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People like romance as it shows they can display their feelings about the person they care for the most.. As for referring to Tule's situation, only she knows the whole situation and it does not necessarily mean the romance had died, but rather other issues arose which could only be put up with for so long..
I think you are 100% wrong here, and as has been shown here, romance takes various forms, from little gits, big gifts, and simple written words or even just eye contact.. it's all about showing how much you care for your significant other and with both parties making the same effort.. it bodes well for their future, though life throws in many hiccups along the way..
But surely it must include what they can do for you as it is a partnership and by working together it makes it all the more special..
That is not the secret, but it is certainly a good beginning. As with anything in life, you only get out from what you put in... though sometimes if it is always one-sided, then it might be best for both to end it.. Also, why presume the person walking the dog is a loser?? There could be many explanations & in these days, many are working two jobs or more to make ends meet and having quality time with a loved one may not be as long as it used to be.. Finally, not all break-ups are bitter, for some they realise that its just not for them and they even remain friends.. All the best to you though..
Like your expression about life’s hiccups.
Indeed there are lots of it, and lots of dirt and pain, and also one and another disaster of larger scale, irreversible as death. And I don’t see why my little, but pleasant, umbrella-experience irritates this gjhmeij person. (Life is also full of mysteries).
There are different opinions on what “romantic” is, and if one sees “romantic” as capable of showing affection to other people, as attempt to make them feel special (and that attempt doesn’t have to cost much in terms of money), as an effort to lighten up all these burdens and hiccups, nothing’s wrong with that from my point of view.
My neighbours are about to get a puppy… Shall I tell them not to be losers?