Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship ( Archived) (23)

Jul 12, 2011 3:49 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
hamed_gobran
hamed_gobranhamed_gobranEgypt- Cairo- Abha, Saudi Arabia1 Threads 3 Posts
Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship

1.Be aware of what you and your partner want for yourselves and what you want from the relationship.
2.Let one another know what your needs are.
3.Realize that your partner will not be able to meet all of your needs. Some of these needs will have to be met outside the relationship.
4.Be willing to negotiate and compromise on the things you want from one another.
5.Do not demand that a partner change to meet all your expectations. Work to accept the differences that you see between your ideal and the reality.
6.Try to see things from the other's point of view. This doesn't mean that you must agree with one another, but rather that you can expect yourself and your partner to understand and respect your differences, your points of view and your separate needs.
7.Where critical differences exist in your expectations, needs, opinions or views, try to negotiate.
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Jul 12, 2011 3:51 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Well thank-you Dr. Pill grin
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Jul 12, 2011 3:58 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
Happygolucky4uonline today!
Happygolucky4uonline today!Happygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
venusenvy: Well thank-you Dr. Pill
laugh
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Jul 12, 2011 4:00 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
Happygolucky4uonline today!
Happygolucky4uonline today!Happygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
hamed_gobran: Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship

1.Be aware of what you and your partner want for yourselves and what you want from the relationship.
2.Let one another know what your needs are.
3.Realize that your partner will not be able to meet all of your needs. Some of these needs will have to be met outside the relationship.
4.Be willing to negotiate and compromise on the things you want from one another.
5.Do not demand that a partner change to meet all your expectations. Work to accept the differences that you see between your ideal and the reality.
6.Try to see things from the other's point of view. This doesn't mean that you must agree with one another, but rather that you can expect yourself and your partner to understand and respect your differences, your points of view and your separate needs.
7.Where critical differences exist in your expectations, needs, opinions or views, try to negotiate.
Actually these are really good suggestions. Comunication helps too. bouquet
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Jul 12, 2011 4:52 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Communication,trust and respect for one another helps.

If you have disagreements keep them private out of the eyes of others.


Never go to bed angry.
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Jul 12, 2011 4:55 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
Happygolucky4u: Actually these are really good suggestions. Comunication helps too.
confused should i buy a mobile .phone..........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing dunno
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Jul 12, 2011 4:59 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
ttmmm
ttmmmttmmmmullingar, Westmeath Ireland10 Threads 8 Polls 499 Posts
hamed_gobran: Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship

1.Be aware of what you and your partner want for yourselves and what you want from the relationship.
2.Let one another know what your needs are.
3.Realize that your partner will not be able to meet all of your needs. Some of these needs will have to be met outside the relationship.
4.Be willing to negotiate and compromise on the things you want from one another.
5.Do not demand that a partner change to meet all your expectations. Work to accept the differences that you see between your ideal and the reality.
6.Try to see things from the other's point of view. This doesn't mean that you must agree with one another, but rather that you can expect yourself and your partner to understand and respect your differences, your points of view and your separate needs.
7.Where critical differences exist in your expectations, needs, opinions or views, try to negotiate.




only 7...doh laugh laugh
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Jul 12, 2011 5:11 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
ttmmm: ::heartbeating:
mine is lower down......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 12, 2011 5:18 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
Are people idiots here?

Can´t they figure out this for themselves?

Maybe I´m wrong,but do adults need some "Greatest hits list what to do and not"?

Why even post such crap,-I don´t get it...Waste of space&time....Who gives a sh..t about 7 steps?
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Jul 12, 2011 5:22 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
AtwoZ: Are people idiots here?

Can´t they figure out this for themselves?

Maybe I´m wrong,but do adults need some "Greatest hits list what to do and not"?

Why even post such crap,-I don´t get it...Waste of space&time....Who gives a sh..t about 7 steps?
no one in fact.........to be honest..........laugh laugh
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Jul 12, 2011 5:23 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
AtwoZ: Are people idiots here?

Can´t they figure out this for themselves?

Maybe I´m wrong,but do adults need some "Greatest hits list what to do and not"?

Why even post such crap,-I don´t get it...Waste of space&time....Who gives a sh..t about 7 steps?
If you don't find a Thread to your interest, don't read it. It is really quite simple. What satisfaction do you find from degrading others? This smacks of low self-confidence...putting others down to inflate your feeling of superiority.
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Jul 12, 2011 5:25 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
Kaybee50: If you don't find a Thread to your interest, don't read it. It is really quite simple. What satisfaction do you find from degrading others? This smacks of low self-confidence...putting others down to inflate your feeling of superiority.
i,v changed my mind......i really.....really enjoy it...........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 12, 2011 5:26 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
AtwoZ: Are people idiots here?

Can´t they figure out this for themselves?

Maybe I´m wrong,but do adults need some "Greatest hits list what to do and not"?

Why even post such crap,-I don´t get it...Waste of space&time....Who gives a sh..t about 7 steps?


Well, aren't you just a little ray of depression today?bouquet
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Jul 12, 2011 5:27 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
amahlala: Well, aren't you just a little ray of depression today?
Naah...just bored....
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Jul 12, 2011 5:28 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
AtwoZ: Naah...just bored....


laugh hug
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Jul 12, 2011 5:35 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
Kaybee50: If you don't find a Thread to your interest, don't read it. It is really quite simple. What satisfaction do you find from degrading others? This smacks of low self-confidence...putting others down to inflate your feeling of superiority.
Yes indeed,-I find this thread very interesting,that´s why I´m posting....


And besides,-it has helped me a lot.....Never knew it could be this way.....Interesting info Miss.Kaybee....
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Jul 12, 2011 5:39 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Hehehe Ooops grin
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Jul 12, 2011 5:41 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
amahlala: We women multi-task so well maybe he figured the obligation was on us alone to keep a relationship going......


Apparently he does roll eyes
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Jul 12, 2011 5:42 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
venusenvy: Hehehe Ooops
.....4 times ...V......knee tremble.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Jul 12, 2011 5:46 PM CST Seven Basic Steps to Maintaining a Good Relationship
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
amahlala: We women multi-task so well maybe he figured the obligation was on us alone to keep a relationship going......
laugh like......:groan/shout /bite./scratch.....kinda thing.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin
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