What?? do-did you do to get over him-her ( Archived) (36)

Sep 14, 2010 8:21 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
This is nothing new to me
I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW
The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on

I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working out
It could have and we both talked about moving on it was a mutual-agreeable parting

You know what I am really feeling it was like I came so close to it being perfect someone that was just right in so many ways
and I waited over 6 years to find or be with someone if it takes that long again I dont think I have the energy or presence of mind to even want to try again
so so so so close
please just share with me some of the things that help you get over him or her













sigh sigh
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Sep 14, 2010 8:25 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
What becomes of the broken hearted...we pick our selfs up and move on,it time we meet some one new and start to feel again....good luckhug wave
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Sep 14, 2010 8:32 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
After my marriage broke up i went to several zoos. Found the animals very calming & soon felt much better banana
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Sep 14, 2010 8:37 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
darren9030: After my marriage broke up i went to several zoos. Found the animals very calming & soon felt much better


Now you didn't "touch" those animals right? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing handshake
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Sep 14, 2010 8:54 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
TaylorBradford
TaylorBradfordTaylorBradfordSo.Cal., California USA2 Threads 92 Posts
I think time, good friends . . . and a loving and understanding family. I was engaged . . . and out of no where, no fights, no tension . . . we just broke it off . . after 3 1/2 years. It's been almost a year now, and I am in a great place. . . but it took a long time. At first, I thought by dating again, which I felt I needed to do, even though I wasn't ready, had to learn to get back on the horse. It was too soon, and all they were, were first dates. Now, I have chosen to stay single, and find me . . make me happy, travel to Europe, and start planning things for me. I don't need anyone, but sometime soon, would like to fall in love again . . and this time for good. Anyway, it's just takes time. Grieve if you have to. Talk to a therapist if you need to. But, most important, let yourself go through the grieving process. Having unconditional support is the best. . . . just be patient. Everything will be good again.
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Sep 14, 2010 8:57 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
darren9030: After my marriage broke up i went to several zoos. Found the animals very calming & soon felt much better
seriously??? it took more than that right ??? rolling on the floor laughing well I am starting to feel better sigh
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Sep 14, 2010 9:01 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
demonfairy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tsJ34LSTDbA What becomes of the broken hearted...we pick our selfs up and move on,it time we meet some one new and start to feel again....good luck
thats just it I dont want to feel right now ,,,I know maybe I will again,,,but aaaaaaaaaaa this sucks big timehug thank you tho,,, for the encouraging words
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Sep 14, 2010 9:07 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
2intrigued: Now you didn't "touch" those animals right?


Only the lions wink
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Sep 14, 2010 9:09 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
lovely4u7da: seriously??? it took more than that right ??? well I am starting to feel better


Yes i went here :

& here :


Monkey world especially made me put things into perspective as those poor things have been mistreated & i don't mind admitting i cried there. It did help me come to terms with divorce though thumbs up
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Sep 14, 2010 9:12 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
hole detective hmmm devil
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Sep 14, 2010 9:19 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
uhm, i'd say don't talk to him for a time. Not saying you can't communicate ever. But it somehow muffles the heart's longing. Although, on my experience, when we start being friends again the love just springs back to life for both of us. I'm not helping ... doh
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Sep 14, 2010 9:22 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
This is nothing new to me
I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW
The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on

I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working out


Maybe try to not thing so much about it. dunno
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Sep 14, 2010 9:25 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Im sending some healing angels after your butt Lovely...Healing just takes as long as it takes...be easy on yourself for awhile lovey hug teddybear
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Sep 14, 2010 9:26 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
Softshell
SoftshellSoftshellGoodman, Missouri USA253 Posts
lovely4u7da: This is nothing new to me
I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW
The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on

I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working out
It could have and we both talked about moving on it was a mutual-agreeable parting

You know what I am really feeling it was like I came so close to it being perfect someone that was just right in so many ways
and I waited over 6 years to find or be with someone if it takes that long again I dont think I have the energy or presence of mind to even want to try again
so so so so close
please just share with me some of the things that help you get over him or her
Start working on finding you, find what you enjoy , what makes you happy, those things will not only make you feel better , but more confident and that guy will become past a whole lot faster, but a great result is another man might see how confident you have become that knows you well and might just be the right guy for you when he falls inlove with you, real love, not the lust crap..wink
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Sep 14, 2010 9:28 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Softshell: Start working on finding you, find what you enjoy , what makes you happy, those things will not only make you feel better , but more confident and that guy will become past a whole lot faster, but a great result is another man might see how confident you have become that knows you well and might just be the right guy for you when he falls inlove with you, real love, not the lust crap..



What's the matter with lust?tongue

It's as good a start as any other, isn't it? At least you now there's an attraction.grin

wave hug
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Sep 14, 2010 9:39 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
After a 24 yr marriage and having taken the decision to be apart, it took me a few months to say and to feel I am over it and I did (and do) keep the good things, the good memories and I did see it as a finished chapter in my life. Now I am a happier person.

I hope you will get over him in a positive way and the time it will take you is not important what is important is how you deal with it.

and you will get over it, the world is yours!

bouquet
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Sep 14, 2010 9:43 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
jeepers: This is nothing new to me
I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW
The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on

I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working outMaybe try to not thing so much about it.
How do you stop thinking jeepers? but I will dismiss the thoughts when they do come and think on lovely things laugh
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Sep 14, 2010 9:44 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
venusenvy: Im sending some healing angels after your butt Lovely...Healing just takes as long as it takes...be easy on yourself for awhile lovey
AAAAAAAA thank you I am feeling better,,, I am angel
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Sep 14, 2010 9:46 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
Softshell: Start working on finding you, find what you enjoy , what makes you happy, those things will not only make you feel better , but more confident and that guy will become past a whole lot faster, but a great result is another man might see how confident you have become that knows you well and might just be the right guy for you when he falls inlove with you, real love, not the lust crap..
Lust on his part love on mine

I am moving on dancing
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Sep 14, 2010 9:48 PM CST What?? do-did you do to get over him-her
Softshell
SoftshellSoftshellGoodman, Missouri USA253 Posts
kidatheart: What's the matter with lust?

It's as good a start as any other, isn't it? At least you now there's an attraction.
Not a darn thing wrong with Lust..devil just it's only short term ......tongue Unless there is more behind it...love
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