Men doing a runner..... (122)

Jul 27, 2011 7:18 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
LittleWoman
LittleWomanLittleWomanMullingar, Westmeath Ireland2 Threads 27 Posts
Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me frustrated

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?
Jul 27, 2011 7:21 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
LittleWoman: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?


no can't say i havedunno
but if they do that they sure arnt worth it and their lossgrin
my daughter is a part of me,men come and go but my baby will always be therewave
Jul 27, 2011 7:31 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
SereneGreen
SereneGreenSereneGreenWexford, Ireland190 Threads 5 Polls 2,899 Posts
In response to: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?
I have stated on my profile that I have children so me know from the get go, I presume if they contact me then they know this and it's not an issue, otherwise they could just mosey on along as they are not the right person for me thumbs up
Jul 27, 2011 7:36 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
dreccky
drecckydrecckyNavan, Meath Ireland128 Threads 3 Polls 694 Posts
LittleWoman: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?


I know personally I wouldn't do this..I think if you like the person(or love the person)you must accept all that comes with the relationship,but I would imagine it happens a lot as some guys feel they've done all the rearing and raising of kids that its something they are not willing to take on..
Jul 27, 2011 7:57 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
well if they run just cos you've got kids
maybe they werent being genuine to begin with
on the plus side theyre taking themselves out
of the running it saves you wasting your time on them .


wave
Jul 27, 2011 7:58 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
at what stage are they running off??

In response to: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?
Jul 27, 2011 8:02 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
sometimes its the amount
profile says has kids
people (in my view should put in how many)
it b abit of a shock talking to some one, thinking based on profile they have 1 kid & then suddenly turns out they 5
Jul 27, 2011 8:04 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
darren9030
darren9030darren9030Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, England UK56 Threads 1 Polls 9,665 Posts
LittleWoman: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?



confused You state you have children on your profile so i have no idea why. You are a bit of a babe so i'm sure the right guy will come along real soon hug
Jul 27, 2011 8:04 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
TEASE
TEASETEASETIPPERARY, Tipperary Ireland116 Threads 1 Polls 2,679 Posts
WadeWilson: sometimes its the amount
profile says has kids
people (in my view should put in how many)
it b abit of a shock talking to some one, thinking based on profile they have 1 kid & then suddenly turns out they 5


but if you like the person would it matter confused dunno
Jul 27, 2011 8:13 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
WadeWilson: sometimes its the amount
profile says has kids
people (in my view should put in how many)
it b abit of a shock talking to some one, thinking based on profile they have 1 kid & then suddenly turns out they 5


thumbs up yes the only option u have on here is to put kids up even tho u might have one,thats why i put it up on my profile lol
Jul 27, 2011 8:37 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
Thumblina
ThumblinaThumblinaleinster, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,225 Posts
LittleWoman: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?


Cant' say it's been a problem for me, I usually have the "I have kids and they will always come first, if that's gonna be a problem ya can walk now" conversation at the early stages.
In sayin that, I've found that some guys have a problem with me not being too sure if i want anymore kids or not even when they aren't sure if they want of their own or not...
Jul 27, 2011 9:09 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
killarneyman
killarneymankillarneymanKillarney, Kerry Ireland6 Threads 1 Polls 175 Posts
LittleWoman: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?


I can't say it has ever bothered me, but I guess I can see why it might stop some lads wanting to get involved.
Jul 27, 2011 9:16 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
sweetman42
sweetman42sweetman42cork, Cork Ireland4 Threads 90 Posts
LittleWoman: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?

im experiencing the same as im a man with 3 kids looking for women here they run away like mad confused
frustrated frustrated
Jul 27, 2011 9:30 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
do they actually say.. "look i cant handle u having kids" or is it ur relationship with ur exs maybe they fear...?
Jul 27, 2011 9:33 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
BellaX
BellaXBellaXdublin, Dublin Ireland36 Threads 448 Posts
Hi LittleWoman wave

If they have a issue with you having kids they are not worth knowing.

I've never come across it though dunno
Jul 27, 2011 9:35 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
LittleWoman: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?


well donr mind them hun i know its hurt but there not worth it i had a few bbad experience with ladys so i know how you feel keep that chin up.
Jul 27, 2011 9:36 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
LittleWoman: Why is it when most men hear u have children they do a runner? Can anyone explain this to me

I love my children and it hurt's when fellas do this.... Has anyone else experienced this?


I've never experienced it from a woman but that being said I'd be of the opposite viewpoint. There would have to be kids somewhere in her life for me to be interested...I think it takes somebody with kids to understand that I have to put mine first...
Jul 27, 2011 9:37 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
fifitheminx: do they actually say.. "look i cant handle u having kids" or is it ur relationship with ur exs maybe they fear...?


an ex is an EXample of a person u should never go for againlaugh
everyone has an ex,kids or not..yeah they are still in the kids lives but not the mums/dads,we maybe parents but we that shouldnt stop us from finding love!! and just because u get involved with a single parent doesnt mean u got to take on the kid,you just need to accept that they were there before and always will be..they will always just have one mum and dad at the end of the day
Jul 27, 2011 9:46 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
biggles90000
biggles90000biggles90000kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland154 Threads 17 Polls 4,582 Posts
bubbles85: an ex is an EXample of a person u should never go for again
everyone has an ex,kids or not..yeah they are still in the kids lives but not the mums/dads,we maybe parents but we that shouldnt stop us from finding love!! and just because u get involved with a single parent doesnt mean u got to take on the kid,you just need to accept that they were there before and always will be..they will always just have one mum and dad at the end of the day


i must admit it is very hard to date someone who doesnt have kids now i always dated single mums before i became a dad i just think its nice to to give that person a chance and i dont mind atall dating single mothers who have kids i think people have to be open minded these days and we shouldnt be judged because we have children i hate that phrase that say baggage it really annoys me.sorry for the rant.blushing
Jul 27, 2011 9:53 AM CST Men doing a runner.....
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
biggles90000: i must admit it is very hard to date someone who doesnt have kids now i always dated single mums before i became a dad i just think its nice to to give that person a chance and i dont mind atall dating single mothers who have kids i think people have to be open minded these days and we shouldnt be judged because we have children i hate that phrase that say baggage it really annoys me.sorry for the rant.


i had my rant toogrin
yeah i think its easier dating a single dad too because they know exacly where u are coming from !!who ever says kids are baggage will learn when they have there own,then they can see what it feels like to have the love for a childthumbs up
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