I had an internet stalker from another website who wouldnt take no for an answer. He followed me all over the net to every site and forum I visited, even ones related to my hobbies and interests. He was really ticked at my involvement with Irish issues. He was a brit living in Australia. He stalked me by phone, email and websites. I got every website moderator to block him, I blocked and deleted him, refused his calls, etc. eventually he gave up, after about a year.
I know from 12,000 miles away he really couldn't hurt me, but it was creepy anyway. I just had to remember what's the worst he could do, type at me?
CharliGirl: there is a guy who keeps sending me flowers and messages. i am not interested in him and have told him so and he just will not leave me alone. how do i get him to go away? hellllllp....
Have you tried blocking him or reporting him to CS?
CharliGirl: thanks for the advice. i blocked him, but he seems to have another identity on here because he shows up under another name but the pic is definitely him, though not the exact one on his usual profile.
Then it is time to report to the mods. Let them handle him. Sounds like a scammer.
CharliGirl: thanks for the advice. i blocked him, but he seems to have another identity on here because he shows up under another name but the pic is definitely him, though not the exact one on his usual profile.
If you are shure that he has another identity, then I would definately report him . That would keep him from bothering anyone here .
CharliGirl: there is a guy who keeps sending me flowers and messages. i am not interested in him and have told him so and he just will not leave me alone. how do i get him to go away? hellllllp....
What is the harm in being nice, keeping it on friendly terms...sighhh
there is a guy who keeps sending me flowers and messages. i am not interested in him and have told him so and he just will not leave me alone. how do i get him to go away? hellllllp....
CharliGirl: there is a guy who keeps sending me flowers and messages. i am not interested in him and have told him so and he just will not leave me alone. how do i get him to go away? hellllllp....
Keep asking him how open minded he is towards walking VD cases.
daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia514 posts
CharliGirl: there is a guy who keeps sending me flowers and messages. i am not interested in him and have told him so and he just will not leave me alone. how do i get him to go away? hellllllp....
I'm assuming we're talking about real life flowers and messages as unwanted internet contact is reasonably easy to block.
Charli, if you've already been upfront that you're not interested, he's actually being incredibly disrespectful of you in continuing this contact. I've been in this situation myself and it wasn't flattering - it was scary.
You'll have to be blunt - I'm afraid he's made that necessary.
You need to contact him and tell him that as far as you are concerned this is now feeling like stalking and that you are angry and upset. Tell him that you want all contact from him to stop and assure him that there will be consequences for him if he doesn't.
daisy333Sydney, New South Wales Australia514 posts
CharliGirl: thanks for the advice. i blocked him, but he seems to have another identity on here because he shows up under another name but the pic is definitely him, though not the exact one on his usual profile.
Oh I see, it's internet flowers and messages. I would have thought that his messages would be fairly easy to ignore...? Not to be unsympathetic...but it could be worse. :-)
CharliGirl: there is a guy who keeps sending me flowers and messages. i am not interested in him and have told him so and he just will not leave me alone. how do i get him to go away? hellllllp....
block and report !!
its that simple , every new profile , everytime , he will give up eventually
frankly OP , I think u r just trying to say u r so attractive that men follow u. anybody knows how to block a spam mail, and he can not have 1000 IDS..
CharliGirl: there is a guy who keeps sending me flowers and messages. i am not interested in him and have told him so and he just will not leave me alone. how do i get him to go away? hellllllp....
It's easy. All you got to do is block him. That's what one person did to me.
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