vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: If you tell me that when we arranged to meet for a date somewhere and you found me with another lady, ignoring you for the evening, you wouldn't be hurt by it, I will believe you but I know that if we had arranged to meet and you did that to me I would think it was awfull bad manners, I would be hurt and offended and I wouldn't like it at all, further more I know some people who would cause a "scene" under those circumstances.
I know you didn't mean any harm with your post and I'm not out to get into an argument over it so I'm not going to post anymore on the subject, you have my opinion. Mx
You don't have to reply to my post. I am not arguing. We are writing here to express our views and points. I am replying to your post because I don't want to be misunderstood by ohters who read this thread.
This is just an idea, nothing to be considered as an obligatory way of dating. To me it looks interesting, we are all different, of course.
One could be much more hurt if one realised that the other side didn't like him/her whatever pictures had been sent before. There are so many people who told me that they were dissapointed seeing their dates for the first time. In spite of the pictures they got.
vyoleta: You don't have to reply to my post. I am not arguing. We are writing here to express our views and points. I am replying to your post because I don't want to be misunderstood by ohters who read this thread.
This is just an idea, nothing to be considered as an obligatory way of dating. To me it looks interesting, we are all different, of course.
One could be much more hurt if one realised that the other side didn't like him/her whatever pictures had been sent before. There are so many people who told me that they were dissapointed seeing their dates for the first time. In spite of the pictures they got.
well then the polite thing to do would be to at least aknowledge the presence of the person and agree to forego the date.
It sounds to me like you might be better off attending a "speed dating evening" with that idea, I've never done that myself but I know peeps who have.
vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
Give me give me give me just a little smile That's all I ask of you Give me give me give me just a little smile We got a message for you Sunshine sunshine reggae Don't worry don't hurry take it easy Sunshine sunshine reggae...
yabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand1,692 posts
vyoleta: Give me give me give me just a little smile That's all I ask of you Give me give me give me just a little smile We got a message for you Sunshine sunshine reggae Don't worry don't hurry take it easy Sunshine sunshine reggae...
vyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia1,050 posts
Voulez-vous (aha!) Take it now or leave it (aha!) Now is all we get (aha!) Nothing promised, no regrets Voulez-vous (aha!) Ain't no big decision (aha!) You know what to do (aha!) La question c'est voulez-vous Voulez-vous
ScarlettLipstickdunno, Metro Manila Philippines738 posts
vyoleta: Voulez-vous (aha!) Take it now or leave it (aha!) Now is all we get (aha!) Nothing promised, no regrets Voulez-vous (aha!) Ain't no big decision (aha!) You know what to do (aha!) La question c'est voulez-vous Voulez-vous
yabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand1,692 posts
vyoleta: Voulez-vous (aha!) Take it now or leave it (aha!) Now is all we get (aha!) Nothing promised, no regrets Voulez-vous (aha!) Ain't no big decision (aha!) You know what to do (aha!) La question c'est voulez-vous Voulez-vous
vyoleta: Nooo, the best way is not to exchange pictures at all. Then go to the date and look around the place of your dating, if you see somebody you like, go and aproach him/her. It doesn't matter if it is not the person you have fixed your date with. Maybe it was just a match-maker for you. If this sounds stupid, at least it is a new idea to replace the old and worn-out dating patterns. Eh?
This would not be the right to do. Do unto others...treat people as you wish to be treated. It's basic human courtesy.
Rules sucks,rules are stressful and who wants a stressful life ? Life is made up of rules;why there are always rules and people must accept these silly rules ? What about breaking the rules ?
Why are you afraid that you'll be disappointed ? Disappointment is part of life and you can't always obtain the expected result.
I can't understand why people don't realize that life is success and failure.Why they fear? because they are not really stong enough to fight with failure .
Life is an adventure ,you have to assume the risk.Datings are not based on mathematical formulas or theorems
My only rule if I meet anyone from offline now is to just meet as friends and have a good time. It is easy to become fond of someone online,but why put any pressures on meeting up?
ColonelBogey: My only rule if I meet anyone from offline now is to just meet as friends and have a good time. It is easy to become fond of someone online,but why put any pressures on meeting up?
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I know you didn't mean any harm with your post and I'm not out to get into an argument over it so I'm not going to post anymore on the subject, you have my opinion.
Mx
You don't have to reply to my post. I am not arguing. We are writing here to express our views and points. I am replying to your post because I don't want to be misunderstood by ohters who read this thread.
This is just an idea, nothing to be considered as an obligatory way of dating. To me it looks interesting, we are all different, of course.
One could be much more hurt if one realised that the other side didn't like him/her whatever pictures had been sent before. There are so many people who told me that they were dissapointed seeing their dates for the first time. In spite of the pictures they got.