grizzwald: I would not say anything...But think about this...at birth you were lets say only 10 and he was still 0.....so you are ten times his age....
In 5 years he is 5 and you are 15 ....now you are only 3 times his ageIn another 5 years you are 20 and he is 10 ....now only twice his age .. how many more years before he catches you in age?
funlife61: I think it depends on the two people involved. The biggest thing is that is it lust or a true friendship. I'm recently divorced and it was lust more than friendship. She was a year older than me. My middle brother's first wife was a year younger than him and it didn't work out. His wife is 10 years younger than him and their doing great. My youngest brother is w/ a lady that is almost twice his age and their doing awesome. So it depends on what each other wants out of life. The biggest problem is too many people let their mind get involved instead of following their heart.
We must follow up our heart all the time! I think this is the key ! ...and never regret ...even it was mistake....We are here on this planet to get our leessons and to exeperince good and bad :)
grizzwald: I would not say anything...But think about this...at birth you were lets say only 10 and he was still 0.....so you are ten times his age....
In 5 years he is 5 and you are 15 ....now you are only 3 times his ageIn another 5 years you are 20 and he is 10 ....now only twice his age .. how many more years before he catches you in age?
SUNSHINEB0Y: and what if you get together and you have the best twenty years of both your lives, then maybe even 30 yrs, then the older one passes away (male or female) then the other one is left on their own with hopefully another 20 yrs to live without their partner and we all know how much easier it gets to find the right partner as you get older, or the overwhelming joy of being alone after a long term loving relationship, right? (not )
That has a better chance of working for you because you are young to mid-life. If you meet someone 20 years younger, there's a good chance it will work. If you met someone older like me (hint hint) it probably wouldn't work because you are very active with the animals, whereas I'm slowing down. That would be the only reason I see now that I wouldn't be able to keep up with you..........with the animals... I'm sure I could give you are run for your money in other departments....
There likely won't be a problem in age differences if two people spend enough time together to know what makes each other tick. But I still think more then 10 years either way is too risky...
Although myself I do not see myself with a younger man, always were attracted to older, their wisdom, knowledge, maturity, respect, understanding. Come to momma not for me
montecito: That has a better chance of working for you because you are young to mid-life. If you meet someone 20 years younger, there's a good chance it will work. If you met someone older like me (hint hint) it probably wouldn't work because you are very active with the animals, whereas I'm slowing down. That would be the only reason I see now that I wouldn't be able to keep up with you..........with the animals... I'm sure I could give you are run for your money in other departments....
There likely won't be a problem in age differences if two people spend enough time together to know what makes each other tick. But I still think more then 10 years either way is too risky...
Lilly32: Although myself I do not see myself with a younger man, always were attracted to older, their wisdom, knowledge, maturity, respect, understanding. Come to momma not for me
I used to think that older meant wiser too but I learned that wasn't true. Wiser and knowledge comes with lifes experiences; understanding comes with the upbringing and patience he has, respect should be natural to him until he has reason to think differently..
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