Dervish_dervish: If people marry thier spouse they choose, than why they become apart from each other and choose the divorce?
I don't think any level-headed, rational person CHOOSES divorce.
One has to weigh up all the options that may be in the best interests of the relationship and the wellbeing of each individual (and also children), both emotional AND pragmatic. And sometimes that results in divorce.
Anyone with more than one brain cell would deem it a last resort rather than a first port of call, don't you think..?
For the record, I have never divorced anybody - my wives divorced ME. I, myself, don't believe in divorce at all, but I can't control what a wife does.
HuggerMan4U: For the record, I have never divorced anybody - my wives divorced ME. I, myself, don't believe in divorce at all, but I can't control what a wife does.
May be you should ask yourself why your wifes keep wanting to divorce you?
xxDandelionxx: I don't think any level-headed, rational person CHOOSES divorce.
One has to weigh up all the options that may be in the best interests of the relationship and the wellbeing of each individual (and also children), both emotional AND pragmatic. And sometimes that results in divorce.
Anyone with more than one brain cell would deem it a last resort rather than a first port of call, don't you think..?
HuggerMan4U: For the record, I have never divorced anybody - my wives divorced ME. I, myself, don't believe in divorce at all, but I can't control what a wife does.
hugger it is really painful feelingi wish u a good partner for ur happy life.
Noeski: I can only speak for myself why I choose divorce. As they say hindsight is 20/20. I really didn't KNOW my husband. We dated for less than a year. It wasn't until we were married and living together that I came to KNOW him.
Ccincy: Yes a divorce is better than remaining in an abusive marriage.I wouldn't remain in one like that either.Nor would I blame anyone else for not remaining in one either.
But there are also some people who end a marriage cause they want to get out for selfish reasons not because they were being abused.
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