Why people choose divorce? ( Archived) (135)

Sep 23, 2011 5:57 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
rohaan: Hey beautiful baybers! Howz it goin"? We are having a hot Indian Summer here on the coast. It's fab...


Hey you!! hug Yeah!! Here too. Gorgeous sunny hot!! And so's the weather!! rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 23, 2011 5:57 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
EagleWoman: Hope you don't mind me cimmenting ...

Sounds like a lot of ego and not enough heart ...

How do I know? Because I recognise it... I've been there...
...add me to that list......blues laugh
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Sep 23, 2011 5:59 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
elienebrazil
elienebrazilelienebrazilsomewhere, Sao Paulo Brazil2 Threads 714 Posts
Dervish_dervish: If people marry thier spouse they choose, than why they become apart from each other and choose the divorce?

Why? "When I swore my love I betray myself today I know nobody in this world is happy to have loved only once" guitar violin violin danceline
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Sep 23, 2011 6:03 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
elienebrazil: Why? "When I swore my love I betray myself today I know nobody in this world is happy to have loved only once"
..........hi....stranger.......wave wave wave long....time no see.....??
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Sep 23, 2011 6:05 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
EagleWoman: Hey you!! Yeah!! Here too. Gorgeous sunny hot!! And so's the weather!!
You! Tell me more about him. Um, I mean, the weather....
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Sep 23, 2011 6:07 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
elienebrazil
elienebrazilelienebrazilsomewhere, Sao Paulo Brazil2 Threads 714 Posts
trueheart1941: ..........hi....stranger....... long....time no see.....??
Hi True,
I am okay.
Well, you are not strange for me. You are in my heart.
Hope you are well, too!

teddybear
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Sep 23, 2011 6:13 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
Dervish_dervish: If people marry thier spouse they choose, than why they become apart from each other and choose the divorce?


I don't think any level-headed, rational person CHOOSES divorce.

One has to weigh up all the options that may be in the best interests of the relationship and the wellbeing of each individual (and also children), both emotional AND pragmatic. And sometimes that results in divorce.

Anyone with more than one brain cell would deem it a last resort rather than a first port of call, don't you think..?

handshake
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Sep 23, 2011 6:21 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
rohaan: You! Tell me more about him. Um, I mean, the weather....


laugh I wish!!! Only me and the weather here!! Apart from me and the weather "the gorgeous sunny hot" is on another continent!! mumbling
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Sep 23, 2011 6:34 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
For the record, I have never divorced anybody - my wives divorced ME. I, myself, don't believe in divorce at all, but I can't control what a wife does.
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Sep 23, 2011 7:02 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Sometimes there is no choice dunno
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Sep 23, 2011 7:58 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
HuggerMan4U: For the record, I have never divorced anybody - my wives divorced ME. I, myself, don't believe in divorce at all, but I can't control what a wife does.


May be you should ask yourself why your wifes keep wanting to divorce you? dunno
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Oct 7, 2011 4:41 PM CST Why people choose divorce?
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
Dervish_dervish: If people marry thier spouse they choose, than why they become apart from each other and choose the divorce?


Probably they made choices without thinking what they are doing?
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Oct 15, 2011 5:26 AM CST Why people choose divorce?
Dervish_dervish
Dervish_dervishDervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 Posts
xxDandelionxx: I don't think any level-headed, rational person CHOOSES divorce.

One has to weigh up all the options that may be in the best interests of the relationship and the wellbeing of each individual (and also children), both emotional AND pragmatic. And sometimes that results in divorce.

Anyone with more than one brain cell would deem it a last resort rather than a first port of call, don't you think..?
i think it is true,handshake
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Oct 15, 2011 10:32 AM CST Why people choose divorce?
Dervish_dervish
Dervish_dervishDervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 Posts
joyaepace: Probably they made choices without thinking what they are doing?
grinyou are on the point.yes this may be among one of the major reasons.joy cheers
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Oct 15, 2011 10:46 AM CST Why people choose divorce?
Dervish_dervish
Dervish_dervishDervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 Posts
HuggerMan4U: For the record, I have never divorced anybody - my wives divorced ME. I, myself, don't believe in divorce at all, but I can't control what a wife does.
hugger it is really painful feelingcomforti wish u a good partner for ur happy life. thumbs up
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Oct 15, 2011 10:50 AM CST Why people choose divorce?
Dervish_dervish
Dervish_dervishDervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 Posts
venusenvy: Sometimes there is no choice
venus it is better to burn at once inspite of fuming for whole life.wine
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Oct 15, 2011 10:54 AM CST Why people choose divorce?
Dervish_dervish
Dervish_dervishDervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 Posts
chris27292729: Do you know why????
Just to provide cover fire.laugh
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Oct 15, 2011 10:58 AM CST Why people choose divorce?
Dervish_dervish
Dervish_dervishDervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 Posts
elienebrazil: Why? "When I swore my love I betray myself today I know nobody in this world is happy to have loved only once"
hey elien nice music.bouquet
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Oct 15, 2011 11:09 AM CST Why people choose divorce?
Dervish_dervish
Dervish_dervishDervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 Posts
Noeski: I can only speak for myself why I choose divorce. As they say hindsight is 20/20. I really didn't KNOW my husband. We dated for less than a year. It wasn't until we were married and living together that I came to KNOW him.
really it hurts,i can understand ur feelings.sad flower comfort
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Oct 15, 2011 11:17 AM CST Why people choose divorce?
Dervish_dervish
Dervish_dervishDervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 Posts
Ccincy: Yes a divorce is better than remaining in an abusive marriage.I wouldn't remain in one like that either.Nor would I blame anyone else for not remaining in one either.

But there are also some people who end a marriage cause they want to get out for selfish reasons not because they were being abused.
Ccincy u are a good thinker,where are u??
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