Controlling Men AND women (46)
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Ladefoss23: r ad today...
like everyday
like everyday
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Uniquemom61: I agree, There are many men and women out there that actually LIKE to be controlled.
Or controlling! But again that is the individual.
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gsmonks: I have zero tolerance for controlling people, no matter who they are. My first response is "please don't do that", the next is "don't do that", and the last is, "there's the door".
You get controlling people in work situations, too- usually people who need to be taught a lesson that such behaviour isn't acceptable.
Example- as a musician, you get people who think that because they've hired you, they can talk to you any way they like, and tell you to do whatever they want. The "clap their hands and expect people to obey", or the constant "yelling into your face" thing. The latter are unbelievable. If I worked a regular job where someone tried that, I'd videotape the s.o.b. and head straight over to Labour Relations.
In those situations when I'm playing a gig, I just smile blandly, direct the guys to pack up their gear, and we leave.
Kind of how my marriage ended . . .
You get controlling people in work situations, too- usually people who need to be taught a lesson that such behaviour isn't acceptable.
Example- as a musician, you get people who think that because they've hired you, they can talk to you any way they like, and tell you to do whatever they want. The "clap their hands and expect people to obey", or the constant "yelling into your face" thing. The latter are unbelievable. If I worked a regular job where someone tried that, I'd videotape the s.o.b. and head straight over to Labour Relations.
In those situations when I'm playing a gig, I just smile blandly, direct the guys to pack up their gear, and we leave.
Kind of how my marriage ended . . .
Sorry to hear that...
I have a friend that's in a marriage like that. But, she's comfortable with it. She goes nowhere unless he is with her, cooks when he says to, pretty much like a robot. I have asked her what it is about him that keeps her there but her response is "I love him"
I hope to one day find a man that is strong enough to keep me grounded (not controlled) yet understand me as a woman.
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gsmonks: I have zero tolerance for controlling people, no matter who they are. My first response is "please don't do that", the next is "don't do that", and the last is, "there's the door".
You get controlling people in work situations, too- usually people who need to be taught a lesson that such behaviour isn't acceptable.
Example- as a musician, you get people who think that because they've hired you, they can talk to you any way they like, and tell you to do whatever they want. The "clap their hands and expect people to obey", or the constant "yelling into your face" thing. The latter are unbelievable. If I worked a regular job where someone tried that, I'd videotape the s.o.b. and head straight over to Labour Relations.
In those situations when I'm playing a gig, I just smile blandly, direct the guys to pack up their gear, and we leave.
Kind of how my marriage ended . . .
You get controlling people in work situations, too- usually people who need to be taught a lesson that such behaviour isn't acceptable.
Example- as a musician, you get people who think that because they've hired you, they can talk to you any way they like, and tell you to do whatever they want. The "clap their hands and expect people to obey", or the constant "yelling into your face" thing. The latter are unbelievable. If I worked a regular job where someone tried that, I'd videotape the s.o.b. and head straight over to Labour Relations.
In those situations when I'm playing a gig, I just smile blandly, direct the guys to pack up their gear, and we leave.
Kind of how my marriage ended . . .
How many guys were in your marriage?
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Dagosto: How many guys were in your marriage?
That, was good...
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Dagosto: How many guys were in your marriage?
Oh, I had that coming! Should've proof-read, didn't.
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Dagosto: How many guys were in your marriage?
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Uniquemom61: Sorry to hear that...I have a friend that's in a marriage like that. But, she's comfortable with it. She goes nowhere unless he is with her, cooks when he says to, pretty much like a robot. I have asked her what it is about him that keeps her there but her response is "I love him"
I hope to one day find a man that is strong enough to keep me grounded (not controlled) yet understand me as a woman.
I hope to one day find a man that is strong enough to keep me grounded (not controlled) yet understand me as a woman.
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gsmonks: Oh, I had that coming! Should've proof-read, didn't.
Well, evidently that’s enough proof.
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manroe23: Cannot live with any man who controlling and monitoring me all the time ,i will leave him and better be single again
If a man controlling and monitoring u from bad things, u can also....... Leaving is not solution.It is best to be unmarried than single again.
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Uniquemom61: I am curious to see where you draw the line with controlling men and women. Do you prefer a man who tells you where you can go and what friends you can have....and the same with men, how do you feel about a woman that controls your every move?
OH YEA, let me think, controlled, told what to do and when.....HELL NO,
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Uniquemom61: I am curious to see where you draw the line with controlling men and women. Do you prefer a man who tells you where you can go and what friends you can have....and the same with men, how do you feel about a woman that controls your every move?
I would tell people about a guy like that and have him put away. Men like that have little willies and ED.
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Obviously Hef couldn't control his lovely bride Crystal...
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curly28: Totally not acceptable you are your own person no one can ever own you.
Yep. Controlling people need to be removed from society. I don't care where they go. They ruin everything for good innocent people because they're wack jobs.
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jvaski: Obviously Hef couldn't control his lovely bride Crystal...
I'd marry Hef. HE obviously doesn't have ED.
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Witchaywoman: I'd marry Hef. HE obviously doesn't have ED.
iguess for his money ..ha?
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I move along haven't got the time to waste 
In response to: I am curious to see where you draw the line with controlling men and women. Do you prefer a man who tells you where you can go and what friends you can have....and the same with men, how do you feel about a woman that controls your every move?
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Ladefoss23: iguess for his money ..ha?
No for his big pruny Woodrow Wilson.
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