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Feb 20, 2011 10:06 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
waterprincess
waterprincesswaterprincessphuket, Southern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 35 Posts
I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? dunno first time I have this.
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Feb 20, 2011 10:13 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
Maybe he wants to get to know you as a friend first... and then once he has got to know you it may move to more...

As the Time above stated I sometimes go out with a girl for dinner lunch a drink as thats my social circle... mainly female.
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Feb 20, 2011 10:13 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
waterprincess
waterprincesswaterprincessphuket, Southern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 35 Posts
Oh!!!!!!Ok thank you for thatlaugh i got it now
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Feb 20, 2011 10:15 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
Maybe he's just hungry....grin
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Feb 20, 2011 10:16 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
In response to: I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? first time I have this.



I go out with men who I've been friends with for a long time.Nothing wrong with having men friends.
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Feb 20, 2011 10:17 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
waterprincess
waterprincesswaterprincessphuket, Southern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 35 Posts
Slarti: Maybe he wants to get to know you as a friend first... and then once he has got to know you it may move to more...

As the Time above stated I sometimes go out with a girl for dinner lunch a drink as thats my social circle... mainly female.

I have a lot of male friend too. they do the same
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Feb 20, 2011 10:18 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
waterprincess
waterprincesswaterprincessphuket, Southern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 35 Posts
DjWabbet: Maybe he's just hungry....
may be dont want to eat alone lol
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Feb 20, 2011 10:20 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
waterprincess
waterprincesswaterprincessphuket, Southern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 35 Posts
Ccincy: I go out with men who I've been friends with for a long time.Nothing wrong with having men friends.
Yes I think so cheers
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Feb 20, 2011 10:25 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
waterprincess: I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? first time I have this.

It`s just a friendly dinner invitation ,that`s all ...dunno

but just in case ,be sure to have a G-string on...grin
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Feb 20, 2011 10:27 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
May be he's a gay
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Feb 20, 2011 10:28 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
waterprincess: I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? first time I have this.
ok now lets go for a date too thenwink grin
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Feb 21, 2011 8:03 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
Sk8ndnc
Sk8ndncSk8ndncAlbuquerque, New Mexico USA61 Posts
He's either lying or has VERY low testosterone or he's gay.
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Feb 21, 2011 8:27 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Some of you guys think that he is gay for asking this? WOW! Do you have big egos or what? What a shame! doh
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Feb 21, 2011 9:14 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
Looking_Heart
Looking_HeartLooking_HeartSPRINGFIELD, Missouri USA15 Threads 5 Polls 592 Posts
just because he wants to take you out for dinner doesn't necessarily mean he wants to eat you dunno
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Feb 21, 2011 9:45 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Maybe hes too shy to ask you on a "date" but obviously, hes interested in you...Go and see what happens...good luck sweetie hug
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Feb 21, 2011 9:57 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
waterprincess: I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? first time I have this.


What is that? Damn annoying sometimes, is what that is.

Welcome to my life. handshake

It probably means he's interested, but not sure enough to come right out and call it a date. He's trying you on for size in a way that puts less pressure on him, and more uncertainty and work for you because I know you'll probably be at least subconsciously scrutinizing and analyzing the evening because you're trying to figure out what's going on.

And, who knows, if he decides you are worth his effort he might man up and actually ask you on a proper date next time. laugh

Good luck. hug
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Feb 21, 2011 10:02 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
I can be a bit guilty of this myself to be honest and I hadn't given it much thought till you mention it so thanks. I've had so many dissappointments and even had me auld heart broken a couple of times so I think I play safe just to dip my toe in the water. I'm not afraid of committment! It's abandonment I fear and it stops me getting too close!

sigh
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Feb 21, 2011 10:08 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
faded_dino: Some of you guys think that he is gay for asking this? WOW! Do you have big egos or what? What a shame!
I don't think it is about their egos. I think it is a compliment to the girl, (albeit not stated that clearly), that she is so beautiful that the other man must have something wrong not to see it, and want her.wine
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Feb 21, 2011 10:58 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
GingerBe: I don't think it is about their egos. I think it is a compliment to the girl, (albeit not stated that clearly), that she is so beautiful that the other man must have something wrong not to see it, and want her.

So little detailed information to give much of an assessment.

I would not be fooled that his offer was purely platonic if its from a dating site. Is he much older than you? Does he look like a swamp donkey?
Maybe he sees his no pressure offer as his best bet in getting to be with you with the hope that he will dazzle you with his personality?
Lets face it,many people post pictures of themselves that are a misrepresentation of themselves in the hope that their date will see past that and fall for their charms.

dunno
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Feb 22, 2011 7:31 AM CST Offer dinner but not for date
waterprincess
waterprincesswaterprincessphuket, Southern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 35 Posts
Boban1: It`s just a friendly dinner invitation ,that`s all ...

but just in case ,be sure to have a G-string on...
Hey !!!! is that important
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