silverhaze: I'm leaving how many times have you said that .How many chances would you give someone you love ? Are you guilty of giving someone to many chances ...?
I have never said that
I wouldnt say that I was guilty of giving someone too many chances. Talking is great. Ultimatums dont work imo.
True love is hard to find but at a certain point your no longer giving your self a chance to live happy. I guess it jus depends on how much you can take.
I have never said that,when it was time i packed his bags,had them setting on the back porch after he was out all weekend with another woman,not at his mothers like he was suppose to be.
Im not into the whole "second chances" yadda crap...It just seems to be prolonging drama to me. If you did the dirty on me once, youve revealed who you are and why would I subject myself to more. I have more self respect than that.
demonfairy: I have never said that,when it was time i packed his bags,had them setting on the back porch after he was out all weekend with another woman,not at his mothers like he was suppose to be.
O! Mine came home to the locks changed and his belongings checked into a hotel
venusenvy: Im not into the whole "second chances" yadda crap...It just seems to be prolonging drama to me. If you did the dirty on me once, youve revealed who you are and why would I subject myself to more. I have more self respect than that.
Well said. Second chances usually only add to more frustration.
silverhaze: I'm leaving how many times have you said that .How many chances would you give someone you love ? Are you guilty of giving someone to many chances ...?
I do believe you have to accommodate other people, consider their wishes and feelings. Even make concessions at times as we are ALL only human and not infallible, but.....
The deciding factor must surely come when making allowances for someone turns out to be actually making excuses for that person? I would question WHY am I having to make excuses.....
venusenvy: Im not into the whole "second chances" yadda crap...It just seems to be prolonging drama to me. If you did the dirty on me once, youve revealed who you are and why would I subject myself to more. I have more self respect than that.
chris27292729: I have a couple of RED LINES well explained to my partner.When those red lines are crossed,is time for me to leave.
Sounds reasonable. You know, when you fall in love..it can be hard to leave. Just sayin'--but I could, I think. I've never met anybody worth living in hell for. Period.
Feb 4, 2011 5:37 PM CST If it happens again ............
supersausageworcestershire, Herefordshire, England UK93 Posts
supersausageworcestershire, Herefordshire, England UK93 posts
silverhaze: I'm leaving how many times have you said that .How many chances would you give someone you love ? Are you guilty of giving someone to many chances ...?
It depends on the circumstances.If they were unfaithful no chances.
supersausage: It depends on the circumstances.If they were unfaithful no chances.
Wow I am so surprised about the men who say no chances for one unfaithful! But then, I have been out of the loop for quite awhile. Just a little surprised by such adamant resounding "no's"!!
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Are you guilty of giving someone to many chances ...?