JSuburbia: I agree wholeheartedly ...in a sense...For quite alot of people , I think alot of it has to do with a sense of entitlement. We no longer compromise about the things we want in someone, but instead demand them. Not everyone, myself included is not like that. I'm not like that not because im desperate, but more so because I tend to keep an open mind about people and what they believe (unless of course they have pissed me off, but thats a different story). But anymore there seems to be a wave of self entitlement out there that we deserve nothing but exactly what we are looking for. We don't compromise the little things away anymore (in general) and just discard people away when then don't a certain aspect that is minor about them because it's so easy to do like it is in todays world.I did enjoy your post however and agree.
I disagree.
What people want in their potential partner comes from the sense of preferences/attraction/comparability.
Not to voice it is a deception.
Compromise comes into play when a couple is already dating or even together.
What people want in their potential partner comes from the sense of preferences/attraction/comparability.
Not to voice it is a deception.
Compromise comes into play when a couple is already dating or even together.
Dating is not a charity act.
I agree, I guess in a sense I mis-spoke...what was intended as a meaning is, the fact that so many set unrealistic qualities that are a must...Mistake by myself in trying to explain.
Dec 3, 2010 3:10 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
LouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK2 Threads493 Posts
LouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK493 posts
SoldierByte: see............ I can handle the "lovin dog", and "likeing kids", and all that other crap.. but then you gals start nit pickin... ---SoldierByte---
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
twotoketommy420: This is my Profiles Im looking for.......I'm looking for: I would like to meet a woman who is devoted to making her mate as happy as he makes her . Prefer demure and classy . I am very open minded accepting and approachable . I do not see any condition OR demands As for ....." You do'nt want to know children " " You do'nt want to love dogs " and " " You do'nt want to make an effort to get/keep a job " I raised 2 of my children , 4 of someone elses , Love ALL animals , and worked 30 years in construction trades . Either you did not READ my profile , you are taking great liberty at playing Devil's advocate or you might need to return to 3rd grade english class . As far as contradictory ......well , I rest my case . TTT
Im sorry i dont understand. You claim to have found this woman? Why would you be looking for?
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
twotoketommy420: This is my Profiles Im looking for.......I'm looking for: I would like to meet a woman who is devoted to making her mate as happy as he makes her . Prefer demure and classy . I am very open minded accepting and approachable . I do not see any condition OR demands As for ....." You do'nt want to know children " " You do'nt want to love dogs " and " " You do'nt want to make an effort to get/keep a job " I raised 2 of my children , 4 of someone elses , Love ALL animals , and worked 30 years in construction trades . Either you did not READ my profile , you are taking great liberty at playing Devil's advocate or you might need to return to 3rd grade english class . As far as contradictory ......well , I rest my case . TTT
further more..re-reading this post you suggest that someone did not read your profile? Why should they need to? They are responding to a thread you opened. The same as us all.
Please in future if we are in need of collecting further information from your profile let us know in advance of responding. Best wishes
jeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)10,968 posts
cherrybrandy: thats another story..but,admit it he loves you more,when you spoil him.. my princess adores me,before i take her for a walk ..and ignores me after..
Amity: further more..re-reading this post you suggest that someone did not read your profile? Why should they need to? They are responding to a thread you opened. The same as us all.
Please in future if we are in need of collecting further information from your profile let us know in advance of responding. Best wishes
Dec 3, 2010 4:42 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
LouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK2 Threads493 Posts
LouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK493 posts
Amity: further more..re-reading this post you suggest that someone did not read your profile? Why should they need to? They are responding to a thread you opened. The same as us all.
Please in future if we are in need of collecting further information from your profile let us know in advance of responding. Best wishes
My thoughts too Amity.
And the name - Two Toke Tommy - Drug Smoker? - No thanks
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