Why women prefer romantic men? (41)

Nov 7, 2010 1:40 PM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Yash124g: A few things about your words...
People like romance as it shows they can display their feelings about the person they care for the most.. As for referring to Tule's situation, only she knows the whole situation and it does not necessarily mean the romance had died, but rather other issues arose which could only be put up with for so long..
I think you are 100% wrong here, and as has been shown here, romance takes various forms, from little gits, big gifts, and simple written words or even just eye contact.. it's all about showing how much you care for your significant other and with both parties making the same effort.. it bodes well for their future, though life throws in many hiccups along the way..
But surely it must include what they can do for you as it is a partnership and by working together it makes it all the more special..
That is not the secret, but it is certainly a good beginning. As with anything in life, you only get out from what you put in... though sometimes if it is always one-sided, then it might be best for both to end it.. Also, why presume the person walking the dog is a loser?? There could be many explanations & in these days, many are working two jobs or more to make ends meet and having quality time with a loved one may not be as long as it used to be.. Finally, not all break-ups are bitter, for some they realise that its just not for them and they even remain friends.. All the best to you though..


Like your expression about life’s hiccups. thumbs up

Indeed there are lots of it, and lots of dirt and pain, and also one and another disaster of larger scale, irreversible as death. And I don’t see why my little, but pleasant, umbrella-experience irritates this gjhmeij person. (Life is also full of mysteries).laugh

There are different opinions on what “romantic” is, and if one sees “romantic” as capable of showing affection to other people, as attempt to make them feel special (and that attempt doesn’t have to cost much in terms of money), as an effort to lighten up all these burdens and hiccups, nothing’s wrong with that from my point of view.

My neighbours are about to get a puppy… Shall I tell them not to be losers?

grin
Nov 9, 2010 5:18 PM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Yash124g
Yash124gYash124gEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK9 Threads 1 Polls 1,237 Posts
Thanks Tule and yes there are many a hiccup in one's life, be it self inflicted or other.. uh oh

So what's the neighbour's puppy like & of course his name?? wine grin
Nov 14, 2010 11:00 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Yash124g: Thanks Tule and yes there are many a hiccup in one's life, be it self inflicted or other..

So what's the neighbour's puppy like & of course his name??


Don’t know its name yet, I’ve seen it only from window when the family takes it out. It’s little and very cute, I believe that the race is called kooiker or something like that...
Dec 2, 2010 4:15 PM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
Why women prefer romantic men?

They don't...They will settle for a romantic type guy....but what they really want is a bad assed guy with attiude (bank account that reads like a telephone n° help's)
Dec 6, 2010 7:39 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Daisy777
Daisy777Daisy777Luxembourg, Luxembourg2 Posts
Romantic is not only offering flowers, you know...
Romantic is more to look deep and to pay attention on the other person, to make cute surprises from time to time and be tender:))
The flowers could be offerd as plant in a pot, BTW:)
Dec 9, 2010 11:20 PM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
Daisy777: Romantic is not only offering flowers, you know...
Romantic is more to look deep and to pay attention on the other person, to make cute surprises from time to time and be tender:))
The flowers could be offerd as plant in a pot, BTW:)


Mmmmh... Ah! - whilst she is planting the pot o flowers ,,, a gentle caressing , ...Zaaaaaaarkk! laugh
Dec 10, 2010 9:33 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
CuspofMagic: Mmmmh... Ah! - whilst she a gentle caressing ...


Would have sounded too gay.....Which Cusp or my goodself aren't..

Fit nubiles love their alter ego's to make them complete....
Dec 14, 2010 9:48 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Phoenix: Would have sounded too gay.....Which Cusp or my goodself aren't..

Fit nubiles love their alter ego's to make them complete....




Whereas real women are already complete. For us, a man enrichens the experience. roll eyes
Dec 15, 2010 8:45 PM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
PandoraX: My my my. Such a romantic post on a thread about romantic men.


Tis just a wee bit- oh blarney m lass rolling on the floor laughing
Dec 17, 2010 12:49 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
Tulefel: Agree! Everything depends on place and relevance and timing.

Best romantic gift I ever got was an umbrella in a rainy day. I was standing at a bus stop when it started to rain, and a man asked me whether I’d mind him holding his umbrella over me. I didn’t mind, and it was sooooooooo romantic that it lasted for ages. 9 years actually. It turned out he was an alcoholic (who isn’t in Russia?), but that’s another story.


Russian men(and many other nationalities) has another upbringing then in Sweden. They are taught to pour drinks, hold/open doors, give flowers and so on.
If this makes them more romantic I don't know. I would say it's just different culture. In my opinion it's fake and will eventually pewter out anyway when his goal is achieved.
Who cares if someone is romantic in the start when actually it's the follow up that is important.

Now I'm not a women and couldn't care less about getting gifts.
It makes me prone not giving them as well since the endorfins doesn't kick in when reciving so I can't relate.
If my partner would ask me to get up 3 in the morning to get her something to drink, I do it without complaining.
Is that romantic?
Dec 17, 2010 3:24 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
jovisst: Russian men(and many other nationalities) has another upbringing then in Sweden. They are taught to pour drinks, hold/open doors, give flowers and so on.
If this makes them more romantic I don't know. I would say it's just different culture. In my opinion it's fake and will eventually pewter out anyway when his goal is achieved.
Who cares if someone is romantic in the start when actually it's the follow up that is important.

Now I'm not a women and couldn't care less about getting gifts.
It makes me prone not giving them as well since the endorfins doesn't kick in when reciving so I can't relate.
If my partner would ask me to get up 3 in the morning to get her something to drink, I do it without complaining.
Is that romantic?
Dec 17, 2010 11:42 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixSarkoville, Ile-de-France France110 Threads 32 Polls 2,591 Posts
jovisst: No I don't think so, women need their beuty sleep, but men only gets more distinguished by the years as your self!


Not me....When my time comes I rejuvenate....I' always youthful..
Dec 17, 2010 3:37 PM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Phoenix: .. Tell her to haul her own lazy butt from bed and get what ever it is she wants herself.....


Sooooooo romantic.

laugh
Dec 18, 2010 1:53 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
dawndeb
dawndebdawndebCHICAGO IL, Illinois USA5 Threads 1 Polls 77 Posts
deepbouquet bouquet
Dec 18, 2010 3:31 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
Tulefel: Sooooooo romantic.


Being romantic is different things to different people. Some love the attention and compliments while others get all soft and sweet from a single red rose. None of us will always do the exact right thing until you have had time to learn the others responses. It take time to learn what makes the lady want to snuggle up and purr. Even then it isn't true for a few days every 28 days (ouch). Those are the times it is best to just play a lot of golf. sad flower
Dec 18, 2010 7:16 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Karma10
Karma10Karma10Budapest, Central Hungary Hungary1 Threads 954 Posts
John_73: The womans instinct help her to choose the man who will be a better husband.
But I don't understand how a romantic man would be a better husband.
Let me explain...
Usually romanticism is associated with giving flowers. Now here I see a problem. The flower most often is cut and will die. So you are giving to the person you love an organism which is in pain and will die slowly. Most likely the flower would cry if it would resemble humans.
So why would a woman choose as husband the man who will kill flowers for her?

(As a side note. People seem to prefer real Christmas trees because are natural also many buy plastic trees already. However my instinct tells me that plastic flowers will never be seen on market soon)


Sorry, I do not agree on one thing that women instinct help them to find a husband ..if that would have been the case...CS would'nt have existed and not so many women...along with the men online...::comfort:
Dec 18, 2010 5:27 PM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
oldfoxyguy: Ah haaaa I have you there, my comment was a generality regarding the younger ladies who still have to deal with that mood swing thing. also hopping aboard fertle Myrtle may not always a good idea if babies are not in your plan. I am fortunate enough to have lived through 3 menopauses and I am still alive to tell about it, thank goodness. I've been married for a total of near 60 years and I've seen it all I think but then there can always be a surprise. The after meno lady can be the best of all times. It's play time at the OK coral



oldfoxyguy: I am fortunate enough to have lived through 3 menopauses and I am still alive to tell about it, thank goodness.

That’s a medal!laugh



Actually I also wasn’t referring to anyone, just talked about the subject in general. It’s surprising, but we know so much about each other’s physiology nowadays and still can’t use our knowledge when it’s most necessary.

(Though I personally would prefer to have less of the physiological part… nothing wrong with some air of mystery about your partner… it’s romantic, isn’t it?)

cheers
Dec 19, 2010 12:57 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
Tulefel: That’s a medal!
Actually I also wasn’t referring to anyone, just talked about the subject in general. It’s surprising, but we know so much about each other’s physiology nowadays and still can’t use our knowledge when it’s most necessary.

(Though I personally would prefer to have less of the physiological part… nothing wrong with some air of mystery about your partner… it’s romantic, isn’t it?)


Personally I think a man should learn as much as possible about the physiology of his partner and himself as well. Knowing how and where to simply touch can produce grand effects. After all, Love making can be so much more than just wham bamb, thank you mam, It can start with a hug from behind her with a sweet kiss on her neck. Then, of course, she can contribute to the romantic moment. teddybear danceline Romance means you care enought to take the time to show her she is very special to you. heart beating
Dec 19, 2010 6:38 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
craig63
craig63craig63estepona, Andalusia Spain46 Threads 1,464 Posts
thanks girls it good to see that us romantic men still have a chance in the dating world and romance is not dead.

merry xmas to all you lovley girls kiss
Dec 19, 2010 8:11 AM CST Why women prefer romantic men?
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
oldfoxyguy: Personally I think a man should learn as much as possible about the physiology of his partner and himself as well. Knowing how and where to simply touch can produce grand effects. After all, Love making can be so much more than just wham bamb, thank you mam, It can start with a hug from behind her with a sweet kiss on her neck. Then, of course, she can contribute to the romantic moment. Romance means you care enought to take the time to show her she is very special to you.



Such a marvelous definition… wine (Not a wonder they hanging on your neck in grapes.)grin


By the way, men don’t like “Wham-bump-thank-you-sir” approach either… dunno why… A mystery!idea
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