How to avoid a dating dissapointment. ( Archived) (96)

Apr 26, 2011 5:02 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: If you tell me that when we arranged to meet for a date somewhere and you found me with another lady, ignoring you for the evening, you wouldn't be hurt by it, I will believe you but I know that if we had arranged to meet and you did that to me I would think it was awfull bad manners, I would be hurt and offended and I wouldn't like it at all, further more I know some people who would cause a "scene" under those circumstances.

I know you didn't mean any harm with your post and I'm not out to get into an argument over it so I'm not going to post anymore on the subject, you have my opinion.
Mx



You don't have to reply to my post. I am not arguing. We are writing here to express our views and points. I am replying to your post because I don't want to be misunderstood by ohters who read this thread.

This is just an idea, nothing to be considered as an obligatory way of dating. To me it looks interesting, we are all different, of course.

One could be much more hurt if one realised that the other side didn't like him/her whatever pictures had been sent before. There are so many people who told me that they were dissapointed seeing their dates for the first time. In spite of the pictures they got.
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Apr 26, 2011 5:09 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
vyoleta: You don't have to reply to my post. I am not arguing. We are writing here to express our views and points. I am replying to your post because I don't want to be misunderstood by ohters who read this thread.

This is just an idea, nothing to be considered as an obligatory way of dating. To me it looks interesting, we are all different, of course.

One could be much more hurt if one realised that the other side didn't like him/her whatever pictures had been sent before. There are so many people who told me that they were dissapointed seeing their dates for the first time. In spite of the pictures they got.


well then the polite thing to do would be to at least aknowledge the presence of the person and agree to forego the date.

It sounds to me like you might be better off attending a "speed dating evening" with that idea, I've never done that myself but I know peeps who have.
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Apr 26, 2011 5:27 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
handshake


Give me give me give me
just a little smile
That's all I ask of you
Give me give me give me
just a little smile
We got a message for you
Sunshine sunshine reggae
Don't worry don't hurry
take it easy
Sunshine sunshine reggae...
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Apr 26, 2011 5:42 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
vyoleta: Give me give me give me
just a little smile
That's all I ask of you
Give me give me give me
just a little smile
We got a message for you
Sunshine sunshine reggae
Don't worry don't hurry
take it easy
Sunshine sunshine reggae...


Voulez vous couchez avec moi, ce soir? yay
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Apr 26, 2011 5:49 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
Voulez-vous (aha!)
Take it now or leave it (aha!)
Now is all we get (aha!)
Nothing promised, no regrets
Voulez-vous (aha!)
Ain't no big decision (aha!)
You know what to do (aha!)
La question c'est voulez-vous
Voulez-vous

scold
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Apr 26, 2011 5:50 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
ScarlettLipstick
ScarlettLipstickScarlettLipstickdunno, Metro Manila Philippines8 Threads 1 Polls 738 Posts
vyoleta: Voulez-vous (aha!)
Take it now or leave it (aha!)
Now is all we get (aha!)
Nothing promised, no regrets
Voulez-vous (aha!)
Ain't no big decision (aha!)
You know what to do (aha!)
La question c'est voulez-vous
Voulez-vous


ABBA!!! my fave!! heart wings
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Apr 26, 2011 5:53 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
vyoleta: Voulez-vous (aha!)
Take it now or leave it (aha!)
Now is all we get (aha!)
Nothing promised, no regrets
Voulez-vous (aha!)
Ain't no big decision (aha!)
You know what to do (aha!)
La question c'est voulez-vous
Voulez-vous


Tres bien madame..... Bonsoir... handshake
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Apr 26, 2011 5:54 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
GALUH
GALUHGALUHPALEMBANG, South Sumatra Indonesia1 Threads 15 Posts
9. do not talk nasty words on webcam chat otherwise u make her got illfeel.
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Apr 26, 2011 5:59 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
yabbadabbadont
yabbadabbadontyabbadabbadontsomewhere, Waikato New Zealand10 Threads 2 Polls 1,692 Posts
GALUH: 9. do not talk nasty words on webcam chat otherwise u make her got illfeel.


Tell us what happened? We need some gossip conversing
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Apr 26, 2011 6:02 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
ScarlettLipstick: 8. Don't send your naughty pics before you meet him/her
why? to me, all pictures are good pictures. he/she may like naughty pics. just ask before sending
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Apr 26, 2011 6:03 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
laugh
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Apr 26, 2011 7:20 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
vyoleta: Nooo, the best way is not to exchange pictures at all. Then go to the date and look around the place of your dating, if you see somebody you like, go and aproach him/her. It doesn't matter if it is not the person you have fixed your date with. Maybe it was just a match-maker for you. If this sounds stupid, at least it is a new idea to replace the old and worn-out dating patterns. Eh?
This would not be the right to do. Do unto others...treat people as you wish to be treated. It's basic human courtesy.
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Apr 26, 2011 7:44 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
ScarlettLipstick
ScarlettLipstickScarlettLipstickdunno, Metro Manila Philippines8 Threads 1 Polls 738 Posts
GALUH: 9. do not talk nasty words on webcam chat otherwise u make her got illfeel.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing depends on to whom yu are talking to.. rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 26, 2011 7:59 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
DeusExMachina
DeusExMachinaDeusExMachinahaaltert, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium55 Threads 1 Polls 2,705 Posts
do you have a picture of your mousetongue
nevica: why? to me, all pictures are good pictures. he/she may like naughty pics. just ask before sending
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Apr 26, 2011 8:37 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I dont do well with rules...But thank-you dear Abby grin
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Apr 26, 2011 9:03 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
myfisrt
myfisrtmyfisrtWest Jakarta, Jakarta Indonesia4 Threads 980 Posts
Never expect too much and always be ready for the worst, I guess..

grin
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Apr 26, 2011 9:44 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
drbombay: GO NAKED-this way there no delusions of grandeur.



rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing wine
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Apr 26, 2011 10:00 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
Carinas
CarinasCarinassomewhere, Victoria Australia26 Threads 306 Posts
Come on man,people are not robots

Rules sucks,rules are stressful and who wants a stressful life ?
Life is made up of rules;why there are always rules and people must accept these silly rules ? What about breaking the rules ?

Why are you afraid that you'll be disappointed ? Disappointment is part of life and you can't always obtain the expected result.

I can't understand why people don't realize that life is success and failure.Why they fear? because they are not really stong enough to fight with failure .

Life is an adventure ,you have to assume the risk.Datings are not based on mathematical formulas or theorems
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Apr 26, 2011 10:09 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
My only rule if I meet anyone from offline now is to just meet as friends and have a good time.
It is easy to become fond of someone online,but why put any pressures on meeting up?
dunno
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Apr 26, 2011 10:10 AM CST How to avoid a dating dissapointment.
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
ColonelBogey: My only rule if I meet anyone from offline now is to just meet as friends and have a good time.
It is easy to become fond of someone online,but why put any pressures on meeting up?

*Online!
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