Ok, we've all been out on dates and met people and we've all been in relationships at some point in our lives.
Biggest Pet Peeve you have come across - the one thing that makes you so crazy that it would break all possibilities to a possible future with someone
Biggest Turn On - one that is an absolute MUST!!!
I know we gotta think about it but let's do this!!!!
Pet Peeve: Absolutely despise a man that has can't deal with a situation - gets all nervous and flustered when faced with a "situation"!! Makes me think he is weak and unable to process life.
Turn On: Brains - I love brains - to converse about topics that otherwise wouldnt be discussed - such as the depth of human psyche, or the politics of a very foreign country. I love a man that can hold a conversation. But I don't want so much intellect that it takes away from personality and joys of life either.
ClearlyStated: Ok, we've all been out on dates and met people and we've all been in relationships at some point in our lives.
Biggest Pet Peeve you have come across - the one thing that makes you so crazy that it would break all possibilities to a possible future with someone
Biggest Turn On - one that is an absolute MUST!!!
I know we gotta think about it but let's do this!!!!
Pet Peeve: Absolutely despise a man that has can't deal with a situation - gets all nervous and flustered when faced with a "situation"!! Makes me think he is weak and unable to process life.
Turn On: Brains - I love brains - to converse about topics that otherwise wouldnt be discussed - such as the depth of human psyche, or the politics of a very foreign country. I love a man that can hold a conversation. But I don't want so much intellect that it takes away from personality and joys of life either.
The first thing that came to my mind. Back in the mid 70's I was on a date with my daughter who was around 10 at the time. I had dated the guy for awhile and I wanted him to meet my parents so I invited them out to dinner with my date and my daughter. In the middle of dinner my date pushed his chair by from the table, crossed one leg over the other like most met sit and started to smoke. I was so embarrassed but didn't say anything. When I saw the look on my father's face I knew the guy didn't win any points with him or me for that matter.
Last Thanksgiving my daughter was having a big family dinner and her husband's son put his cell phone on the table while we were eating. I don't know where I got the nerve but I told him to take it off the table. My daughter didn't mind me saying that but her husband's son wasn't used to being told what to do.
Whispered sweet nothings (like sure go ahead hunny pick any pair you like, Hell make it two)
Turn offs...
Stained wife beaters that are a indeterminent colour, Baseball caps worn backwards (actually just make it BB caps altogether)Picking of teeth, Guys that take a gob of gel and rub it vigorously on thier heads til thier hair stands on end and they walk around thinking they look hot, Plumbers butt
Whispered sweet nothings (like sure go ahead hunny pick any pair you like, Hell make it two)
Turn offs...
Stained wife beaters that are a indeterminent colour, Baseball caps worn backwards (actually just make it BB caps altogether)Picking of teeth, Guys that take a gob of gel and rub it vigorously on thier heads til thier hair stands on end and they walk around thinking they look hot, Plumbers butt
Turn on: Stature of "presence" without arrogance, a man that smiles, bald with goatie, nice poochy bum, being able to laugh at himself, compassionate, uncomplicated,
Turn off: Don't brush your teeth when you wake up, farts laughter, unable to color coordinate, HUGE beards, close mindedness, arrogance and self absorption.
Turn on: Tickle me very softly all over, nice soft lips that know how to kiss, being told "hey babe, I love that color on you, but the other sweater would look real nice on you tonight", bringing me my coffee "just right" in the morning.
Turn off: UGLY inside and out,personality dysfunctions, socks with sandals......
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Biggest Pet Peeve you have come across - the one thing that makes you so crazy that it would break all possibilities to a possible future with someone
Biggest Turn On - one that is an absolute MUST!!!
I know we gotta think about it but let's do this!!!!
Pet Peeve: Absolutely despise a man that has can't deal with a situation - gets all nervous and flustered when faced with a "situation"!! Makes me think he is weak and unable to process life.
Turn On: Brains - I love brains - to converse about topics that otherwise wouldnt be discussed - such as the depth of human psyche, or the politics of a very foreign country. I love a man that can hold a conversation. But I don't want so much intellect that it takes away from personality and joys of life either.