tinye: Maybe she is sick of guys being interested in her for just her looks and just wanting one thing, so be interested in her as a person, that's a very attractive quality in a man.
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
Danny48: I mean looks. Yes just bask a while eh?
Looks are nothing without personality. I could be the most gorgeous lady on the planet..i would not be attractive without my personality...or even my personality is not attractive. As i said...beauty comes in more forms that material.
Danny48: Going to meet a genuinely beautiful woman from CS in a while.. Scared stiff. Convinced she will have no interest in me at all. Will be looking for a handsome man instead. Unfair but we assume people who look wonderful are arrogant about it. Men have to be brave to approach a beautiful woman? I think thy prefer just attractive. And true beauty can deter so many scared, sad men. Like me! lol
Danny48: Going to meet a genuinely beautiful woman from CS in a while.. Scared stiff. Convinced she will have no interest in me at all. Will be looking for a handsome man instead. Unfair but we assume people who look wonderful are arrogant about it. Men have to be brave to approach a beautiful woman? I think thy prefer just attractive. And true beauty can deter so many scared, sad men. Like me! lol
Enjoy yourself and good luck. As Venus replied, if a woman wasn't interested, she wouldn't make the effort to see you. Enjoy your evening and spill the beans later!
woohoo128staring at the moon somewhere, Essex, England UK5,081 posts
Danny48: Very true. But that is not so easy to see as a body. And a beautiful mind in an ugly body rarely gets discovered does it? Hope I am wrong.
you are wrong most women will see beyond physical attraction then see the person that you are and personally any woman that cannot see that far isn't really worth knowing anyway
Danny48: Going to meet a genuinely beautiful woman from CS in a while.. Scared stiff. Convinced she will have no interest in me at all. Will be looking for a handsome man instead. Unfair but we assume people who look wonderful are arrogant about it. Men have to be brave to approach a beautiful woman? I think thy prefer just attractive. And true beauty can deter so many scared, sad men. Like me! lol
Well, maybe she gets what I get ( or maybe this is what all women get )....
I get maybe 1 message every few days if I'm lucky. I get some men that tell me I'm pretty or beautiful, and they ask me why I'm even here and don't have a boyfriend,
( So do good looking people just automatically get someone? )
or they ask me what's wrong with me. I'm lucky if a conversation lasts 4 messages. I'm shy and don't have much confidence anyway, so I really don't know what to believe... and if all they talk about is how you look it really makes you question there motives.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, who says she won't think your attractive?
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
sasyecats: Well, maybe she gets what I get ( or maybe this is what all women get )....
I get maybe 1 message every few days if I'm lucky. I get some men that tell me I'm pretty or beautiful, and they ask me why I'm even here and don't have a boyfriend,
( So do good looking people just automatically get someone? )
or they ask me what's wrong with me. I'm lucky if a conversation lasts 4 messages. I'm shy and don't have much confidence anyway, so I really don't know what to believe... and if all they talk about is how you look it really makes you question there motives.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, who says she won't think your attractive?
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Danny48: Going to meet a genuinely beautiful woman from CS in a while.. Scared stiff. Convinced she will have no interest in me at all. Will be looking for a handsome man instead. Unfair but we assume people who look wonderful are arrogant about it. Men have to be brave to approach a beautiful woman? I think thy prefer just attractive. And true beauty can deter so many scared, sad men. Like me! lol
Beauty is in the heart!
If she can not see that, she might not be worth to care for ....
There is an accepted view of beauty. If a man compliments you on how lovely you look is that wrong? To find the mind and personality beyond takes time. And the benefit of actually getting to know someone. So should men not say you look lovely?
Danny48: There is an accepted view of beauty. If a man compliments you on how lovely you look is that wrong? To find the mind and personality beyond takes time. And the benefit of actually getting to know someone. So should men not say you look lovely?
Oh no, please do, but there's a time and place...but repeatedly, well that's just silly and unbelievable.
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
Danny48: There is an accepted view of beauty. If a man compliments you on how lovely you look is that wrong? To find the mind and personality beyond takes time. And the benefit of actually getting to know someone. So should men not say you look lovely?
I have to admit, i handle compliments terribly. I would prefer a man to say " i like your boots"
Amity: I have to admit, i handle compliments terribly
So did a friend of mine, until I taught her to say "Thank you!" while holding her head up like she meant it. After a little bit of practice, she did mean it, and eventually believed it.
So, my darling: next time you get a compliment: chin up, eye contact and a flirty: "Thank you!!" is what I wanna see!!
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Danny48: There is an accepted view of beauty. If a man compliments you on how lovely you look is that wrong? To find the mind and personality beyond takes time. And the benefit of actually getting to know someone. So should men not say you look lovely?
There's a time and a place for it.
I think its an intimate thing.
If somebody tries to be intimate with me in a first mail, or before some level of intimacy starts to grow, I'm
Outta there.
Call me old fashioned.
Maybe I should rephrase that - telling someone you're attracted to them, or beautiful, to me is like initiating intimacy. I guess it depends how you say it as well.
Frankinstien: Quit your damn whinning ! Go on your date, who knows you might just have a good time . If you think you can't do this then stay home and let someone else have her . Nothing ventured , nothing gained .
Sorry to respond but your Crassness demands it. Piss off you moron. Find a dictionary and look up subtleity? Nuances of expression are part of communication?
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excellent point!