What ever happened to unconditional love ? ( Archived) (78)

Dec 3, 2010 1:22 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
ladyfingers: WOW, Laura's on a tear today.... Hi Laura


LF wave teddybear
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Dec 3, 2010 1:24 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
I just dropped in to see what condition my condition was in...choir
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Dec 3, 2010 1:31 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
JSuburbia: I agree wholeheartedly ...in a sense...For quite alot of people , I think alot of it has to do with a sense of entitlement. We no longer compromise about the things we want in someone, but instead demand them. Not everyone, myself included is not like that. I'm not like that not because im desperate, but more so because I tend to keep an open mind about people and what they believe (unless of course they have pissed me off, but thats a different story). But anymore there seems to be a wave of self entitlement out there that we deserve nothing but exactly what we are looking for. We don't compromise the little things away anymore (in general) and just discard people away when then don't a certain aspect that is minor about them because it's so easy to do like it is in todays world.I did enjoy your post however and agree.


I disagree.

What people want in their potential partner comes from the sense of preferences/attraction/comparability.

Not to voice it is a deception.

Compromise comes into play when a couple is already dating or even together.

Dating is not a charity act.
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Dec 3, 2010 1:34 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
TheMagician
TheMagicianTheMagicianLas Vegas, Nevada USA11 Threads 398 Posts
ladyfingers: Unconditional love has been reconditioned to keep up with the times.

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 3, 2010 2:58 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
JSuburbia
JSuburbiaJSuburbiaOrbisonia, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,518 Posts
Laura25: I disagree.

What people want in their potential partner comes from the sense of preferences/attraction/comparability.

Not to voice it is a deception.

Compromise comes into play when a couple is already dating or even together.

Dating is not a charity act.



I agree, I guess in a sense I mis-spoke...what was intended as a meaning is, the fact that so many set unrealistic qualities that are a must...Mistake by myself in trying to explain.
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Dec 3, 2010 3:01 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
LouiseDreaming: Well if I had dogs and kids I might write that.

Now, as soon as I meet/talk with anyone, (Ha! Fat chance!) I'll be checking them out for morals, integrity, faithfulness etc.

I wouldn't put that in my profile, in case they viewed me as damned hard work or something. (Oh, and you better have a job or be self sufficient.....)


see............crying
I can handle the "lovin dog", and "likeing kids",
and all that other crap..
but then you gals start nit pickin...moping

dancing dog---SoldierByte--- elephant
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Dec 3, 2010 3:10 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
LouiseDreaming
LouiseDreamingLouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK2 Threads 493 Posts
SoldierByte: see............
I can handle the "lovin dog", and "likeing kids",
and all that other crap..
but then you gals start nit pickin...
---SoldierByte---


And you wouldn't be doing the same to me? laugh
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Dec 3, 2010 4:05 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
twotoketommy420: This is my Profiles Im looking for.......I'm looking for:
I would like to meet a woman who is devoted to making her mate as happy as he makes her . Prefer demure and classy . I am very open minded accepting and approachable .
I do not see any condition OR demands
As for ....." You do'nt want to know children "
" You do'nt want to love dogs " and "
" You do'nt want to make an effort to get/keep a job "
I raised 2 of my children , 4 of someone elses , Love ALL animals , and worked 30 years in construction trades . Either you did not READ my profile , you are taking great liberty at playing Devil's advocate or you might need to return to 3rd grade english class . As far as contradictory ......well , I rest my case . TTT


Im sorry i dont understand. You claim to have found this woman?
Why would you be looking for?
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Dec 3, 2010 4:30 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
i believe the only unconditional love is the love of parents to their children...and nothing more..which is all right..
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Dec 3, 2010 4:31 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
cherrybrandy: i believe the only unconditional love is the love of parents to their children...and nothing more..which is all right..
professor My dog love me unconditionally

dancing dog
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Dec 3, 2010 4:33 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
twotoketommy420: This is my Profiles Im looking for.......I'm looking for:
I would like to meet a woman who is devoted to making her mate as happy as he makes her . Prefer demure and classy . I am very open minded accepting and approachable .
I do not see any condition OR demands
As for ....." You do'nt want to know children "
" You do'nt want to love dogs " and "
" You do'nt want to make an effort to get/keep a job "
I raised 2 of my children , 4 of someone elses , Love ALL animals , and worked 30 years in construction trades . Either you did not READ my profile , you are taking great liberty at playing Devil's advocate or you might need to return to 3rd grade english class . As far as contradictory ......well , I rest my case . TTT


further more..re-reading this post you suggest that someone did not read your profile? Why should they need to?
They are responding to a thread you opened. The same as us all.

Please in future if we are in need of collecting further information from your profile let us know in advance of responding.
Best wishes
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Dec 3, 2010 4:34 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
jeepers: My dog love me unconditionally
laugh thats another story..but,admit it he loves you more,when you spoil him..
my princess adores me,before i take her for a walk ..and ignores me after..laugh
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Dec 3, 2010 4:35 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
cherrybrandy: thats another story..but,admit it he loves you more,when you spoil him..
my princess adores me,before i take her for a walk ..and ignores me after..
Tucker has me well trained. wink
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Dec 3, 2010 4:37 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
Amity: further more..re-reading this post you suggest that someone did not read your profile? Why should they need to?
They are responding to a thread you opened. The same as us all.

Please in future if we are in need of collecting further information from your profile let us know in advance of responding.
Best wishes


thumbs up wave
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Dec 3, 2010 4:37 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
hug heya rider...hope you and yours are well xxxxteddybear
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Dec 3, 2010 4:39 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
jeepers: Tucker has me well trained.
thats because you love the pug unconditionally..professor
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Dec 3, 2010 4:40 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
cherrybrandy: thats because you love the pug unconditionally..
Today I love nothing....spam
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Dec 3, 2010 4:42 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
LouiseDreaming
LouiseDreamingLouiseDreamingCosta Blanca and, Warwickshire, England UK2 Threads 493 Posts
Amity: further more..re-reading this post you suggest that someone did not read your profile? Why should they need to?
They are responding to a thread you opened. The same as us all.

Please in future if we are in need of collecting further information from your profile let us know in advance of responding.
Best wishes


thumbs up My thoughts too Amity.

And the name - Two Toke Tommy - Drug Smoker? - No thanks

W, whoever she is, is welcome to him.
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Dec 3, 2010 4:43 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
Amity: heya rider...hope you and yours are well xxxx


Doing splendidly thank you...unconditionaly love to me means...


I know who you are

I know what you did

I love you anyways





none of us are perfect...except me when I drank...I was a perfect a**hole...just add alcohol teddybear hug
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Dec 3, 2010 4:43 PM CST What ever happened to unconditional love ?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
rider4u: Doing splendidly thank you...unconditionaly love to me means...I know who you are

I know what you did

I love you anywaysnone of us are perfect...except me when I drank...I was a perfect a**hole...just add alcohol


laugh Beautiful.hug And spot on xxxx
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