This is nothing new to me I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on
I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working out It could have and we both talked about moving on it was a mutual-agreeable parting
You know what I am really feeling it was like I came so close to it being perfect someone that was just right in so many ways and I waited over 6 years to find or be with someone if it takes that long again I dont think I have the energy or presence of mind to even want to try again so so so so close please just share with me some of the things that help you get over him or her
I think time, good friends . . . and a loving and understanding family. I was engaged . . . and out of no where, no fights, no tension . . . we just broke it off . . after 3 1/2 years. It's been almost a year now, and I am in a great place. . . but it took a long time. At first, I thought by dating again, which I felt I needed to do, even though I wasn't ready, had to learn to get back on the horse. It was too soon, and all they were, were first dates. Now, I have chosen to stay single, and find me . . make me happy, travel to Europe, and start planning things for me. I don't need anyone, but sometime soon, would like to fall in love again . . and this time for good. Anyway, it's just takes time. Grieve if you have to. Talk to a therapist if you need to. But, most important, let yourself go through the grieving process. Having unconditional support is the best. . . . just be patient. Everything will be good again.
demonfairy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tsJ34LSTDbA What becomes of the broken hearted...we pick our selfs up and move on,it time we meet some one new and start to feel again....good luck
thats just it I dont want to feel right now ,,,I know maybe I will again,,,but aaaaaaaaaaa this sucks big time thank you tho,,, for the encouraging words
Monkey world especially made me put things into perspective as those poor things have been mistreated & i don't mind admitting i cried there. It did help me come to terms with divorce though
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
uhm, i'd say don't talk to him for a time. Not saying you can't communicate ever. But it somehow muffles the heart's longing. Although, on my experience, when we start being friends again the love just springs back to life for both of us. I'm not helping ...
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
This is nothing new to me I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on
I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working out
lovely4u7da: This is nothing new to me I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on
I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working out It could have and we both talked about moving on it was a mutual-agreeable parting
You know what I am really feeling it was like I came so close to it being perfect someone that was just right in so many ways and I waited over 6 years to find or be with someone if it takes that long again I dont think I have the energy or presence of mind to even want to try again so so so so close please just share with me some of the things that help you get over him or her
Start working on finding you, find what you enjoy , what makes you happy, those things will not only make you feel better , but more confident and that guy will become past a whole lot faster, but a great result is another man might see how confident you have become that knows you well and might just be the right guy for you when he falls inlove with you, real love, not the lust crap..
Softshell: Start working on finding you, find what you enjoy , what makes you happy, those things will not only make you feel better , but more confident and that guy will become past a whole lot faster, but a great result is another man might see how confident you have become that knows you well and might just be the right guy for you when he falls inlove with you, real love, not the lust crap..
What's the matter with lust?
It's as good a start as any other, isn't it? At least you now there's an attraction.
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
After a 24 yr marriage and having taken the decision to be apart, it took me a few months to say and to feel I am over it and I did (and do) keep the good things, the good memories and I did see it as a finished chapter in my life. Now I am a happier person.
I hope you will get over him in a positive way and the time it will take you is not important what is important is how you deal with it.
jeepers: This is nothing new to me I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on
I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working outMaybe try to not thing so much about it.
How do you stop thinking jeepers? but I will dismiss the thoughts when they do come and think on lovely things
Softshell: Start working on finding you, find what you enjoy , what makes you happy, those things will not only make you feel better , but more confident and that guy will become past a whole lot faster, but a great result is another man might see how confident you have become that knows you well and might just be the right guy for you when he falls inlove with you, real love, not the lust crap..
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I have had to get over someone before but it was not this hard, its been only 3 weeks (to soon)? well I want it to be over NOW
The other times I broke it off and it was just easier to move on
I cant think of enough bad things to make it all make sense for it not working out
It could have and we both talked about moving on it was a mutual-agreeable parting
You know what I am really feeling it was like I came so close to it being perfect someone that was just right in so many ways
and I waited over 6 years to find or be with someone if it takes that long again I dont think I have the energy or presence of mind to even want to try again
so so so so close
please just share with me some of the things that help you get over him or her