Dealing With Depression ( Archived) (30)

Oct 18, 2006 12:15 AM CST Dealing With Depression
rob65
rob65rob65Irvona, Pennsylvania USA7 Threads 123 Posts
I've been in an on and off state of depression for a couple of weeks. How does everyone here deal with theirs?sigh
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Oct 18, 2006 12:20 AM CST Dealing With Depression
guitarplayer00
guitarplayer00guitarplayer00Portland, Oregon USA19 Threads 2 Polls 1,901 Posts
how bad /or deep is the depression>??? sometimes I just disconnect from everyone and everything!! but sometimes you might need to talk with a very trusted soul who wont throw your emotions back at you later!!! be good to yourself and dont take it out on your body,,,,,,these are my guidelines anyway for myself. hope it helps.
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Oct 18, 2006 12:22 AM CST Dealing With Depression
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
Find a walking park. Start walking around it and you will find that it tends to clear up the depression to a good degree.
That was my prescription from Dr.s, and it worked better then some of the meds.
Also surround yourself with people you care about and that care for you.
Good luck.
Kat
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Oct 18, 2006 12:23 AM CST Dealing With Depression
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
this is just me i usually try to write how i feel or talk to someone but not someone who's gonna use it against you


maybe curl up with a good book or a good movie

please dont take it out on your body


hope you get to feeling better
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Oct 18, 2006 12:27 AM CST Dealing With Depression
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Sometimes I have a bigh cry and get everything out of my system. I rarely cry so when I do cry it is usually long overdue...
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Oct 18, 2006 12:28 AM CST Dealing With Depression
rob65
rob65rob65Irvona, Pennsylvania USA7 Threads 123 Posts
I've got the people part. Some of my co-workers are good to talk with. And I have a few times. I 've helped them a little too.
The depression stems from my living environment. I moved to Pa. to help my elderly parents. VERY RURAL area. No single people! I'm 41. This ain't good!
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Oct 18, 2006 12:30 AM CST Dealing With Depression
rob65
rob65rob65Irvona, Pennsylvania USA7 Threads 123 Posts
A freind suggested I do this. Me being a big dumb guy, I can't. Come mighty close though. I think I'm afraid to do this as it would be a long onecrying
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Oct 18, 2006 12:31 AM CST Dealing With Depression
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
well you being here is a good thing even if you dont find a soul mate

we are good to talk to


some of us not so single but its the friends i have made here that help me
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Oct 18, 2006 12:37 AM CST Dealing With Depression
rob65
rob65rob65Irvona, Pennsylvania USA7 Threads 123 Posts
I've enjoyed being here. A freind at work told me about this site. I (almost) cryed on her shoulder the other day.
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Oct 18, 2006 1:08 AM CST Dealing With Depression
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Rob65...you need to see a doctor and discuss this with him...yes some people have things in their life that depresses them now and then...but alot of times its a "chemical imbalance" which can be corrected with the use of medication...

Please don't leave it until its too late to find answers....hug
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Oct 18, 2006 2:02 AM CST Dealing With Depression
rob65
rob65rob65Irvona, Pennsylvania USA7 Threads 123 Posts
Thanks Wikked for your advice. My problem just comes from a life situation that I can't control. I moved here to help my parents, and the area just isn't conducive to a single 41 year old. It isn't a major problem but it is something that started to bother me.blues
I just need to keep my eyes open more. I'll meet someone here eventually. It's only been a recent thing.
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Oct 18, 2006 2:35 AM CST Dealing With Depression
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
Alcohol is a depressant, do not drink! Get yourself a pet. Something nice like a puppy or kitten. Why do you have to take care of your parents? There are programs for respite care.
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Oct 18, 2006 2:38 AM CST Dealing With Depression
Hi Rob, why are you feeling so down? Whatever has happened in your life, you have to try and stay positive. Maybe you should try exercising and eating healthy food, that usually makes me feel good.
Don't just sit there feeling sorry for yourself and give up. Get out there, talk to a girl, you never know where that will lead.
Amypeace
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Oct 18, 2006 2:52 AM CST Dealing With Depression
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
Hi Rob...if its just a temporary thing...it will pass...so bear with it...use the helpful advice that the others have posted on here...if you think this may turn into a long term thing then use whatever help you can get in the interim....hug
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Oct 18, 2006 4:33 AM CST Dealing With Depression
scouser
scouserscouserlondon, UK17 Threads 1,346 Posts
everyone suffer"s from some sort of depression, some more than other"s, we all feel low from time to time, life is not a bed of rose"s, it was never meant to be easy, go see you doctor only if this is a long term situation, you did say last couple of week"s, if it happen"s regular, see the doc, try something new, join a local group in whatever may interest youbeer
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Oct 18, 2006 4:33 AM CST Dealing With Depression
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
Take care of yourself.
hug
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Oct 18, 2006 4:38 AM CST Dealing With Depression
Funnybone
FunnyboneFunnybonePomerene, Arizona USA34 Threads 574 Posts
Dealing With Depression is something that I have had to do this past month or so. You just hsve to take an inventory of what there is to be greatful for, no matter what it is. I'm not as bad off as it would seem to me when I count my blessings cheers
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Oct 18, 2006 4:42 AM CST Dealing With Depression
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Great Advice!...thumbs up
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Oct 18, 2006 5:17 AM CST Dealing With Depression
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
Rob65 we all go through periods of depression. It's when they go on longer than usual and seem to deepen, where the concern comes in. It's like you feel a heavy cloud over you. If that cloud is not lifted, there may be future problems.

As Wikked said it could be a chemical imbalance. If it goes beyond the "feeling blue", then you should seek a Dr.'s opinion. Everyone is different so their ability and ways of dealing with depression will be individual.

Part of depression is recognizing it as in anything in life. I go through periods where I am having a "pity party" for myself, and feel extremely down when things are bad. The suggestions that you talk to friends and family to get you through are good. The one person I know I can talk to is God. Not everyone believes as I do, but the power of prayer, for me at least, has gotten me through some very rough times.

I hope your situation improves and just remember, we are all here...you'll find some wonderful friends here.

Also, you're a good man for taking care of your parents.
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Oct 18, 2006 5:34 AM CST Dealing With Depression
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
I have a long history of depression and am on meds that help alot. Meds aren't everything though...everyone here has given you great advice. I find that isolating myself is the worst thing I can do. I found these forums a few days ago and everyone here has really been great and have made me smile and laugh more than I have in awhile.

Just try to stay busy, do something you love, make time for yourself and keep a positive attitude. Best of luck to you! hug
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