i needs some advice ( Archived) (5)

Well me and my ex were back toghter and we broke about a year a ago I moved from texas to kentucky to get away well we talked for last three months and she wanted me back and so I moved back to texas well she was dating her first love of her life and that didn't go to well and they broke up..and while they were together he bought her a camero and I been here about three weeks and car is missing up and he is buying all the partsand fixing it for free he still loves her... she goes over there so him and his friend can fix it he don't want me around some how it hurts him while seeing me with her.. what I asking is she cheated on me before and we. Are working on the trust issue and tells me there nothing to worry about she paid for everything so I come back to town and kind supporting me right now so should I trust her or what my gut feeling telling me don't worry about it we were togther for 8 years so I kind confused let me know what you think..

Now, I've only heard your version of events. But it certainly sounds like she is using you as some sort of security blanket, and her real interest lies (lays?) with this other fella.

So my advice would be, let the Bluegrass State welcome you home, real soon.