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#41
Jan 28, 2011 4:59 PM CST Your ex.
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia18,789 posts
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.

my ex or just a total stranger ,still a human being ...Somewhere in my past I have realized how every one of us can be strong and weak at some point in life and how much a helping hand can mean
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#42
Jan 28, 2011 5:01 PM CST Your ex.
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
amahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA8,314 posts
lostinspace: Im amazed how some people can be so heartless in such a sensitive situation and will leave this planet with bitterness in there heart.


I have no bitterness in my heart towards my ex, however stating that, I cannot be there for him if something such as a terminal illness happened to him. I am always there for the children that we raised together and am happy for his successes and do not gloat over his failures. We know how we were together, we know how it was when we parted and neither of us could be there for the other.

I feel for you and your situation and you will make the best decision for yourself. handshake
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#43
Jan 28, 2011 5:02 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
lostinspaceOPDrogheda, Louth Ireland833 posts
Amity: Yes, without a shadow of a doubt.
Always.
Life is too short, if anyone came to me and needed support they would have it unconditionally.
I would hate myself otherwise.


Your a good woman and indeed have a heart to be hold I wish you all the happiness you deserve thank you.wave
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#44
Jan 28, 2011 5:03 PM CST Your ex.
pedro27
pedro27pedro27Bray, Dublin Ireland5,970 Threads 223 Polls 33,240 Posts
pedro27Bray, Dublin Ireland33,240 posts
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.



i would i forgive her already
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#45
Jan 28, 2011 5:04 PM CST Your ex.
pedro27
pedro27pedro27Bray, Dublin Ireland5,970 Threads 223 Polls 33,240 Posts
pedro27Bray, Dublin Ireland33,240 posts
p.s i'm gonna play my ex's song to me now.
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#46
Jan 28, 2011 5:09 PM CST Your ex.
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
if he's alone with no family and friends, then i will be there. dunno
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#47
Jan 28, 2011 5:09 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
lostinspaceOPDrogheda, Louth Ireland833 posts
kissmedeeply: absolutely without a doubt..

I dont hold grudges..

I am a better person then that..

NO matter what they have done in the past..

I will be there for anyone that would need my help..


thumbs up wine
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#48
Jan 28, 2011 5:11 PM CST Your ex.
anblu45
anblu45anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy31 Threads 2 Polls 731 Posts
anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy731 posts
how many men raise up their childs???



come on men answer to me


do you know what mean to be single father? l'm talking about a 6 months baby................do you really know what it mean????????

nowaday he is 11 and l am so proudly of him


she has to stay far away from me !!!!!!! in good or bad healt!!!and not only she, better for her family members do not cross my way
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#49
Jan 28, 2011 5:12 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
lostinspaceOPDrogheda, Louth Ireland833 posts
Boban 1: my ex or just a total stranger ,still a human being ...Somewhere in my past I have realized how every one of us can be strong and weak at some point in life and how much a helping hand can mean


Hey Boban you human being you.cheers
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#50
Jan 28, 2011 5:12 PM CST Your ex.
Sunnydaze14
Sunnydaze14Sunnydaze14Dublin, Ireland105 Threads 3 Polls 2,870 Posts
Sunnydaze14Dublin, Ireland2,870 posts
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.



sounds very nice, but realistically, no, that wouldnt be a good idea. Past history forgotten and forgiven, but last thing either of us would want is to make each other miserable again, especially if one of us is dying.
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#51
Jan 28, 2011 5:13 PM CST Your ex.
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
xxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK2,525 posts
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.


No! But then, I am a softy..... roll eyes
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#52
Jan 28, 2011 5:14 PM CST Your ex.
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia18,789 posts
anblu45: how many men raise up their childs???
come on men answer to medo you know what mean to be single father? l'm talking about a 6 months baby................do you really know what it mean????????

nowaday he is 11 and l am so proudly of himshe has to stay far away from me !!!!!!! in good or bad healt!!!and not only she, better for her family members do not cross my way


My son was 6 months old, when my ex left us.... he is 20 now

and I still stay at my first statement
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#53
Jan 28, 2011 5:15 PM CST Your ex.
nette90
nette90nette90Devonport, Tasmania Australia11 Threads 610 Posts
nette90Devonport, Tasmania Australia610 posts
lostinspace: Im amazed how some people can be so heartless in such a sensitive situation and will leave this planet with bitterness in there heart.


You can be bitter without being heartless. I am still very bitter but I am not heartless. All I have to say is I have good reason. I am sure you as a parent, your children mean the world to you, as much as mine would have if not taken from me very harshly. RIP my sweet child. crying
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#54
Jan 28, 2011 5:16 PM CST Your ex.
Buffy327
Buffy327Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA5 Threads 1,527 Posts
Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA1,527 posts
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.


Yes, I spoke with him just a few days ago, after many years of not speaking, and acted as though everything were fine...Wished him well in his treatment...I had to listen to his version of the past and it was nauseating to say the least...However, it made the boys happy that I let their dad know there was no hard feelings...But go and take care of him, NOT HAPPENING....I'm not that good angel
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#55
Jan 28, 2011 5:22 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
lostinspaceOPDrogheda, Louth Ireland833 posts
xxDandelionxx: No! But then, I am a softy.....


Gotcha matey thumbs up
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#56
Jan 28, 2011 5:32 PM CST Your ex.
G1gglesonline today!
G1gglesonline today!G1gglesGzira, Xlokk Malta1 Threads 53 Posts
G1gglesGzira, Xlokk Malta53 posts
In response to: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.


Yes I would forgive and forget, the past history no matter what. I would hate myself if I didnt and he is the father of my children.

Life is way too short. hug
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#57
Jan 28, 2011 5:38 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
lostinspaceOPDrogheda, Louth Ireland833 posts
amahlala: I have no bitterness in my heart towards my ex, however stating that, I cannot be there for him if something such as a terminal illness happened to him. I am always there for the children that we raised together and am happy for his successes and do not gloat over his failures. We know how we were together, we know how it was when we parted and neither of us could be there for the other.

I feel for you and your situation and you will make the best decision for yourself.


But you are bitter if you are not there in his final hours.wave
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#58
Jan 28, 2011 5:40 PM CST Your ex.
anblu45
anblu45anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy31 Threads 2 Polls 731 Posts
anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy731 posts
Boban1: My son was 6 months old, when my ex left us.... he is 20 now

and I still stay at my first statement




l believe to you, l know you are a smart and clever man





l've a second cult is named revenge, this kind of religion is very famous in the Balcan areas.................l know it




anyway l will do everything for my son, included waiting in silent........................as you can the revenge is a cold dish
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#59
Jan 28, 2011 5:41 PM CST Your ex.
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
amahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA8,314 posts
lostinspace: But you are bitter if you are not there in his final hours.


I do disagree with you on that point and will be civil about it.handshake
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#60
Jan 28, 2011 5:52 PM CST Your ex.
anblu45
anblu45anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy31 Threads 2 Polls 731 Posts
anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy731 posts
the end does not exist, is just a religion imposition how many ppl claim l'm not religious but their behaveur is conditioned by the cult..............of course they ignore it



how many atheist claim l do not believe.................but they believe in the last day......................don't you know atheo???? this is a xtian formula!!!!!


if an atheo speaks with other religions fidelis he will discover that, the last day is not considered

how can impose in the mass opinion, the xtian cult, fidelis or not
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