An Apology ( Archived) (17)

No, someone played you like a fiddle with their victim behavior. Frankly I think it reprehensible but it's the nature of victim behavior. It's classic pre-emptive passive aggressive positioning to create a self worth that is sorely lacking in their reality by victimizing others under the flag of being the real victim. All the while trying to subvert your self worth.

Do not believe what you were told Ccincy. You were setup to appear the way she wanted it to look, not the way that reality is.

Wth! Where was all this hurting going on? I've been all over these forums today and I haven't seen you say anything hurtful.

You're punking us right?

Ccincy,I know you as a lovely lady and Im sure you would never hurt anyone just too hurt them.
I hope they take your Sorry and let it go at that.

While I was gone off site I'm surprised I didn't get accused of having a pitty party or something.Some are so good at thinking that.
I just needed a short break and spend time in the non- cyberworld.

I know I was set up to be the fall girl but I wanted to do an apology anyway.That way it just shows I'm the bigger person.That I do have more class then some people.

People whom I have contact with everyday and spend time with know I'm not a bully.Nor do I knowingly and purposely harrass paople.I'm not claiming to be perfect but I don't need to hide behind my computer screen either.


I hurt and have feelings just like anyone else.


I went into a thread and responded to acouple comments not seeking anyone out.I don't play mind games.Never have and never will.

It seems that some people in cyberworld seem to think that if someone doesn't dote on their every word then they try to make things personal by accusing someone of being part of a pack.


I didn't realize that I'm always supposed to agree with what someone says.It would be pretty darn boring if we all thought like.

There would be no need for anyone posting threads on here asking questions on different topics if we were all in agreement.
We weren't need to get someones opinion.

Friendly request.Just let this thread die.

It happened and it's over.Life goes on.


I love you all

lovely thing to do hun..

Consider it dead, but please don't let ANYTHING here get to you. You seem to be a kind and lovely woman. You offered one apology and were fairly rebuked for having done so. A second one (this thread) was not necessary, in my opinion. But it's ONLY my opinion, and there are many varying opinions here. Carry on with who you are and don't let little pictures on a screen upset you. Yes, we're all people and we all have feelings and words can hurt. But we're all just cyber blips. You just be who you are. From what I've seen, that's all you need to be!