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Jan 14, 2011 3:39 PM CST Children and the state
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: OK, Question.

1. Should the state subsidise the children from poor families who cannot afford to raise their children on the incomes they have?

2. IF not, should parents be allowed to bring handicapped children into the world without the resources to fund their requirements without access to public funds?

3. Where do you stop? Do you go to a Romanian system where the children were 'dumped' in state orphanages if the parents ran out of money? Do you force the poor to have abortions if they cannot afford to look after their children?

Well, if you want to include conspiracy theories, it's long been held that the CIA and members behind the "New World Order" have been out to destroy the traditional family structure anyways... and integrate the mind-set where children look at the "state" (government) as their real family.... since the time when they pushed and financed the Feminist Movement in the USA so that they can tax the other half of the population.
uh oh confused laugh
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Jan 14, 2011 3:43 PM CST Children and the state
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
galrads: Well, if you want to include conspiracy theories, it's long been held that the CIA and members behind the "New World Order" have been out to destroy the traditional family structure anyways... and integrate the mind-set where children look at the "state" (government) as their real family.... since the time when they pushed and financed the Feminist Movement in the USA so that they can tax the other half of the population.


Holy cow, You need to get in touch with my pal Sean..... He's forever going about this
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Jan 14, 2011 5:16 PM CST Children and the state
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: Absolutely true
Who has the right to say "You are just plain too stupid to have For how long is that right going to last? How long before the Bible belters and 'right wingers' remove that right, and then what? Romanian style orphanages? Back street abortionists/butchers? Don't you think that parents who recognise that they are not in a position to look after a child and don't have the social/financial stability to give a child a home aren't actually being sensible by asking for a termination?


I'm beginning to think some people are plain too stupid to have children. It shows on CS.
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Jan 14, 2011 7:12 PM CST Children and the state
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
blarneykite: I know and I certainly don't have all the answers. Mainland Europe has been for many years now center or left of it with higher taxes and I for one wouldn't mind higher taxes IF it actually brought about real change


What I've never understood is why people who feel guilty about not being taxed more just don't send in an extra donation.


Bill Clinton was in favor of high taxes, but yet tight enough to write off his old underwear to get a tax break.


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Jan 15, 2011 9:54 AM CST Children and the state
Iuchi_Zien
Iuchi_ZienIuchi_ZienSheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK21 Threads 9 Polls 1,426 Posts
Actractorguy: Education starts at home. Period.
Schools are for learning the basics in math language and such. The home is for teaching your kids about what life is about. It cost nothing to teach your children how to be a proper and upstanding citizen no matter the country.

In the end I have learned that no matter what you say or tell your children they are still going to try it. They think they know what's best for them and at the age of 18 they can make their own decisions.

As for teen pregnancies well that does fall squarely on the shoulders of the parents.


Which is great, IF you have educated parents or parents who care. What about all those children born to un-educated parents or parents who don't care? Are you advocating a test to prove your educational standard BEFORE you are allowed to have children? Education starts with the parents, why should children who don't have educated parents or whose parents don't care be penalised? And aren't you perpetuating the problem by leaving education to the parents?
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Jan 15, 2011 10:02 AM CST Children and the state
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Trealach01: What a sick mind you have to even ask these sick questions


These are genuine concerns that have to be addressed by parents, and by the state. What to do with poor children? Let them live in poverty and suffer the results? Let them die young? Make them wards of the state?

I think the real issue is "why are some people so poor when others are so rich?

I'm no communist and I don't endorse any sort of "redistribution of wealth" as Obama intends.

But I do think that there is something seriously wrong with a society that rewards company executives with huge "golden parachute" retirement packages and at the same time lays off workers or forces them to do twice the work in order to save their jobs.

The problem is not the poor children, it is the greedy rich who take far more than their share of the benefits of their employees labor.

And that extends to government too. For the most part politicians are just parasites. They aren't there to help the people, they are there to help themselves at the people's expense.

No social project is going to cure the problem. It would just add another big expensive government agency to drain even more funds out of society without producing anything constructive.

Society's problem is spiritual in nature and can only be cured by a spiritual revolution that rejects materialistic values in favor of spiritual values like brotherly love.

No such revolution is in sight yet at any level of society, and none will appear until people are really desperate for one. So things may have to get a lot worse before they get any better.

As long as people think that government, business, technology, or military power can solve their problems, they won't be desperate enough to change.
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Jan 15, 2011 10:09 AM CST Children and the state
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: Which is great, IF you have educated parents or parents who care. What about all those children born to un-educated parents or parents who don't care? Are you advocating a test to prove your educational standard BEFORE you are allowed to have children? Education starts with the parents, why should children who don't have educated parents or whose parents don't care be penalised? And aren't you perpetuating the problem by leaving education to the parents?


I think the point is you do not have to be educated to teach your kids a moral code that is fast slipping away from society as a whole.

My folks brought up 8 kids and they both left school at 14 and 15 years old not overly educated but they knew the way to bring kids up and did so. Education for their kids being a goal they achieved well.

I was born and lived in the old Gorbals a wee rough area in Glasgow an all my mates had the same target an education to their best ability. Folk then sadly not now taught their kids how to behave and conduct themselves in society at a level in which the kid understood.

The real education was at school but we were all TAUGHT the basics at home. As always JMOgrin cheers
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Jan 15, 2011 10:14 AM CST Children and the state
Iuchi_Zien
Iuchi_ZienIuchi_ZienSheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK21 Threads 9 Polls 1,426 Posts
RayfromUSA: These are genuine concerns that have to be addressed by parents, and by the state. What to do with poor children? Let them live in poverty and suffer the results? Let them die young? Make them wards of the state?

I think the real issue is "why are some people so poor when others are so rich?

I'm no communist and I don't endorse any sort of "redistribution of wealth" as Obama intends.


But if the problem is the redistribution of wealth from the poor to the rich how do you solve that problem WITHOUT redistributing it backwards? I find it fascinating that a person claiming benefits for eight children and making ends meet, just! is classed as an "evil scrounger" yet a person squirrelling MILLIONS away in offshore bank accounts to avoid paying taxes is given a job in government!!!

RayfromUSA:
But I do think that there is something seriously wrong with a society that rewards company executives with huge "golden parachute" retirement packages and at the same time lays off workers or forces them to do twice the work in order to save their jobs.

The problem is not the poor children, it is the greedy rich who take far more than their share of the benefits of their employees labor.

And that extends to government too. For the most part politicians are just parasites. They aren't there to help the people, they are there to help themselves at the people's expense.

No social project is going to cure the problem. It would just add another big expensive government agency to drain even more funds out of society without producing anything constructive.

Society's problem is spiritual in nature and can only be cured by a spiritual revolution that rejects materialistic values in favor of spiritual values like brotherly love.

No such revolution is in sight yet at any level of society, and none will appear until people are really desperate for one. So things may have to get a lot worse before they get any better.

As long as people think that government, business, technology, or military power can solve their problems, they won't be desperate enough to change.


Never going to happen, give me the choice of a brand new Royal Enfield with a nice new black two seater sidecar or a warm fuzzy feeling and the Royal Enfield gets it every time. Society's problem is that the power resides with those who HAVE the wealth not with those who MAKE the wealth and if I'm not careful I'm going to end up quoting Marx, brrrr! devil devil
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Jan 15, 2011 10:15 AM CST Children and the state
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Boban1: by now, you all know that Im a weirdo...

If the state (has) resources for weapons ...why couldn`t the state actually do something for their citizens


Well, they could.

But you see,
when the state is making weapons, although it costs the state a lot of money, much of that money flows directly into the pockets of industrialists who then generously reward the political leaders for buying their products and for keeping the wars going to ensure future sales.

But if the state money is spent on helping poor people, none of it returns to those who make the decisions.

It's like Pavlov's and Skinner's animals. They learn what behavior will get them rewards. Politicians learn what behavior will get them rewards too.
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Jan 15, 2011 10:28 AM CST Children and the state
Iuchi_Zien
Iuchi_ZienIuchi_ZienSheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK21 Threads 9 Polls 1,426 Posts
patmac: I think the point is you do not have to be educated to teach your kids a moral code that is fast slipping away from society as a whole.

My folks brought up 8 kids and they both left school at 14 and 15 years old not overly educated but they knew the way to bring kids up and did so. Education for their kids being a goal they achieved well.

I was born and lived in the old Gorbals a wee rough area in Glasgow an all my mates had the same target an education to their best ability. Folk then sadly not now taught their kids how to behave and conduct themselves in society at a level in which the kid understood.

The real education was at school but we were all TAUGHT the basics at home. As always JMO


And your parents moral code was probably a result of their environment. As an example in the 50's if a footballer deliberately hand-balled a goal like a certain french (or Argentinian) player has done what would have been the response? Look at the situation now. These people are the role models for modern children and parents, they see cheating, lying and plain dishonesty is REWARDED, not punished. How do you explain that lying and cheating is wrong when people are being REWARDED for doing that? My sister lives in an area where families have as many as three generations who have NEVER worked, how do you break the cycle? My sisters daughter is going to find work incredibly difficult because of the address she lives at and her accent. The school she went to failed her because most children from that school were going to end up on the JSA so what's the point in teaching them? The school was regularly vandalised and teachers there seem to have just about given up. When I hear children's hope for the future is to "become a drug dealer and own a flash car" it just sickens me. Society, as your parents knew it has broken, completely and now it is every man for himself and f^&* the neighbours! How do you get past this?
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Jan 15, 2011 10:41 AM CST Children and the state
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Obviously you do not know Glasgow and the Gorbals both higher than the national average unemployment and I know many folk who for generations have lived of the state and yes you are partially correct.

But many of these folk are still teaching their kids as folk have done for years the basic lessons of being a part of a community. That has and always will be passed on by the family. Sadly a lot of folk have let this pass to schools and blame the education system for their kids behaviour. This to my mind should always be done at home and the earlier the better. My family all did and continue to do this and we are not all teachers but responsible Parents.Aunts,Uncles, Grandparents and siblings.

Families should be held to fact they and they alone are responsible for their offspring.....All kids in my family know the difference between right and wrong at under school age as we the family teach them .....We never rely on education to do what is and always should be a parents duty...As always JMO grin cheers
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Jan 15, 2011 10:52 AM CST Children and the state
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
patmac: Obviously you do not know Glasgow and the Gorbals both higher than the national average unemployment and I know many folk who for generations have lived of the state and yes you are partially correct.

But many of these folk are still teaching their kids as folk have done for years the basic lessons of being a part of a community. That has and always will be passed on by the family. Sadly a lot of folk have let this pass to schools and blame the education system for their kids behaviour. This to my mind should always be done at home and the earlier the better. My family all did and continue to do this and we are not all teachers but responsible Parents.Aunts,Uncles, Grandparents and siblings.

Families should be held to fact they and they alone are responsible for their offspring.....All kids in my family know the difference between right and wrong at under school age as we the family teach them .....We never rely on education to do what is and always should be a parents duty...As always JMO


Down south in London that feels non existant.thumbs up

But where I am right now, from what I have seen so far, the education of their kids is paramount at home and in school.
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Jan 15, 2011 10:55 AM CST Children and the state
MAN67
MAN67MAN67Limassol, Cyprus2 Threads 206 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: OK, Question.

1. Should the state subsidise the children from poor families who cannot afford to raise their children on the incomes they have?

2. IF not, should parents be allowed to bring handicapped children into the world without the resources to fund their requirements without access to public funds?

3. Where do you stop? Do you go to a Romanian system where the children were 'dumped' in state orphanages if the parents ran out of money? Do you force the poor to have abortions if they cannot afford to look after their children?
Tie their reproductive organs until they make money because if they are single it might be easier to save money.
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Jan 15, 2011 11:29 AM CST Children and the state
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
RayfromUSA::
As long as people think that government, business, technology, or military power can solve their problems, they won't be desperate enough to change.


Iuchi_Zien: But if the problem is the redistribution of wealth from the poor to the rich how do you solve that problem WITHOUT redistributing it backwards?


Forcing people to give up what is legally and rightfully theirs will never sell.

That sort of forced redistribution is totalitarian in nature and would have to be imposed on society by a soviet style totalitarian state. (such as Obama intends to install) And the result will be like the USSR where there is no work incentive, no productivity, generalized poverty for all, and gulags for any complainers.

As long as people's values are materialistic, forced redistribution of wealth will only make the situation worse.

Like one person from the "solidarity" trade union told a reporter back in the late 60s, speaking about the dysfunctional state owned industry in bankrupt Poland, "They pretend to pay us (in worthless "zloty"s), and we pretend to work".

The only sort of wealth redistribution that would really help society has to be voluntary. And it cannot be forced. It will have to come from an inner change in the hearts of people.

Iuchi_Zien:
Never going to happen, give me the choice of a brand new Royal Enfield with a nice new black two seater sidecar or a warm fuzzy feeling and the Royal Enfield gets it every time.

Society's problem is that the power resides with those who HAVE the wealth not with those who MAKE the wealth and if I'm not careful I'm going to end up quoting Marx, brrrr!


And you would fall into the same ditch that Marx led the Russian people into. Destroying all prosperity in the name of equality.
It doesn't work. There has to be wealth in order to share the wealth. Otherwise you just end up sharing the poverty.

If you try to force "equality" by taxing the rich to help the poor, immediately a new sort of inequality springs up in the form of the government elite who take the place of the industrialists at the top of the greedy food chain. And they are even worse because they have the military and the entire massive state apparatus at their immediate disposal.

As long as greed prevails, there will always be injustice. The two go together.

The needed spiritual change that eliminates greed and promotes good will cannot come by force. It has to come from an inner awakening and an change of values.

As long as the Royal Enfield wins out automatically over a person's sense of responsibility toward others in need, that person is not ready for such a change.

The time will have to come where the person seriously asks himself what is the "right" thing to do, and acts according to that decision.

The Royal Enfield may still yet be the right choice, depending on the situation. We just have to weigh "greed" vs "need".
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Jan 15, 2011 11:49 AM CST Children and the state
Iuchi_Zien
Iuchi_ZienIuchi_ZienSheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK21 Threads 9 Polls 1,426 Posts
patmac: I have never found a sense of fairness,honesty and a healthy regard for justice ever to be a handicap. And the folk from here who have met me have all remarked on the fact I am unbiased and have a decent set of values. So no handicap at all.


Then you are lucky! I was actually sacked from a job with a very famous telecom company, a while ago, because I refused to lie to the people I was supposed to be serving. Have you never been in a position where somebody has benefited over you by dishonesty? As an example, how do you explain to a child, and I'll use the football analogy, why cheating, in the form of a deliberate handball to score a goal has not been punished? Why it is not OK for them to do the same? I know that teaching the difference between right and wrong is what I SHOULD do but the question becomes is it the RIGHT thing to do?
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Jan 15, 2011 11:50 AM CST Children and the state
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: ... These people (cheaters) are the role models for ...children and parents...dishonesty is REWARDED...How do you explain that lying and cheating is wrong when people are being REWARDED for doing that? ... Society, as our parents knew it has broken, completely and now it is every man for himself and f^&* the neighbours! How do you get past this?


Yes indeed, that is the essence of the problem.
As long as our values are materialistic instead of spiritual, it's a losing battle. We can't teach altruism as long as the acquisition of material possessions is the standard of success.

But if we could learn to love our fellow men as much as wee do ourselves, and willingly sacrifice some of our own wealth to help others (not talking about taxation or entitlement programs here) then not only would the poor benefit, but we ourselves would benefit from having happier, more human, hearts.
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Jan 15, 2011 12:01 PM CST Children and the state
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: Then you are lucky! I was actually sacked from a job with a very famous telecom company, a while ago, because I refused to lie to the people I was supposed to be serving. Have you never been in a position where somebody has benefited over you by dishonesty? As an example, how do you explain to a child, and I'll use the football analogy, why cheating, in the form of a deliberate handball to score a goal has not been punished? Why it is not OK for them to do the same? I know that teaching the difference between right and wrong is what I SHOULD do but the question becomes is it the RIGHT thing to do?
Pretty easy show the child all the times a foul or penalty has been given and explain that if you do wrong you stand a chance of being penalised thereby losing the game. Anyone who cannot understand that not all folk play fair in all walks of life is not being honest. Explaining to the child that if they try and get away with cheating they will and often be penalised. By emphasising the penalty option then the child will see clearly that cheating is not always an option for the best outcome to anything. As always JMO grin cheers
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Jan 15, 2011 12:10 PM CST Children and the state
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
MAN67: Tie their reproductive organs until they make money because if they are single it might be easier to save money.


Why stop there?

- Children of poor parents could be easily sterilized at birth and/or reassigned to more "responsible" parents.

- Unproductive adults could be prevented from reproducing by gathering them up and putting them to work at menial tasks in government factories.

- Drinking water in poor areas could be doctored to decrease fertility.

With measures like these wealth with become universal as the dreaded "poverty genes" disappear from the gene pool.
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Jan 15, 2011 12:20 PM CST Children and the state
Iuchi_Zien
Iuchi_ZienIuchi_ZienSheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK21 Threads 9 Polls 1,426 Posts
RayfromUSA: Forcing people to give up what is legally and rightfully theirs will never sell.

That sort of forced redistribution is totalitarian in nature and would have to be imposed on society by a soviet style totalitarian state. (such as Obama intends to install) And the result will be like the USSR where there is no work incentive, no productivity, generalized poverty for all, and gulags for any complainers.


Yet, strangely, if you talk to people who lived in the old Soviet Union they look back on it as being a better time, when neighbours looked after one another. When the world seemed a fairer more equal place. Obviously there was a minority who abused the system (strangely Politicians, nothing new there than!) but it was rare, during Soviet times to see economic injustice. I have spoken to Russians who actually believe things were better under Stalin than they are now, which I find truly scary!

RayfromUSA:
As long as people's values are materialistic, forced redistribution of wealth will only make the situation worse.


Isn't that exactly the argument that the church used to oppress the people? 'You might be poor and downtrodden in this life but in the next life you will benefit' so keep paying those swingeing taxes so we can live in comfort and wealth!

RayfromUSA:
The only sort of wealth redistribution that would really help society has to be voluntary. And it cannot be forced. It will have to come from an inner change in the hearts of people.
And you would fall into the same ditch that Marx led the Russian people into. Destroying all prosperity in the name of equality.
It doesn't work. There has to be wealth in order to share the wealth. Otherwise you just end up sharing the poverty.


'Trickle down charity' has been tried since Victorian times and simply doesn't work, you'd think that after having 150 years to get it right people would have realised by now it doesn't work.


RayfromUSA:
If you try to force "equality" by taxing the rich to help the poor, immediately a new sort of inequality springs up in the form of the government elite who take the place of the industrialists at the top of the greedy food chain. And they are even worse because they have the military and the entire massive state apparatus at their immediate disposal.

As long as greed prevails, there will always be injustice. The two go together.


I'm sorry but we've tried Capitalism in various forms for what seems like forever and all that happens is the poor get poorer and the rich get richer. Adding religion into that just adds a whole new group of snouts at the trough. How long do you think it will be before the poor in places like the US ACTUALLY realise they have some power, how long before they put people with even stronger Socialist views than Obama into power? Then what? No vote unless you earn above a minimum level? Is this why the level of education in the inner city is so much less than in the suburbs, amongst the middle classes and above? Is this why the level of illiteracy in the US is going UP! After all 'Education is power' and the ruling elites whether Political, Economic or Religious know that. People, generally, want their children to do better than they did.
This creates a problem, if you are a street sweeper at the bottom of the social ladder and you want your children to do better who is going to be the next generation of street sweeper? The foreign labourer, enticed by the opportunities of having a wage? The street sweepers children, deliberately prevented from rising above their parents by a deliberate lowering of educational standards so they CAN'T rise up the social ladder? You tell me?
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Jan 15, 2011 12:38 PM CST Children and the state
MAN67
MAN67MAN67Limassol, Cyprus2 Threads 206 Posts
RayfromUSA: Why stop there?

- Children of poor parents could be easily sterilized at birth and/or reassigned to more "responsible" parents.

- Unproductive adults could be prevented from reproducing by gathering them up and putting them to work at menial tasks in government factories.

- Drinking water in poor areas could be doctored to decrease fertility.

With measures like these wealth with become universal as the dreaded "poverty genes" disappear from the gene pool.
Then who is going to do the labor work?
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