In response to: I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? first time I have this.
I go out with men who I've been friends with for a long time.Nothing wrong with having men friends.
waterprincess: I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? first time I have this.
It`s just a friendly dinner invitation ,that`s all ...
but just in case ,be sure to have a G-string on...
waterprincess: I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? first time I have this.
waterprincess: I Just get some guy offer me a dinner. But not for date. He want to make friendship but not for date me. What is that ? first time I have this.
What is that? Damn annoying sometimes, is what that is.
Welcome to my life.
It probably means he's interested, but not sure enough to come right out and call it a date. He's trying you on for size in a way that puts less pressure on him, and more uncertainty and work for you because I know you'll probably be at least subconsciously scrutinizing and analyzing the evening because you're trying to figure out what's going on.
And, who knows, if he decides you are worth his effort he might man up and actually ask you on a proper date next time.
I can be a bit guilty of this myself to be honest and I hadn't given it much thought till you mention it so thanks. I've had so many dissappointments and even had me auld heart broken a couple of times so I think I play safe just to dip my toe in the water. I'm not afraid of committment! It's abandonment I fear and it stops me getting too close!
faded_dino: Some of you guys think that he is gay for asking this? WOW! Do you have big egos or what? What a shame!
I don't think it is about their egos. I think it is a compliment to the girl, (albeit not stated that clearly), that she is so beautiful that the other man must have something wrong not to see it, and want her.
GingerBe: I don't think it is about their egos. I think it is a compliment to the girl, (albeit not stated that clearly), that she is so beautiful that the other man must have something wrong not to see it, and want her.
So little detailed information to give much of an assessment.
I would not be fooled that his offer was purely platonic if its from a dating site. Is he much older than you? Does he look like a swamp donkey? Maybe he sees his no pressure offer as his best bet in getting to be with you with the hope that he will dazzle you with his personality? Lets face it,many people post pictures of themselves that are a misrepresentation of themselves in the hope that their date will see past that and fall for their charms.
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