Divorced Men (28)

hi Michelle,

thanks for you response.

There was no war, no custody battles with my ex. in fact we are quite cival. we get together monthly for coffee to talk about our children and usually end up talking about ourselves and what is happening in our own lives. We are not best friends but do get along.
i just took my daughers to Disneyland in July this past summer. My ex came with us.(of course she stayed in her own bed for all those sicko's who are wondering. LOL). Some may find this strange but it was a moment that i thought my girls would want both parents there. We share birthdays as well. Today my daughers had parent teacher intereviews. We both went. We have a unique sitution and i am blessed that we get along for the sake of our children.

I realize most people have horror stories to tell with there own divorces. Not the case in my situaiton. Misty and i believe that adult matters should stay just that....for adults. Why bring little innocent soles into a huge battle that only creates unecessary stress for them. But i do understand that in some cases some people must go to court and battle for their kids. For those persons and their children i hope the pain is short lived.

It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.

I think that comment is BS!!! I am a divorced man and I had the BALLS to commit, it didn't work, but a love lost is a life lesson. I feel sorry for the unsuspecting woman this guy hooks up with.

Excellent point...

One thing a "divorced man" has to his credit over a "still single" man...is that he at one time had the capacity to commit himself to one person only....regardless of whether it worked or not...

How dare you write your comment about Pucks.

The relationship that he and his former wife share with regard to their children is what all of us should have been able to do. L.

Hi Lorainne,

I didnt think his comment was directed at me. I actually thought he was saying divorced men have lots to offer and that the comment made to me by the single man was BS. Maybe i am not following though?

Perhaps "iamme" could clarify.

I myself took "iamme"'s comment to be in support of Puck's view..did I miss something??

Hi Pucks,

I believe that his comment was about you and the man that you are. That is why I "took the shot" for you. His comment really "pissed me off."

By the way Pucks, if you are going to refer to me as "Lorraine", you need to learn how to spell my name properly - two "r's".

Kind Regards,

Lorraine.

TOTALLY Missed the mark!!!!! Are you in la la land or what.
I am in total support of Pucks

Pucks, sounds like the guy was telling a joke. Or trying to be witty. Although, humour is best when taken from life. So lets see. Well our wisdom does come from our experiences, which is why elderly are so understanding. Our experiences come from choices we make. And our choices are made from what we want. If this thing you say is true, well then he chose to spend his years gaining wisdom on making his wife miserable, because that is what he wanted. Very funny stuff. Okay! Seriously. Agreed, a bunch of bs.

Something is wrong with this thread. I missed a comment from some man, which led to my response in defence of Pucks. I have written an apology that was not posted. L.