we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING ( Archived) (60)

Jan 31, 2011 10:13 AM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
venusenvy: Thats sad to think of in the case of parents


Reality,

which is often known to be sad.
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Jan 31, 2011 10:15 AM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
venusenvy: Very true D...I beieve in joint custody Provided the father is a good parent.



Me too, if the mother is a good parent. cheers
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Jan 31, 2011 10:22 AM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
blarneykite: NO.. it our aim to remove family law from the courts altogether... there's new EU directives which will make mediation compulsory prior to going to court...... Mediation is al about conflict resolution by getting both side to make their own agreement, with you mediating in the middle.. Far cheeper and more likely to stick to an agreement that you were involved in making


Oh that sounds brilliant, good luck with it cheering
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Jan 31, 2011 10:23 AM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
blarneykite: Once we gave them the bloody vote, it all started downhill from there


Scuse me darling, we won that vote fair and square and not a moment too soon either rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Jan 31, 2011 10:48 AM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
cgedvr
cgedvrcgedvrSo. Cal, California USA40 Threads 2,088 Posts
blarneykite: NO.. it our aim to remove family law from the courts altogether... there's new EU directives which will make mediation compulsory prior to going to court...... Mediation is al about conflict resolution by getting both side to make their own agreement, with you mediating in the middle.. Far cheeper and more likely to stick to an agreement that you were involved in making
what agreement is that???

the one generally made in a church in front of God and everyone...stating the biggest lie ever told...I DO

bringing children into the world is done with such nonchalance...

family law??? pffft

jmo
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Jan 31, 2011 10:51 AM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
trish123: Scuse me darling, we won that vote fair and square and not a moment too soon either
thumbs up wave
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Jan 31, 2011 11:10 AM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
trish123: Scuse me darling, we won that vote fair and square and not a moment too soon either


handshake wine
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Jan 31, 2011 2:01 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Laura25: Yes, either ^that

or from someone who is not capable to love.



That's a rather hurtful thing to say. Do you really believe that, or are you just lashing out?

sad flower
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Jan 31, 2011 2:03 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
kidatheart: That's a rather hurtful thing to say. Do you really believe that, or are you just lashing out?


I suspect her prof has been hijacked...Hey Kid teddybear
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Jan 31, 2011 2:12 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
venusenvy: I suspect her prof has been hijacked...Hey Kid



Hello Ehug bouquet
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Jan 31, 2011 2:14 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
kidatheart: Hello E


How ya doin handsome flirty
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Jan 31, 2011 2:15 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
demonfairy: good morning my friend
wave grin
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Jan 31, 2011 2:22 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
venusenvy: How ya doin handsome



Oh you know, just another day in paradise.roll eyes laugh

Ei toi?bouquet
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Jan 31, 2011 2:26 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
kidatheart: Oh you know, just another day in paradise.

Ei toi?


Pretty groovy yay
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Jan 31, 2011 3:01 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
PandoraX: That's not a problem if a person is someone who can handle commitment and doesn't even think of straying. But maybe I'm not the norm...


If a person thinks of straying, should a person necessarily stray? What about self control?
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Jan 31, 2011 3:19 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
elienebrazil
elienebrazilelienebrazilsomewhere, Sao Paulo Brazil2 Threads 714 Posts
In contemporary, I guess, the main point in our change, we figure out we have to love our ourselves, at first and then share it. In our past, fairy tales always gave us the impression, that could only be happy with someone else.
wave head banger
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Jan 31, 2011 11:04 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
JeanMarlow
JeanMarlowJeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA17 Threads 815 Posts
langleygirl: ....well, people get so caught up in what they don't have, and fail to see the beauty of what they do.
thumbs up
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Jan 31, 2011 11:06 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
JeanMarlow
JeanMarlowJeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA17 Threads 815 Posts
demonfairy: Just because you don't love your partner any more....
There are people who get divorced when they still love each other. This is something I don't get at all....dunno
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Jan 31, 2011 11:10 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
JeanMarlow
JeanMarlowJeanMarlowMiddle of Nowhere, California USA17 Threads 815 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: ...there are many many relationships that go a lifetime, you just don't hear of many in these places. these places are full of people who are damaged by divorces and failed relationships.
Exactly true. I know lots of people who have been married for decades. I was happily married for 20 years. And those who say people may stay married but are really unhappy don't know what they are talking about....they must be someone cynical who has only experienced unhappy, failied relationships.
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Jan 31, 2011 11:56 PM CST we have come a long way baby,whats wrong with that?NOTHING
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
JeanMarlow: Exactly true. I know lots of people who have been married for decades. I was happily married for 20 years. And those who say people may stay married but are really unhappy don't know what they are talking about....they must be someone cynical who has only experienced unhappy, failied relationships.



Have you met every married couple on the planet and interviewed them to see if their marriage is a happy one?laugh

I've seen unhappy marriages where the couple have stuck it for religious reasons, some for the sake of the kids and family, and one where they were both just too damn greedy to split everything up.laugh

Yep, they're still together, and I think it's the smart ones that get divorced in situations like that.

Nothing cynical about it, just reality, and before you ask, I've never been married, or had a "bad relationship". tongue
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