Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.
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I'd like to believe that, no matter the past relationship and history, I would be strong enough to do what was right. Be that an ex lover, family member, school bully, whatever!
I could and would be there for all of my ex's but one. After everything I wouldnt shed a tear if he died, although I dont wish any harm on him, I refuse to be by his side for something like that.
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.
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Well, if i have situation and time to help, of course, why not, past is gone, the time is now.
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.
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For one of them yes, I´d be there for him without hesitation, just like he´s been there for me when I needed his support. As to the others: no way.
There are two of them that I would do that for without a doubt, but the others hell no...when someone doesn't treat me right..I'm not so apt to be at their disposal even in circumstances such as these.
I can forgive anyone for anything, but that doesn't mean I'll put my life on hold and take care of them, it's not my place. Past is the past and it's best left that way.
Id have to be damned sure it wasnt more of the lies, more lies and even more lies first - like I would have to visit the specialist with them at the very least.
trish123: Id have to be damned sure it wasnt more of the lies, more lies and even more lies first - like I would have to visit the specialist with them at the very least.
Hi Trish no this is the real thing its very sad to see, and if I myself where in this sad state I would wish to be put to sleep.
invincible muse: OMG, this isn´t just a hypothetical question?? How do you feel about it??
Very sad all my past coming back to me good times bad times and at this time feel a special bond which I cannot explain towards her I want to help her as much as I can to make it easy.
This is a tough call unless the situation happens it is hard to say what you would be willing to do for them. Neither of my ex's were generous towards me and I would not be there to dance on their graves. If they were to ask for me I would have some soul searching to do.
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