Beggars and Choosers.... (42)
hddogWarren, Michigan USA4 Threads 610 Postsgmorning Wikked...I hear what your saying and you make a good point...but is'nt that what this is all about? you could be here for weeks/ mounths and not talk or click with anyone...but when you do I say go for it and give it your all...you never know if their the one unless you make some kind of effort....peace
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To not be choosy about how u want or dont want i belive is up to the person them selves..I can only hope that whom every they do choose to be with can at least make them happy for a while..
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If anything I'm completely the opposite. I've been on the Internet looking for the right man for me for six years. And I won't settle for less, I don't care if it takes a lifetime. I do very much want to share my life with someone but not "desperately" so. Desperate choices can lead to fatal mistakes. BTDT, not going there again.
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No ...no begging
I actually enjoy my own company. When I am off work I actually cringe when the phone or doorbell rings....I like my me time. Probably on my way to being a hermit
I am not even sure I want anyone in my space anymore.
When a relationship works it's a beautiful thing but sometimes its just too much freaking work. It doesn't grow without tending and that tending can be a full time job. Don't get me wrong I'm not anti relationship...I'm just appreciating that there is a lot to be said for being on your own.
I come here for the amusement which at one time was a great pleasure....lately it's like eating rice cakes....and not the flavored ones!
I actually enjoy my own company. When I am off work I actually cringe when the phone or doorbell rings....I like my me time. Probably on my way to being a hermit
I am not even sure I want anyone in my space anymore. When a relationship works it's a beautiful thing but sometimes its just too much freaking work. It doesn't grow without tending and that tending can be a full time job. Don't get me wrong I'm not anti relationship...I'm just appreciating that there is a lot to be said for being on your own.
I come here for the amusement which at one time was a great pleasure....lately it's like eating rice cakes....and not the flavored ones!
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I used to want to be a hermit growing up. I thought what a wonderful vocation because everyone I knew pissed me off.
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It's not that everyone pisses me off...but yeah a lot do...petty people really make me want to just crawl off in the woods somewhere and live on my own cause I just can't deal with the stupidity anymore. Outside of that though I just find dealing with people draining. That filter between your input and output... mine is worn to a frazzel
When I start telling people what I really think of them and responding to my urges to either laugh hysterically or jump across a desk and beat someone silly then I guess I'll have no choice but to get out my pole and tie a little sac to it....I'll keep my eye out for you when I'm looking for my spot....I wouldn't want to get shot for trespassing------ This thread is Archived ------
The damn phone is ringing right now. I have everything turned off but I can hear the answering machine clicking
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Hey, Lilly don't worry about trespassing. I usually hang out in my cave. The grizzly bear and me made a pact. As long as I stay on my side of the cave and don't start any fires we can coexist. The smoke gets to him so I go outside if I have to make a camp fire. If I catch a lot of fish I try to bring him back some. He takes care of the IRS and the bill collectors, lol. We have a symbiotic relationship. So far no complaints except for the bats. I am still trying to work out something with the bats, lol.
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Zap it with that pitchfork, lol. Remember I put the laser beam on it, lol. That will stop that stupid clicking noise, lol.
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So what you're saying is there are cooperative bears out there but the ding bats will always be a challenge? 
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lilly it was not me this time!
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No! It was the one who came to the door the last time we were on the phone. She's been at it all day!! I'm off to work now where she can torture me all evening
It wasn't you the last time either!
She's been at it all day!! I'm off to work now where she can torture me all evening It wasn't you the last time either!
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I thought maybe the bats would be happier in the belfry. But I didn't take into consideration how many bats there were. I mean a bear will take a dump in the woods but bat manure is highly explosive. I am working with the bear to take care of the problem. I think between the two of us we can decide what to do with the bats. If it wasn't for the bear I probably would have blown us all to bits by starting a fire in the cave.
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DON'T YOU DARE!
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I do not beg and never will. I never even BEGGED for my freedom. I choose. Way I figure it, I can never mis what I never had and that is a persons love, friendship or whatever. However I CHOOSE to love everyone and to be a friend to the end. What I like about this is this is MY choice. And after 15 years of being locked up - I love having the freedom to CHOOSE.
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Then I'm glad you made the "choice" to leave...and i'm sure you'll read this because you're either "lurking" (we all do it...nothing wrong there) or you'll send in your cronies to check up on us...
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mikked we ve had our differences and id say no not beggers ! and you never came across as one or has anyone ive met here ! i know ive not spoken much here but hey just finding out how kool you all are her . thanks charlie
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Good point...
I see alot of it. ALOT
I can literally feel the desperation coming off some folks. No joke. It's a terrible feeling, and I wish I could turn it off. So, I hide...
I am so damned glad I'm stubborn and refuse to beg. I will choose, when and if I feel like it.
I am open and accepting of true unconditional love..but, in all truth? it is the rarity.
A good romp, with safety, and the door? Maybe, LOL! No, kidding.
But, somedays that is what I wonder...mutual adult freinds with love and distance...
I dunno.
I DO know my ex...used to mkae me beg, and I will never fell like that again.
I see alot of it. ALOT
I can literally feel the desperation coming off some folks. No joke. It's a terrible feeling, and I wish I could turn it off. So, I hide...
I am so damned glad I'm stubborn and refuse to beg. I will choose, when and if I feel like it.
I am open and accepting of true unconditional love..but, in all truth? it is the rarity.
A good romp, with safety, and the door? Maybe, LOL! No, kidding.
But, somedays that is what I wonder...mutual adult freinds with love and distance...
I dunno.
I DO know my ex...used to mkae me beg, and I will never fell like that again.
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