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Jun 30, 2011 8:07 PM CST Why...
Stupidfish
StupidfishStupidfishMobile, Alabama USA1 Threads 8 Posts
So I found out today that his person whom my ex said she never talked to was talking to and hanging out with. How do I know this? Because people are bored and feel the need to text me everytime they see her...ugh!!! Why, why do people feel the need to lie so uncontrollably? I mean I get that it is none of my business now, I get it. But still...even if you are my worst enemy I would still tell you the truth if for nothing more just to piss you off. I will never understand why she felt the need to lie to me as much as she did. Or does. doh
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Jun 30, 2011 8:10 PM CST Why...
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Stupidfish: So I found out today that his person whom my ex said she never talked to was talking to and hanging out with. How do I know this? Because people are bored and feel the need to text me everytime they see her...ugh!!! Why, why do people feel the need to lie so uncontrollably? I mean I get that it is none of my business now, I get it. But still...even if you are my worst enemy I would still tell you the truth if for nothing more just to piss you off. I will never understand why she felt the need to lie to me as much as she did. Or does.


Mostly to stir up crap.And they don't have a life.
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Jun 30, 2011 10:51 PM CST Why...
Stupidfish: So I found out today that his person whom my ex said she never talked to was talking to and hanging out with. How do I know this? Because people are bored and feel the need to text me everytime they see her...ugh!!! Why, why do people feel the need to lie so uncontrollably? I mean I get that it is none of my business now, I get it. But still...even if you are my worst enemy I would still tell you the truth if for nothing more just to piss you off. I will never understand why she felt the need to lie to me as much as she did. Or does.



well

if she's ur EX it IS none of ur business

and she may be purposely lieing to you JUST for that reason...dunno

let it go
move on
forget about it

u sound too control freakish right now...teddybear
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Jun 30, 2011 10:52 PM CST Why...
Ccincy: Mostly to stir up crap.And they don't have a life.
thumbs up wave



still annoying thovery mad
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Jun 30, 2011 10:55 PM CST Why...
Stupidfish
StupidfishStupidfishMobile, Alabama USA1 Threads 8 Posts
Maybe you miss read the part where other people are contacting me? I am trying to move on frustrated
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Jun 30, 2011 10:56 PM CST Why...
Stupidfish: Maybe you miss read the part where other people are contacting me? I am trying to move on


block them
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Jun 30, 2011 11:00 PM CST Why...
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
Stupidfish: So I found out today that his person whom my ex said she never talked to was talking to and hanging out with. How do I know this? Because people are bored and feel the need to text me everytime they see her...ugh!!! Why, why do people feel the need to lie so uncontrollably? I mean I get that it is none of my business now, I get it. But still...even if you are my worst enemy I would still tell you the truth if for nothing more just to piss you off. I will never understand why she felt the need to lie to me as much as she did. Or does.


text them back you're not interested because you are moving on.
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Jun 30, 2011 11:01 PM CST Why...
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
Stupidfish: So I found out today that his person whom my ex said she never talked to was talking to and hanging out with. How do I know this? Because people are bored and feel the need to text me everytime they see her...ugh!!! Why, why do people feel the need to lie so uncontrollably? I mean I get that it is none of my business now, I get it. But still...even if you are my worst enemy I would still tell you the truth if for nothing more just to piss you off. I will never understand why she felt the need to lie to me as much as she did. Or does.



Maybe they get the idea you still have feelings for her.



And you are right, it's not any of your business but it's hard to let go sometimes.
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Jun 30, 2011 11:10 PM CST Why...
Uniquemom61: Maybe they get the idea you still have feelings for her.
And you are right, it's not any of your business but it's hard to let go sometimes.
thumbs up exactly

well saidteddybear
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Jun 30, 2011 11:17 PM CST Why...
Stupidfish
StupidfishStupidfishMobile, Alabama USA1 Threads 8 Posts
Uniquemom61: Maybe they get the idea you still have feelings for her.
And you are right, it's not any of your business but it's hard to let go sometimes.


Yes, it is hard to let go after two years. And I have tried telling people to stop telling me (lol) but I work with most of them and I live in a small town so it's kind of hard to avoid. I do know it's not my concern which is why I don't go looking for answers. Just sucks to be reminded thats all.
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Jun 30, 2011 11:20 PM CST Why...
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
Stupidfish: Yes, it is hard to let go after two years. And I have tried telling people to stop telling me (lol) but I work with most of them and I live in a small town so it's kind of hard to avoid. I do know it's not my concern which is why I don't go looking for answers. Just sucks to be reminded thats all.


I understand.

so time to get on your feet again, move on and start making new memories that will replace the ones that are taunting you now.

comfort
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Jun 30, 2011 11:28 PM CST Why...
Stupidfish
StupidfishStupidfishMobile, Alabama USA1 Threads 8 Posts
carenza: I understand.

so time to get on your feet again, move on and start making new memories that will replace the ones that are taunting you now.


I am. In a few months I am moving back home to look after the family home. It will be the time I need to escape this reality. Unless of course I meet a nice girl, then who knows maybe she will go with me.
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Jun 30, 2011 11:32 PM CST Why...
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
Stupidfish: I am. In a few months I am moving back home to look after the family home. It will be the time I need to escape this reality. Unless of course I meet a nice girl, then who knows maybe she will go with me.


not my business....but erm......aren't you moving too fast?

remember, this new nice girl would be a rebound woman...don't set yourself up for more hurt. I think the state you're in now, make you go look for a girl looking like your ex.

heal your wounds first.....

that's what I would do......
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Jun 30, 2011 11:56 PM CST Why...
Stupidfish
StupidfishStupidfishMobile, Alabama USA1 Threads 8 Posts
carenza: not my business....but erm......aren't you moving too fast?

remember, this new nice girl would be a rebound woman...don't set yourself up for more hurt. I think the state you're in now, make you go look for a girl looking like your ex.

heal your wounds first.....

that's what I would do......


No no, lol. I'm just saying that IF I met a nice girl lol. Not exactly looking but if one comes my way I will take it slow.
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Jul 1, 2011 12:18 AM CST Why...
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
felixis99: block them


yep!! thumbs up initially I'd jus txt them bk to be polite 'bout it with saying something like... "ty for ur concern, am blocking & deleting ur messages now" and WAHLA!!! block/delete... grin

... this way you deal with it without adding more fuel to the mind games of others, leaving you without feeling drained that comes from reacting to them while still getting ur message across that ur in full control of YOU...

if ya get pent up and blame them for contacting YOU without being "proactive" about it as you seem to be here in ur posts then you make the choice to be "reactive" and hence a draining after taste ends up niggling ur senses... JMO of course and your right to do with it as you wish sweetie comfort

hug wine
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Jul 1, 2011 12:36 AM CST Why...
mustbnutz
mustbnutzmustbnutzKingman, Arizona USA33 Threads 5 Polls 3,730 Posts
Maybe you miss read the part where other people are contacting me? I am trying to move on


Throw your phone in the garbage and get a new phone thereby getting a new life and quit talking about her....that is what you do....
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Jul 1, 2011 12:42 AM CST Why...
Stupidfish
StupidfishStupidfishMobile, Alabama USA1 Threads 8 Posts
mustbnutz: Maybe you miss read the part where other people are contacting me? I am trying to move onThrow your phone in the garbage and get a new phone thereby getting a new life and quit talking about her....that is what you do....


Maybe I should, but I kind of need the phone for work...
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Jul 1, 2011 12:52 AM CST Why...
BlueSkyJ
BlueSkyJBlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads 229 Posts
2 years since departure is a long time.... especially for your Ex to be such an big emotional part of your life now?....If you've moved on you wouldn't be receiving texts from others about her....

For you, moving on probably means moving out of that town....And don't bring anyone with you!!!!

sever those ties to your past so you can begin anew....Good Luck
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Jul 1, 2011 4:59 AM CST Why...
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Stupidfish: So I found out today that his person whom my ex said she never talked to was talking to and hanging out with. How do I know this? Because people are bored and feel the need to text me everytime they see her...ugh!!! Why, why do people feel the need to lie so uncontrollably? I mean I get that it is none of my business now, I get it. But still...even if you are my worst enemy I would still tell you the truth if for nothing more just to piss you off. I will never understand why she felt the need to lie to me as much as she did. Or does.


Any excuse is good at times ...uh oh
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Jul 3, 2011 8:32 AM CST Why...
Stupidfish
StupidfishStupidfishMobile, Alabama USA1 Threads 8 Posts
Boban1: Any excuse is good at times ...


You're right frustrated mumbling
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