What would you do? (51)
spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
Depends on what the infraction was, and how serious the offense was.
If it was from just some sort of disagreement...then sure...mend it!
If it was something more serious, such as cheating, then NO... would be time to hit the door!
Just my opinion.
-John-
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spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
I can't speak for you, but for me............NOPE
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spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
Um....I would let it be what it is...I'm a firm believer that an ex is an ex for a reason . I think people can be friends with ex's but to be more again, really you're just asking for more of the same that made you ex's in the first place.
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spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
not sure....
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spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you have the ability to change it's course in a positive way and the other party is willing to as well I think you should give it a shot. Best of luck in whatever you decide to do.
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swedenbound: If you have the ability to change it's course in a positive way and the other party is willing to as well I think you should give it a shot. Best of luck in whatever you decide to do.
The op asked about an ex relationship not nessecerarly ex wife. my ex wife no way, but I did have a girlfriend once, a long time ago, and the only reason we did not get together is I was simply not ready for a relationship but we had an atraction that was stronger than the poles of the earth and I screwd it up by being afraid of it getting too serious. I dont know how it would have turned out but it would have been interesting to find out
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spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
For me a Big No, just the way i am, once it is broken i don,t want to go back and try to fix it, i just want to move on.If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
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I honestly have tried it twice in the past and it didn't work either time because even though I'd changed, the other person didn't. We still had the same problems in 2005 as we did way, way back in 2000 and ending things was bittersweet for me because he was a big part of my life and heart.
However, having been there and done that...it's best to leave past in the past and move forward and onward to better things.
However, having been there and done that...it's best to leave past in the past and move forward and onward to better things.
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spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
No!
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No
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no 
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TheresMyFriend: Depends on what the infraction was, and how serious the offense was.
If it was from just some sort of disagreement...then sure...mend it!
If it was something more serious, such as cheating, then NO... would be time to hit the door!
Just my opinion.
-John-
If it was from just some sort of disagreement...then sure...mend it!
If it was something more serious, such as cheating, then NO... would be time to hit the door!
Just my opinion.
-John-
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i think everyone would... specialy because so many relationships that could be good break down over miscomunication, and i know thats a very used expression, but we do not even try to understand it.
but i think you cant ask for a second chance, since you need all the experience you have aquired now, to come to the desire of mendig a past relationship....... sorry... agua ardiente
but i think you cant ask for a second chance, since you need all the experience you have aquired now, to come to the desire of mendig a past relationship....... sorry... agua ardiente
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spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
"Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worst kind of suffering." (Paulo Coelho)
You know, I'd see how the other person is looking at it. For sure it's waste of time to try and 'mend' something if he is not eager to make it work. If he is, personally I'd give chances, but I'd try as much as possible to break down the vicious circles that lead to the same arguments every time, e.g. try to react differently to offences etc, to hopefully change the route of it. Since I'm an optimist, I believe things can be worked out, but both people have to realize where the problem lies (even if it's in themselves) and want to do something about it. An injection of knowledge helps too, as some arguments between people are too trivial and come from complete ignorance about what each of us needs.
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JSuburbia: Um....I would let it be what it is...I'm a firm believer that an ex is an ex for a reason . I think people can be friends with ex's but to be more again, really you're just asking for more of the same that made you ex's in the first place.
BINGO!
You're getting it
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In response to: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If I had a ex sure I'd try to make amends with him.Maybe things went sour because both of us at the time of us begining that particular realtionship we weren't quite mature enough to deal with all the responsiblities that came along with it.
After all some people deserve a second chance and some people do change.
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Ccincy: After all some people deserve a second chance and some people do change.
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spnglish: Hi everyone...
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?
I am right in the middle of attempting this one......and guess what ? Everything so far is the same ....as if to remind us that "people don't change "
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If you had a chance to mend an ex relationship, or to change its course, would you take it?