One for the guys........... (76)
I think a lot of people are weary of giving out mobile numbers.
I find women are usually more cautious with this. I certainly have given my mobile number out and regretted it later.
I'd also be cautious that he wasn't married that is why he is delaying handing it over.
There isn't a single answer to this.
It many just be the fact he has had a bad experience with handing out his mobile number and wants to wait a bit longer.
Or it could be the fact that his wife just walked in the room and looked over his shoulder.
Personally I think the best way is until you actually meet in person, fall for nothing, keep an open mind, but closed heart.
I find women are usually more cautious with this. I certainly have given my mobile number out and regretted it later.
I'd also be cautious that he wasn't married that is why he is delaying handing it over.
There isn't a single answer to this.
It many just be the fact he has had a bad experience with handing out his mobile number and wants to wait a bit longer.
Or it could be the fact that his wife just walked in the room and looked over his shoulder.
Personally I think the best way is until you actually meet in person, fall for nothing, keep an open mind, but closed heart.
Had almost same problem. In 3 months Ive emailed 2 ladies, chatted for several days and then emailed for a couple of weeks the minute I suggested coffee they blocked their profile, well least 1 of them had the decency to eamil(sorry maybe some other time the other just didnt answer at all. Could it be I was reluctant to offer my number?
Signed .......... not desperate either.
Signed .......... not desperate either.
sxc666: I think a lot of people are weary of giving out mobile numbers.
I find women are usually more cautious with this. I certainly have given my mobile number out and regretted it later.
I'd also be cautious that he wasn't married that is why he is delaying handing it over.There isn't a single answer to this.
It many just be the fact he has had a bad experience with handing out his mobile number and wants to wait a bit longer.Or it could be the fact that his wife just walked in the room and looked over his shoulder.
Personally I think the best way is until you actually meet in person, fall for nothing, keep an open mind, but closed heart.
Hey this was meant for the guys, but you make some very good points.I find women are usually more cautious with this. I certainly have given my mobile number out and regretted it later.
I'd also be cautious that he wasn't married that is why he is delaying handing it over.There isn't a single answer to this.
It many just be the fact he has had a bad experience with handing out his mobile number and wants to wait a bit longer.Or it could be the fact that his wife just walked in the room and looked over his shoulder.
Personally I think the best way is until you actually meet in person, fall for nothing, keep an open mind, but closed heart.
tonyxf: Hey this was meant for the guys, but you make some very good points.
Maybe I'm a tom boy 
I should also have put in my post that meeting for a drink was also declined. Same response............to soon. I dont want to have my next date when i get to heaven 
in case they dont drink up there. 
They still want to email so i can only think they are NOT single. 
......to soon. I dont want to have my next date when i get to heaven in case they dont drink up there. They still want to email so i can only think they are NOT single. sxc666: Maybe I'm a tom boy
I like the 1 where the wife has just walked in.
bonsai: I should also have put in my post that meeting for a drink was also declined. Same response............to soon. I dont want to have my next date when i get to heaven in case they dont drink up there. They still want to email so i can only think they are NOT single.
If you get up this way at all, I have nothing against small trees at all, I will be happy to date you. (Just don't tell Red or Shell)
sxc666: Maybe I'm a tom boy
as some of us are
bonsai: I should also have put in my post that meeting for a drink was also declined. Same response............to soon. I dont want to have my next date when i get to heaven in case they dont drink up there. They still want to email so i can only think they are NOT single.
I find that strange
usually it's the guys giving their number and asking you out for a drinkredozichick: (.)(.)
Niooooce bazookas ..
I have the opposite problem. I get email addy's and mobile and even landline numbers in the first few messages here but I won't exchange numbers. I get some asking my kids names and most of the time I won't give that info out either.
Thing is i've stated in my profile that i'm only looking for a chat and chat only. Now I would've thought that told people I don't want to meet anyone.
So I tell these guys I don't want to meet up because for several reasons-i'm pregnant so not looking to date, I have 2 kids and I have no support so my kids are with me pretty much 24/7 so i'm not able to meet even if I wanted to. I'm straight up and honest about what I want from this place yet they still try to get me to date them.
But i'd imagine if I wanted to date, i'd have the opposite problem, just like the OP lol.
Can't win either way.
Thing is i've stated in my profile that i'm only looking for a chat and chat only. Now I would've thought that told people I don't want to meet anyone.
So I tell these guys I don't want to meet up because for several reasons-i'm pregnant so not looking to date, I have 2 kids and I have no support so my kids are with me pretty much 24/7 so i'm not able to meet even if I wanted to. I'm straight up and honest about what I want from this place yet they still try to get me to date them.
But i'd imagine if I wanted to date, i'd have the opposite problem, just like the OP lol.
Can't win either way.
Twodawgz: Niooooce bazookas ..
why thankyou
now...show me your you know what
redozichick: why thankyou
now...show me your you know what
now...show me your you know what
you like my smile huh..
redozichick: you could be onto something there....
I think men are just scared of redheads
.........with cold wet noses.I think men are just scared of redheads
Seriously though men say they like honest assurtive women but as soon as you are upfront they (some not all) turn to jelly. Maybe i am not playing the game according to their rules.......screw the rules, there is nothing wrong with a woman asking and paying for a mans drink/dinner. I think you may have a point about being scared of redheads. WE ARE NOT ALL FIERY DRAMA QUEENS OK.
Twodawgz: you like my smile huh..
yeah that's what I was talking aboutbonsai: .........with cold wet noses. Seriously though men say they like honest assurtive women but as soon as you are upfront they (some not all) turn to jelly. Maybe i am not playing the game according to their rules.......screw the rules, there is nothing wrong with a woman asking and paying for a mans drink/dinner. I think you may have a point about being scared of redheads. WE ARE NOT ALL FIERY DRAMA QUEENS OK.
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I am on a "Dating" site to do just that, not look for a husband, live-in lover, a place to stay, money or an email friend. (enjoy the forums too)
We can all be suspicious but how long should i keep tapping the keys
signed......... dateless NOT desperate.