Men for single moms??? (44)
imlost29Tonopah, Arizona USA1 Threads 4 PostsSo, I'm a single mother of 3 wonderful children, and I havent had the best of luck finding any MEN that are truly interested in forming a real relationship with a single parent. 
When I do manage to find a guy that dont mind that I have kids, they end up being FREELOADERS. 
Are there real men that still actually exist and that are interested in meaningful relationships with women that have children under the age of 18???? 
So, its already been established that I have (at least) one strike against me, I live out in the middle of nowhere in the hot desert. 
(This is me burning up way out here) I still have feelings and want to be loved though 
When I do manage to find a guy that dont mind that I have kids, they end up being FREELOADERS. Are there real men that still actually exist and that are interested in meaningful relationships with women that have children under the age of 18???? So, its already been established that I have (at least) one strike against me, I live out in the middle of nowhere in the hot desert. (This is me burning up way out here) I still have feelings and want to be loved though ------ This thread is Archived ------
Be patient my dear... you will find the right guy, but don't fall for the first one that comes along saying he doesn't mind kids.
I have raised two families that were not my own, and love all of them as if they were mine. The early teens are more stressful than pre-schoolers, but with patience and love, it can be more tolerable.
One of my 4, was a teenager when we all got together and I simply told her that there wouldn't be any new rules... she was already mature and I wouldn't be dictating what she could or could not do.
Actually, now that I remember it... the kids fell in love with *me* and wanted to move in. I had to ask their mother if she was coming with us or not
Good Luck to you, and *here* on CS... you *will* be loved by a lot of very special people
I have raised two families that were not my own, and love all of them as if they were mine. The early teens are more stressful than pre-schoolers, but with patience and love, it can be more tolerable.
One of my 4, was a teenager when we all got together and I simply told her that there wouldn't be any new rules... she was already mature and I wouldn't be dictating what she could or could not do.
Actually, now that I remember it... the kids fell in love with *me* and wanted to move in. I had to ask their mother if she was coming with us or not
Good Luck to you, and *here* on CS... you *will* be loved by a lot of very special people
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Thanks. I learned early on you dont fall for the first person...I did and it hurt
But anyways I will do my best to make sure they really have n problem with my kids and that my kids also in return like that person. Thanks for the advice.
But anyways I will do my best to make sure they really have n problem with my kids and that my kids also in return like that person. Thanks for the advice.------ This thread is Archived ------
I don't mind dating single mom's as long as they are completely over any and all exes.
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for you
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I am completely over any and all of my ex's...had bad relationships.
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I'm a single mom myself so I know where
you're coming from.It is difficult.
All the best
you're coming from.It is difficult.
All the best
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Blistering desert heat does sound tempting, but please tell us more about the poisonous snakes
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ahh, yes...how could I forget about those snakes outside
We actually found some snake eggs outside in our yard & took them inside to see if they would hatch...no luck
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i am sorry, i justo got in.... are you still discussing this ?
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diablito333: i am sorry, i just got in.... are you still discussing this ?
Subject's closed. No more applicants. Sorry, you just missed it.------ This thread is Archived ------
stop monkeying around dude
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diablito333: stop monkeying around dude
Sorry. You can have my place. I just remembered monkeys are scared of snakes.------ This thread is Archived ------
Good luck in your search,though men in general avoid situations like yours,but they want their cake and eat it,but not commiting,so be extra careful with your datings.-JMO
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I think you are a single mom with tan
Out in the hot desert where the sun is on
You look like a nice lady who can win election
So you should be able to find a man to incite your kids' provocation
Men are just afraid of the contention and confusion
Especially if the real dad(s) are living in the neighborhood where "Mister Roger" is from!
Out in the hot desert where the sun is on
You look like a nice lady who can win election
So you should be able to find a man to incite your kids' provocation
Men are just afraid of the contention and confusion
Especially if the real dad(s) are living in the neighborhood where "Mister Roger" is from!
imlost29: So, I'm a single mother of 3 wonderful children, and I havent had the best of luck finding any MEN that are truly interested in forming a real relationship with a single parent. When I do manage to find a guy that dont mind that I have kids, they end up being FREELOADERS. Are there real men that still actually exist and that are interested in meaningful relationships with women that have children under the age of 18???? So, its already been established that I have (at least) one strike against me, I live out in the middle of nowhere in the hot desert. (This is me burning up way out here) I still have feelings and want to be loved though
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imlost29: So, I'm a single mother of 3 wonderful children, and I havent had the best of luck finding any MEN that are truly interested in forming a real relationship with a single parent. When I do manage to find a guy that dont mind that I have kids, they end up being FREELOADERS. Are there real men that still actually exist and that are interested in meaningful relationships with women that have children under the age of 18???? So, its already been established that I have (at least) one strike against me, I live out in the middle of nowhere in the hot desert. (This is me burning up way out here) I still have feelings and want to be loved though)
The hot part I like, but how many more kids are in the works? I still want two!
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Girl u r too far away or I would show u what a real man is
so keep looking he is out there and he will show whwen u least expect it
so keep looking he is out there and he will show whwen u least expect it
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Wellllll, if I were much younger, and didn't have a child of my own, I would have considered it. But at my age, been there, done that, and I'm still raising my handful of a child.
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angelswings33: I was a single mom of 4 alone for a long time. it wasn't fun or easy, but all well worth it. I'm a stronger woman because of it all. good luck!
(I only shortened your quote for space... not editing of it)
I viewed your profile after reading a couple of your posts, and I just wanted to say that you sound like you have your head on straight, your attitude, priorities and goals all sorted out.
You will do alright, and the guy that gets you is going to be one lucky dude.
I think the saying in the younger crowd is...
YOU GO GIRL
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Ur_Knight: Be patient my dear... you will find the right guy, but don't fall for the first one that comes along saying he doesn't mind kids.
I have raised two families that were not my own, and love all of them as if they were mine. The early teens are more stressful than pre-schoolers, but with patience and love, it can be more tolerable.
One of my 4, was a teenager when we all got together and I simply told her that there wouldn't be any new rules... she was already mature and I wouldn't be dictating what she could or could not do.
Actually, now that I remember it... the kids fell in love with *me* and wanted to move in. I had to ask their mother if she was coming with us or not
Good Luck to you, and *here* on CS... you *will* be loved by a lot of very special people
I have raised two families that were not my own, and love all of them as if they were mine. The early teens are more stressful than pre-schoolers, but with patience and love, it can be more tolerable.
One of my 4, was a teenager when we all got together and I simply told her that there wouldn't be any new rules... she was already mature and I wouldn't be dictating what she could or could not do.
Actually, now that I remember it... the kids fell in love with *me* and wanted to move in. I had to ask their mother if she was coming with us or not
Good Luck to you, and *here* on CS... you *will* be loved by a lot of very special people
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