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chococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 PostsDoes long distance really work? let me rephrase..can it work?
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chococherrie: Does long distance really work? let me rephrase..can it work?
Try it. 
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jeepers: Try it.
i did years b4..it didnt work!
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jeepers: Try it.
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chococherrie: Does long distance really work? let me rephrase..can it work?
It can work, if you want it to.
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chococherrie: i did years b4..it didnt work!
It can work. Has to be the right person... near or far.------ This thread is Archived ------
It wouldnt work for me..it has worked for some couples here on CS and i can only imagine it takes a lot of trust, commitement and willingness with mega patience thrown in..
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scottyburd: It wouldnt work for me..it has worked for some couples here on CS and i can only imagine it takes a lot of trust, commitement and willingness with mega patience thrown in..
yes i find that sumtimes love aint enough?
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When i was married,if she lived 10,000 miles away, it would have worked,
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chococherrie: Does long distance really work? let me rephrase..can it work?
It depends on the circumstance. If you are dating rich guy it may or may not be problem assuming that the person does not live same country you live. For average joe this may be a problem, since the cost of getting the immigration paperwork for somebody else is very discouraging; it takes time and lots of money. Also, if the person works for a living it may not be easy to get enough time off to go and visit that person in another country.
For relationship to work you have able to see that person on a more periodic basis, share time with that person and get to know that person. You cannot carry a relationship over the net; that's not a relationship.
At least that is my point of view; other may think differently.
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time4fun4u: When i was married,if she lived 10,000 miles away, it would have worked,
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scottyburd: It wouldnt work for me..it has worked for some couples here on CS and i can only imagine it takes a lot of trust, commitement and willingness with mega patience thrown in..
Yes, all those things & they take time to build. There are advantages & disadvantages to it being long distance. With a long distance, you're usually forced to take longer to get to know someone, & can't rush into things. And that's a plus.Sometimes, tho, it's not as easy to communicate. Some things are easier to explain or discuss in person. But if it's the right person, you'll get through with exactly those things scottyburd posted.
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time4fun4u: When i was married,if she lived 10,000 miles away, it would have worked,
LOL... I assume she's wanting a GOOD marriage 
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SCatlyn: LOL... I assume she's wanting a GOOD marriage
Thats right, blimey, i wouldnt even marry me ------ This thread is Archived ------
time4fun4u: Thats right, blimey, i wouldnt even marry me
Oh, I didn't mean it that way... I meant the OP would like a good relationship(yours didn't appear to be the.. ummm... close type) - 
P.S.The above is an example of long distance communication misunderstandings
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SCatlyn: Oh, I didn't mean it that way... I meant the OP would like a good relationship(yours didn't appear to be the.. ummm... close type) -
P.S.The above is an example of long distance communication misunderstandings
P.S.The above is an example of long distance communication misunderstandings
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I have a girlfriend who met and eventually married a guy long distance- she was in Sydney but moved to Scotland to be with him...love can do that.
However, I often have scammers email me from the other side of the world with comments like "I read your profile and just had to email you. I was born in Liberia, educated from Edinburgh, grew up into New Jersey and I'm current in New York. Distance not is a problem because love is all that matters".
My reply goes something like "Yep, love is all that matters and distance is not a problem...say, lets meet up on Friday night for a few drinks and a movie". I live in Sydney- so I never hear back from them- but they must think I was born yesterday. Sadly, some of us were.
However, I often have scammers email me from the other side of the world with comments like "I read your profile and just had to email you. I was born in Liberia, educated from Edinburgh, grew up into New Jersey and I'm current in New York. Distance not is a problem because love is all that matters".
My reply goes something like "Yep, love is all that matters and distance is not a problem...say, lets meet up on Friday night for a few drinks and a movie". I live in Sydney- so I never hear back from them- but they must think I was born yesterday. Sadly, some of us were.
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scottyburd: It wouldnt work for me..it has worked for some couples here on CS and i can only imagine it takes a lot of trust, commitement and willingness with mega patience thrown in..
Yes, so very true.....i agree with that....Strong Commitment and Determination and Strong Love, Trust and Patience can make it through and in our case, Prayers and Strong Relationship with God make us both strong and at the same page, Praise God and in Jesus Christ name,God's Will be done....amen...
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robsantiago15: It depends on the circumstance. If you are dating rich guy it may or may not be problem assuming that the person does not live same country you live.
For average joe this may be a problem, since the cost of getting the immigration paperwork for somebody else is very discouraging; it takes time and lots of money. Also, if the person works for a living it may not be easy to get enough time off to go and visit that person in another country.
For relationship to work you have able to see that person on a more periodic basis, share time with that person and get to know that person. You cannot carry a relationship over the net; that's not a relationship.
At least that is my point of view; other may think differently.
For average joe this may be a problem, since the cost of getting the immigration paperwork for somebody else is very discouraging; it takes time and lots of money. Also, if the person works for a living it may not be easy to get enough time off to go and visit that person in another country.
For relationship to work you have able to see that person on a more periodic basis, share time with that person and get to know that person. You cannot carry a relationship over the net; that's not a relationship.
At least that is my point of view; other may think differently.
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goldiloxgirl: I have a girlfriend who met and eventually married a guy long distance- she was in Sydney but moved to Scotland to be with him...love can do that.
However, I often have scammers email me from the other side of the world with comments like "I read your profile and just had to email you. I was born in Liberia, educated from Edinburgh, grew up into New Jersey and I'm current in New York. Distance not is a problem because love is all that matters".
My reply goes something like "Yep, love is all that matters and distance is not a problem...say, lets meet up on Friday night for a few drinks and a movie". I live in Sydney- so I never hear back from them- but they must think I was born yesterday. Sadly, some of us were.
However, I often have scammers email me from the other side of the world with comments like "I read your profile and just had to email you. I was born in Liberia, educated from Edinburgh, grew up into New Jersey and I'm current in New York. Distance not is a problem because love is all that matters".
My reply goes something like "Yep, love is all that matters and distance is not a problem...say, lets meet up on Friday night for a few drinks and a movie". I live in Sydney- so I never hear back from them- but they must think I was born yesterday. Sadly, some of us were.
hehe the scammers never stops hey?
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