Ccincy: If I had a ex sure I'd try to make amends with him.Maybe things went sour because both of us at the time of us begining that particular realtionship we weren't quite mature enough to deal with all the responsiblities that came along with it.
After all some people deserve a second chance and some people do change.
Agree totally CC... We all develop as people throughout our lifetime and experiences.... so I know I have changed from who I was 20 years ago....
brum_mumBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK2,659 posts
Try again? If the situation is, that you are both making things worse from time to time with tit for tat childish and hurtful responses(we've all done it), how many chances should be given? How many times do you "try again"? Who should make the most sacrifises? Who ends up hurting the most when they seem to be the only one trying to be "grown up" about it all..? The only one not dragging up past mistakes.. ect ect ect. Perhaps just once, that second chance... Because after that, things just don't go back to the way they were originaly.
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After all some people deserve a second chance and some people do change.
Agree totally CC...
We all develop as people throughout our lifetime and experiences.... so I know I have changed from who I was 20 years ago....