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Jan 28, 2011 3:01 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:04 PM CST Your ex.
QueenofKings
QueenofKingsQueenofKingsCelbridge, Kildare Ireland8 Threads 171 Posts
depends on whether the split was amicable or not
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Jan 28, 2011 3:06 PM CST Your ex.
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.

I'd like to believe that, no matter the past relationship and history, I would be strong enough to do what was right. Be that an ex lover, family member, school bully, whatever!
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Jan 28, 2011 3:11 PM CST Your ex.
nette90
nette90nette90Devonport, Tasmania Australia11 Threads 610 Posts
I could and would be there for all of my ex's but one. After everything I wouldnt shed a tear if he died, although I dont wish any harm on him, I refuse to be by his side for something like that.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:13 PM CST Your ex.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Nope, not for a second and I do not feel the slightest bit guilty about saying it. wine
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Jan 28, 2011 3:13 PM CST Your ex.
elienebrazil
elienebrazilelienebrazilsomewhere, Sao Paulo Brazil2 Threads 714 Posts
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.
Well, if i have situation and time to help, of course, why not, past is gone, the time is now.dunno teddybear
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Jan 28, 2011 3:17 PM CST Your ex.
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
lostinspace: Would you be there for your ex if he or she where dying of a terminal disease to help and support them and forget and forgive all the past history no matter what the circumstances.

Your op please.


For one of them yes, I´d be there for him without hesitation, just like he´s been there for me when I needed his support. As to the others: no way.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:21 PM CST Your ex.
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
There are two of them that I would do that for without a doubt, but the others hell no...when someone doesn't treat me right..I'm not so apt to be at their disposal even in circumstances such as these.

I can forgive anyone for anything, but that doesn't mean I'll put my life on hold and take care of them, it's not my place. Past is the past and it's best left that way.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:29 PM CST Your ex.
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
Id have to be damned sure it wasnt more of the lies, more lies and even more lies first - like I would have to visit the specialist with them at the very least.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:39 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
trish123: Id have to be damned sure it wasnt more of the lies, more lies and even more lies first - like I would have to visit the specialist with them at the very least.


Hi Trish no this is the real thing its very sad to see, and if I myself where in this sad state I would wish to be put to sleep.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:44 PM CST Your ex.
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
lostinspace: Hi Trish no this is the real thing its very sad to see, and if I myself where in this sad state I would wish to be put to sleep.


OMG, this isn´t just a hypothetical question?? How do you feel about it?? sad flower
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Jan 28, 2011 3:44 PM CST Your ex.
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
if my ex was to die of a terminal disease....I know for sure he would not invite me.

because he knows I would pull the plug from his life support system.

dancing

apart from that.....I wish him a long life instead and hope I get my best wishes to him, back in threefold.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:49 PM CST Your ex.
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
lostinspace: Hi Trish no this is the real thing its very sad to see, and if I myself where in this sad state I would wish to be put to sleep.


Then as a human being, no matter what has gone before, surely you will care for the person - I wish you strength hug
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Jan 28, 2011 3:50 PM CST Your ex.
DeusExMachina
DeusExMachinaDeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium55 Threads 1 Polls 2,705 Posts
I guess for 1.It was love at first sight.Why then not the others?I don't know.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:52 PM CST Your ex.
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
morgan5: Nope, not for a second and I do not feel the slightest bit guilty about saying it.



I am afraid I agree with you in this caseangel devil
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Jan 28, 2011 3:52 PM CST Your ex.
dezertfox4323
dezertfox4323dezertfox4323Tempe, Arizona USA117 Posts
I wish she was a Egyptian police officer, or convicted of a crime in Afghanistan.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:53 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
invincible muse: OMG, this isn´t just a hypothetical question?? How do you feel about it??


Very sad all my past coming back to me good times bad times and at this time feel a special bond which I cannot explain towards her I want to help her as much as I can to make it easy.
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Jan 28, 2011 3:55 PM CST Your ex.
midnight_angel_1
midnight_angel_1midnight_angel_1Northwest, Tennessee USA1 Threads 399 Posts
This is a tough call unless the situation happens it is hard to say what you would be willing to do for them. Neither of my ex's were generous towards me and I would not be there to dance on their graves. If they were to ask for me I would have some soul searching to do. sad flower
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Jan 28, 2011 4:01 PM CST Your ex.
lostinspace
lostinspacelostinspaceDrogheda, Louth Ireland54 Threads 833 Posts
trish 123: Then as a human being, no matter what has gone before, surely you will care for the person - I wish you strength


Thank you Trish I am and will.wave
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Jan 28, 2011 4:03 PM CST Your ex.
Ex is Ex.........everyone moved on with his/her life...you only hurt the people who have a place in your heart at present

so no. i wouldnt
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