ZEB113: I brought a new forum for conversation about western women thoughts western women think eastern boy love with western women only for visa. How much in this truth. plz give views on this topic
there is nothing to appologoze about, people put up all sorts of that kind of thread..and...
stop puting urself down so much. stand tall and proud
Happygolucky4u: In my area we have alot of women from the phillipanes from what I have seen they rarely cheat and make excellent wifes, mothers, and friends. They are assets to the community. Maybe it is because of the area where they are from they are that way Sad to think anyone would feel so desperate to marry just for a visa or money. They must come from places they really want to leave.
morgan5: I lived in Turkey for 4yrs and sadly for many a European woman was viewed as a way to improve your chance in life.
It wasnt always for a visa, sometimes it was money . Life is hard there and very dependaant on tourism, so an easy option is to find a woman, convince her you have fallen in love, and once they have the money they want your history.
It's almost seen as a an exceptable occupation.
In all fairness, it happens the other way around too. I saw a lot of western guys abusing the situation in Asia. Sometimes for visas, sometimes just for a disposable girlfriend that they mislead about their intentions.
I have also seen entire Asian families work together to snag an unsuspecting foreigner into a marriage for which he had no intention.
In one case the poor guy (a wealthy Indian Muslim from Zimbabwé) didn't know what was happening when his girlfriend and her family invited him out for dinner. Dinner happened to be the wedding ceremony complete with a couple hundred guests. Their marriage worked out well, but he really hadn't planned for it.
RayfromUSA: In all fairness, it happens the other way around too. I saw a lot of western guys abusing the situation in Asia. Sometimes for visas, sometimes just for a disposable girlfriend that they mislead about their intentions.
I have also seen entire Asian families work together to snag an unsuspecting foreigner into a marriage for which he had no intention.
In one case the poor guy (a wealthy Indian Muslim from Zimbabwé) didn't know what was happening when his girlfriend and her family invited him out for dinner. Dinner happened to be the wedding ceremony complete with a couple hundred guests. Their marriage worked out well, but he really hadn't planned for it.
Yeah you are definitely right on this one - - - in the end, one simply has to risk it - - - and have a good lawyer at hand just in case
Jun 12, 2011 6:45 AM CST why western women thoughts eastern boy love with western woman only visa
TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 Posts
TrueBlue1986Sale, South Manchester, Cheshire, England UK1,322 posts
Because somtimes it's true. Why would Women want an Eastern Man when Western Woman has spent a century fighting the old inequality and establishing the new inequality in their own land? Western society and people have never been so feminine.
However, this is the reason so many more Western men flock to Eastern women each year, to escape the tyranny at home. So this leaves a surplus of Women here, good luck.
TrueBlue1986: Because somtimes it's true. Why would Women want an Eastern Man when Western Woman has spent a century fighting the old inequality and establishing the new inequality in their own land? Western society and people have never been so feminine.
However, this is the reason so many more Western men flock to Eastern women each year, to escape the tyranny at home. So this leaves a surplus of Women here, good luck.
A good one - - -and in many cases actually you are right
ZEB113: I brought a new forum for conversation about western women thoughts western women think eastern boy love with western women only for visa. How much in this truth. plz give views on this topic
I am sure not all are after a visa. The rest are after money
Scubadiva: I am sure not all are after a visa. The rest are after money
Good thing I don't have any money Army doesn't pay well - - - As for papers - - - well one has to marry to get them and I don't inted to do that either
curly28Perth, Western Australia Australia5,450 posts
Dagosto: Zeb, my friend, may I suggest you try two things?
1. Try to read and to reply in other threads. You can give others, including women, a chance to know you.
2. When you start your own threads, think of some idea besides men and women. Example: You ask, What is your favorite food for summer? Or ask, Is it better to rent apartment or buy your own home? Or anything, to talk with people. Women in the west have great freedom to choose a partner, and want to know him first before they choose. So you must be patient.
54xmax: Good thing I don't have any money Army doesn't pay well - - - As for papers - - - well one has to marry to get them and I don't inted to do that either
Good for you. Now imagine you're an old, single woman
Happygolucky4u: Yes I have heard but never witnessed what you speak of. Most from Ukrainian and Russian area, men and women come to my area to visit not to marry They seem to stick mostly to themselves when here. They do seem to be people who are visually nice to look at. I actually feel sad for anyone who lives in difficult circumstances. I have it hard but nothing compared to some. I don't think anyone would want to feel their only option at happiness relied on a visa. I wish the world was different. If money and visa is a part of it then it is not just about love and trust it is about desperation. Anyone vernturing into something like this should do it with an open mind that it might not work out like one would hope. It is never fair to play off ones desperation and I feel both parties are wanting something out of it so to go to this measure usually means desperation. Never will I judge someones shoes I have not walked in. I try to look at the big picture in life not just one little part. What bought it to this point and possiable places it could lead. Not everyone has the desire to understand in life
You are a very wise woman and I applaud your way of thinking . . . Cos I agree with you completely
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western women think eastern boy love with western women only for visa. How much in this truth. plz give views on this topic
there is nothing to appologoze about, people put up all sorts of that kind of thread..and...
stop puting urself down so much. stand tall and proud