my date walked away ( Archived) (342)

Mar 26, 2011 7:27 PM CST my date walked away
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
jonnt: Well the times aint changin round here ..



the answer my friend, is blowin in the wind....
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Mar 26, 2011 7:27 PM CST my date walked away
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Merriweather: Hey Kid,
I dont see you very often any more...(time diff)

You keep on at it hun, you will find your special someone...



Hi Merriwave

I'm still around occasionally, but lost interest in dating a while ago, just here to pester people now. grin
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Mar 26, 2011 7:29 PM CST my date walked away
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
kidatheart: I have done that, but then I miss all the silliness and humour here.


Miss you too Kid teddybear teddybear
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Mar 26, 2011 7:29 PM CST my date walked away
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: the answer my friend, is blowin in the wind....


Who farted very mad
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Mar 26, 2011 7:30 PM CST my date walked away
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
carenza: so,

here is something new to put down to experience.

I had a date last thursday. In my city, shops are open untill 2100 pm on thursday.
I had a date, first time, guy I met in real life.

we went for something to eat in the city.

it was crowded and I had a few words with a woman about a seat in the restaurant.
she became very ugly towards me....I shall spare you details but in short, I told her to get lost and turned my back at her and her friends. the rest of our time in the restaurant, she kept attacking me verbally........and what did my date do?

sat quietly, ate his meal with the speed of light, kissed farewell and walked away.
texting me he had a nice evening out but was not interested.



the knight had rusty armour and his horse was terminal I guess.
what a bummer.....not even one word to stand up for me...

I wonder if there is any hope left...


I think that because the date was in YOUR city, you where sort of leading. He might have thought you were familiar with the restaurant and could be why he let you sort out the "chair situation" (may be).


I think you felt you were the host and he was the guest also because of being in YOUR city. I think that is you took the lead in sorting out the missing chair and why it threw you out of balance when the woman refused you the chair, because someone was being unkind to you in your patch in front of your date (the guest). And I think your hurt pride is what caused your reaction to her. Unfortunately reactions to events are often not "rational" decisions and it all escalted and got out of hand.

May be no one is to blame. It's probably happened to every one to feel proud and "kind of" enjoy showing someone around and when someone bursts your bubble we over-react.

Carenza hope you stop feeling bad about the experience. We all need to learn not to let others burst our bubbles. And may be we all need to learn not to have too many bubbles so that we act rather than react dunno
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Mar 26, 2011 7:30 PM CST my date walked away
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
venusenvy: Who farted


grin
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Mar 26, 2011 7:30 PM CST my date walked away
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
rohaan: Yeah, and I'm not going to work on Maggie's farm no more, 'cause a hard rain's gonna fall on Mr. Tambourine man and my big brass bed is going to rust.


It aint me babe no no no it aint me...it aint me your lookin for babe dance
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Mar 26, 2011 7:31 PM CST my date walked away
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ahhahahahha Right on cue miz fartypants rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing teddybear
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Mar 26, 2011 7:34 PM CST my date walked away
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing @ Sunshine and Yabba


wave @ Kidda
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Mar 26, 2011 7:35 PM CST my date walked away
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
gnite peepsyawn teddybear
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Mar 26, 2011 7:35 PM CST my date walked away
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
rohaan: you have a nice way of putting things. I wish I were a little more diplomatic.



Thanks Rohannwave

I know a few fairly aggressive women, and at least one of them would be pissed off if someone tried to step in, regardless of whether it was a man or a woman. They're all quite capable of handling themselves in nearly any situation, so I let them.laugh
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Mar 26, 2011 7:36 PM CST my date walked away
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA230 Threads 10,539 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: the answer my friend, is blowin in the wind....
But, suddenly it happened, I lost every dime, but I'm richer by far, with a satisfied mind...gotta go all you cool folks on here! Love you, yes, really, I do...good nighthug
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Mar 26, 2011 7:36 PM CST my date walked away
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: gnite peeps


Night Sunshine hug
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Mar 26, 2011 7:36 PM CST my date walked away
puppypower
puppypowerpuppypowerRockhampton, Queensland Australia9 Threads 2 Polls 757 Posts
snipped
maryrachelle: I think most might prefer to turn gay.



if you become Bi it more than doubles your chance of getting laid rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 26, 2011 7:36 PM CST my date walked away
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
EagleWoman: @ Sunshine and Yabba @ Kidda


Buns of steel...... according to Sunshines dreams.....

Eagles buns... flex


Phhffffffttttttt.... Stop it Am!!! wink


super
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Mar 26, 2011 7:39 PM CST my date walked away
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
kidatheart: Thanks Rohann

I know a few fairly aggressive women, and at least one of them would be pissed off if someone tried to step in, regardless of whether it was a man or a woman. They're all quite capable of handling themselves in nearly any situation, so I let them.


Wanna wrestle?? flex boxing
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Mar 26, 2011 7:39 PM CST my date walked away
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
rohaan: But, suddenly it happened, I lost every dime, but I'm richer by far, with a satisfied mind...gotta go all you cool folks on here! Love you, yes, really, I do...good night


Night Ro...sweet dreams teddybear yawn wave
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Mar 26, 2011 7:40 PM CST my date walked away
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
venusenvy: Miss you too Kid



hug bouquet
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Mar 26, 2011 7:43 PM CST my date walked away
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
venusenvy: Wanna wrestle??



Jello?grin
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Mar 26, 2011 7:44 PM CST my date walked away
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I don't see how it can be the man's fault beause his date got into an arguemnet with another person in a diner over a piece of furniture.Couldn't she had asked one of the waitstaff for another chair herself.grin
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