does not make it easier. I have never had an easy time meeting the ladies but hey i will always keep trying. I think jac said it very well. I look at it this way. This is a place to chat maybe it lucky meet some people but a relation is some that comes with time and equal and shared giving and receiving. If it not both ways it was just one sided and doomed from the beginning.
I am in the same boat. I do not feel it is sinking. I just moved to a new city so I have gotten out some. This fall kids will be in some sports and I have been told there are a lot of single hockey moms where I live. I feel it’s just about getting to know people. The ones you’re getting to know may not be the match but she may have a friend she wants you to meet. Here to the future.
I think it all still comes down to what exact age range you are discussing. How many 40 year olds really want to settle down with a 20 year old now year some may like the idea of a little frolic but honestly move in and be serious? Count me out. I am 39 soon to be 40. My target would be around 32-42 if adjusting age I would be willing to go older if she was into a lot of sports and very active but not younger.
EE I would take you out on a date any time even if you are 20 years older than me but I do find it interesting you mention guys wanting younger when that is what you also want. The thing is we all want something. I think a lot of good points were mention and I think it works both sides of the fence. We all want our cake and eat it to but all need to wake up and realize this is a computer and not real as when you actually meet people you truly find out what they are about and what things the like about a certain person and what they may not but that is also when they will decide is this something I am willing to overlook as they are so many other good points. For those who said this was about men. Yes that was the initial post but really it’s about life and a computer to help find a date. We all need a just go do things more get involved.
RE: MAIL ORDER BRIDES
Why so negative?Are all men Chauvinistic?