Faithe: The age of the man doesnt make the " wave length " its the attitude of the man, how he thinks and how he sees the world. Im 47years old and theirs nothing in the rule books to say that a 25year old man cant be on the same wave length as me.
If you want a young guy then go for it, as should the OP but in my opinion people are better off sticking to their own age group. The OP obviously has doubts or this thread would not have been startted.
marisollOPBelen, Real Cariari, Heredia Costa Rica23 posts
Faithe: So why does he try to act your age...he should just be himself after all thats what attracted you in the first place. Let him be himself, you be yourself and just enjoy each other.
venusinsilk: If you want a young guy then go for it, as should the OP but in my opinion people are better off sticking to their own age group. The OP obviously has doubts or this thread would not have been startted.
She only expects confirmation from dreamers like her...
venusinsilk: If you want a young guy then go for it, as should the OP but in my opinion people are better off sticking to their own age group. The OP obviously has doubts or this thread would not have been startted.
Yes she obviously does have doubts and is seeking opinions of others to help her make a decision...but in the end it is her decision alone. I dont look at the age of a man l look at the man himself...personality wise and whether lm am attracted to him or not.
marisoll: A year or so ago, while on vacation in the Caribean, I met a wonderful young man,,,, after many drinks, we ended up in bed, he is now 20 and I am 42.... no matter, how hard he tries to act my age, it is impossible, he wants to stay with me, but... I think that it is just unfair for us both, even though we are very happy when we are together..... I really have to let him go and I am having a difficult time doing so...... ANY ADVICE, PLEASE???? all advice will be appreciated, thank you....
Do what makes you both happy. Life is only one. Love is not found easy.
Sampe1967: I love and am seeing a 16yo right now. her father blows fire out of his nose but she loves me.
I have a daughter that is going to be 16 this summer and if I caught a 43 y/o man buzzing around her, well lets just say you'd better hope the police get to you before I do...you'd be w/o some precious parts that's for darn sure.
jahzahHappyfairygoblinland, Victoria Australia2,574 posts
lilmamma71: I have a daughter that is going to be 16 this summer and if I caught a 43 y/o man buzzing around her, well lets just say you'd better hope the police get to you before I do...you'd be w/o some precious parts that's for darn sure.
simply nauseating....
What if you had a 20yo son with a 47yo woman attracted to him ?
marisollOPBelen, Real Cariari, Heredia Costa Rica23 posts
Jahzah, have you ever been in love? have you ever loved someone soooooo much that you were willing to let him go so that he could find more happiness elsewhere, hopefully ? I am living that now and regardless of all the cruel things that you have to say, the love that I feel for him is not going away.... you find me a heartbreak pill and never ending tear stopper and I will take it........ REALLY, REALLY fall in love one day and then , please give me advice and you bet that I will appreciate it ! thank you anyway buddy !!!!!
BY THE WAY........ I CAN HVE CHILDREN STILL !!! my grandmother's last baby was born when she was just at the tender age of 57 and my aunt is healthy, talented, intelligent as anyone, she is an amazing doctor....
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
marisoll: A year or so ago, while on vacation in the Caribean, I met a wonderful young man,,,, after many drinks, we ended up in bed, he is now 20 and I am 42.... no matter, how hard he tries to act my age, it is impossible, he wants to stay with me, but... I think that it is just unfair for us both, even though we are very happy when we are together..... I really have to let him go and I am having a difficult time doing so...... ANY ADVICE, PLEASE???? all advice will be appreciated, thank you....
hmm, i know for some, personal happiness is what matters, but i sort of get your worry. He's too young. 20 years old and haven't explored his full potentials yet. Let him live his life to the full. You're in for a heartbreak when she finds a younger woman too.
Faithe: Yes she obviously does have doubts and is seeking opinions of others to help her make a decision...but in the end it is her decision alone. I dont look at the age of a man l look at the man himself...personality wise and whether lm am attracted to him or not.
She has her doubts and I was giving my opinion.Anyway she seems to have disregarded anyone who thought the age difference was a problem. I also notice on you profile you're seeking a male between 40 and 50. Having read what you've had to say to me here, maybe you should change it as you could be missing out on the man of your dreams.
marisollOPBelen, Real Cariari, Heredia Costa Rica23 posts
Faithe: What if that chance never happens and while you are looking you could have missed out on the happiest time of your life and their relationship has just as much chance of lasting the distance as any other does as long as they dont bow to pressure from other people who see it as wrong or distastefull. Thats not a dig at you btw its just a simple statement.
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