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Feb 4, 2011 12:14 PM CST If it happens again ............
silverhaze
silverhazesilverhazeessex, Essex, England UK14 Threads 83 Posts
I'm leaving how many times have you said that .How many chances would you give someone you love ?dunno


Are you guilty of giving someone to many chances ...?
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Feb 4, 2011 12:25 PM CST If it happens again ............
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
silverhaze: I'm leaving how many times have you said that .How many chances would you give someone you love ? Are you guilty of giving someone to many chances ...?


I have never said that laugh

I wouldnt say that I was guilty of giving someone too many chances. Talking is great. Ultimatums dont work imo.
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Feb 4, 2011 12:27 PM CST If it happens again ............
silverhaze
silverhazesilverhazeessex, Essex, England UK14 Threads 83 Posts
vinny1967: I have never said that

I wouldnt say that I was guilty of giving someone too many chances. Talking is great. Ultimatums dont work imo.


Well done you cheers
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Feb 4, 2011 12:29 PM CST If it happens again ............
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
silverhaze: Well done you


tip hat

But then again the talking didnt work either laugh doh

cheers
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Feb 4, 2011 12:31 PM CST If it happens again ............
Saint4393
Saint4393Saint4393Littleton, Colorado USA2 Threads 15 Posts
True love is hard to find but at a certain point your no longer giving your self a chance to live happy. I guess it jus depends on how much you can take.
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Feb 4, 2011 12:34 PM CST If it happens again ............
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
I have never said that,when it was time i packed his bags,had them setting on the back porch after he was out all weekend with another woman,not at his mothers like he was suppose to be.grin
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Feb 4, 2011 1:42 PM CST If it happens again ............
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
I tend to say things once. Then do what I said I would do, after the time I had alloted.wine
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Feb 4, 2011 1:45 PM CST If it happens again ............
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Im not into the whole "second chances" yadda crap...It just seems to be prolonging drama to me. If you did the dirty on me once, youve revealed who you are and why would I subject myself to more. I have more self respect than that. wine
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Feb 4, 2011 3:26 PM CST If it happens again ............
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
I have a couple of RED LINES well explained to my partner.When those red lines are crossed,is time for me to leave.
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Feb 4, 2011 3:28 PM CST If it happens again ............
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
chris27292729: I have a couple of RED LINES well explained to my partner.When those red lines are crossed,is time for me to leave.
Hi Chris.wave Hope you are well.hug
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Feb 4, 2011 3:29 PM CST If it happens again ............
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
demonfairy: I have never said that,when it was time i packed his bags,had them setting on the back porch after he was out all weekend with another woman,not at his mothers like he was suppose to be.



O! Mine came home to the locks changed and his belongings checked into a hotel wine yay
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Feb 4, 2011 3:29 PM CST If it happens again ............
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts

got this song im my head when I read that headline...dancing ..laugh
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Feb 4, 2011 3:34 PM CST If it happens again ............
venusenvy: Im not into the whole "second chances" yadda crap...It just seems to be prolonging drama to me. If you did the dirty on me once, youve revealed who you are and why would I subject myself to more. I have more self respect than that.


Well said. Second chances usually only add to more frustration.
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Feb 4, 2011 3:43 PM CST If it happens again ............
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
im quite easy going,but,once i ve had enough,that is final..cool
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Feb 4, 2011 3:49 PM CST If it happens again ............
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
silverhaze: I'm leaving how many times have you said that .How many chances would you give someone you love ? Are you guilty of giving someone to many chances ...?


I do believe you have to accommodate other people, consider their wishes and feelings. Even make concessions at times as we are ALL only human and not infallible, but.....

The deciding factor must surely come when making allowances for someone turns out to be actually making excuses for that person? I would question WHY am I having to make excuses.....

Nahhhh...BYE! wave
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Feb 4, 2011 5:21 PM CST If it happens again ............
Bental
BentalBentalAttard, Majjistral Malta2 Threads 574 Posts
venusenvy: Im not into the whole "second chances" yadda crap...It just seems to be prolonging drama to me. If you did the dirty on me once, youve revealed who you are and why would I subject myself to more. I have more self respect than that.


100/100 cheers
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Feb 4, 2011 5:34 PM CST If it happens again ............
chris27292729: I have a couple of RED LINES well explained to my partner.When those red lines are crossed,is time for me to leave.
Sounds reasonable. You know, when you fall in love..it can be hard to leave. Just sayin'--but I could, I think. I've never met anybody worth living in hell for. Period.
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Feb 4, 2011 5:37 PM CST If it happens again ............
supersausage
supersausagesupersausageworcestershire, Herefordshire, England UK93 Posts
silverhaze: I'm leaving how many times have you said that .How many chances would you give someone you love ? Are you guilty of giving someone to many chances ...?


It depends on the circumstances.If they were unfaithful no chances.peace
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Feb 4, 2011 5:45 PM CST If it happens again ............
Bental: If you do once to me, shame on you.

If you do it twice to me, shame on me.
You must have been treated quite badly. I'm sorry about that. I understand.handshake
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Feb 4, 2011 5:46 PM CST If it happens again ............
supersausage: It depends on the circumstances.If they were unfaithful no chances.
Wow I am so surprised about the men who say no chances for one unfaithful! But then, I have been out of the loop for quite awhile. Just a little surprised by such adamant resounding "no's"!!
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