Its way too fast. Definetly wait a few months at least. Ask her though, why the hurry? Communication is wonderful. If she needs legitimacy, suggest you meet friends, or siblings first. Friends shouldn't be a big deal.
I read an article in the newspaper that said single people today are addicted to dating. I beleive the article is true.
Getting to know someone I'll not have a future with? Spending time with someone who doesn't know me? Only reason I'd do that, is if I thought there was a chance I'd not have to do it again. EVER!
I'm sorry your going through this Detra. It does get better. Children don't get any younger. So focus on your children, try not to let his hurtfullness affect who you are.
And protect yourself. Do not talk to him face to face. Do not talk to him on the phone. Email him. And keep the emails.
I love candles. Tons in the bathroom with bubbles, in my bedroom, and in my livingroom. But I never leave a candle unattended. Candles are a major cause of fires.
I'm never without a book. At the moment I'm reading Raymond Feist. Magicians Master. Before that I reread Eragon, and then because I had to, the sequel. With the children. Because we will be going to see the movie!! YA!!! Coming out tomorrow, but we have to wait until the holidays, because we live in the middle of nowhere.
What they do in private is their business. And Diane was happier after the divorce. Jacqueline Kennedy also found a Greek man. Makes me think Greek men know how to appreciate a good woman. Maybe, Bill's wife should take a vacation.
I love christmas! So much! Christmas morning is my favorite. But I love christmas all the way to new year's eve. And I'm really looking forward to new year's eve too!! Much to long to tell all the joys. But Christmas morning is definetly the very best. Food. ah the best food. the best company. the best fun. And all my shoppings done. Sorry, I try to stay calm and not annoy people. But I love christmas.
I definetly have a real tree. My daughter and I picked it up today. And its the most perfect christmas tree ever. Best part of christmas, is decorating the tree. Its a load of fun. We listen to christmas songs. yes a favorite is the mckenzie brothers, 12 days of christmas. And drink eggnog. While they put up memories. I love christmas!! And today, a horse drawn carriage came up our street. Yes I live in a small town in paradise. And my neighbores all go caroling the week before christmas in a horse drawn carriage. I'm so lucky. Everyone in town puts up so many lights, and their is always someone going for a walk, arm in arm. to look at the decorations. Paradise.
I havn't thought of it Becky. Maybe I should stop serfing the forums, and go check out profiles!! Nobody should send flowers if there is no interest. Woman today are very aggresive, I wouldn't wait around for a guy to send you something.
Its the time of year for lovers. Everyone thinks spring. But for me, winters always been the hardest time to be alone. By spring you'll be happy your single again. If you are!
Honesty! That would depend on whose point of view we are talking about. I would be kind, clear, and decisive. It is already cruel, so be as kind as you can. But be clear this is it. Do not drag him through things by saying lets be friends, or we can talk. This will only make you feel less guilty, and will give him false hope. Instead, be the opposite, and just call him in 6months time, if you want to be friends. And if he gets mad, don't fight, just listen. Then walk away.
definetly cottage, nestled in front of a fire. warthm a nice contrast from the cold outside. eating smores we cooked from the fireplace. and laughing, easy, wonderful. good time.
I am a bit confused on what everyone is saying. So I'll just respond to the original question. Belief, if different for everyone. Church, is community. Both I beleive are important. Paul Tillich thinks we have lost faith. I beleive we beleive more strongly, since we are thinking for ourselves. It is true nobody goes to church, and that is sad. But that is not a loss of faith. That is a loss of community.
What a shock for Dion, getting in. But they did predict it 6 months ago. I was for Bob, very charismatic, good man. But I think Dion has good ideas, even if he is not the best public speaker. Did anybody watch the elections? Or have an opinion? Or where you upset it cut into your hockey game?
My advice Dougie, is to let it pass. It could just be an excuse. People need an excuse to break up. I'm sorry, she couldn't care for you. There was no way you could have known. But your doing fine. Your going through a hard time, just take care of yourself, and get yourself through it.
RE: Flowers - or a message.
Flowers first.