Why people choose divorce? (135)
Dervish_dervishNew delhi, Delhi India2 Threads 58 PostsIf people marry thier spouse they choose, than why they become apart from each other and choose the divorce? 
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It's just one of those things - and one that I wouldn't of believed, but since it has to me - you grow apart, you no longer connect on an physical, emotional, intimate level anymore - for whatever reason -
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cause they don't wish to be married any longer....
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grizzwald: cause they don't wish to be married any longer....
bingo!
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Better question is, why is marriage always "til death do you part". What other contract would you be willing to make that agreement to? Most divorces would be avoided if marriages could be taken for different periods of time, rather than "forever", and this would avoid making the marriage vows an hypocrisy when the marriage ends.
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"Divorce" the most scarry word when i think about married. why ppl divorce? where is love that make u decide to marry? where is love that make u together? what is the meaning of togetherness? where is all the promise and commitment?
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Dervish_dervish: If people marry thier spouse they choose, than why they become apart from each other and choose the divorce?
Sometimes people use it as an excuse to end a marriage.
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With my first marriage it was simply that I had married too young and for the wrong reasons. The divorce in that instance was mutually agreed and we parted amicably. With my second marriage domestic violence was the reason. That divorce wasn't so amicable as I found out when I told my ex that I wanted a divorce that he had only married me so he could give up his job and have someone support him. I do still believe in marriage as I see so many people with good marriages. My own parents for example were married for over 40 years before my mother died. They had their ups and downs but they loved each other so much that 10 years after my mother's death my father hasn't looked at another woman.
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hairymonkey: Better question is, why is marriage always "til death do you part". What other contract would you be willing to make that agreement to? Most divorces would be avoided if marriages could be taken for different periods of time, rather than "forever", and this would avoid making the marriage vows an hypocrisy when the marriage ends.
altho you are right it is a contract and the "Death till we part" is part of that ...so I do agree with you .....I think (altho I really don't know) that marriage was at first a "VOW" more than a contract.... it was a vow that two people swear to each other to show their devotion to the intended...
People now see it as a contract and contracts are to be broken.....We no longer see it as a vow you make with the person you stand before ...we forget our devotion and vows we make to each other and see the bad things ,which in all reality the good points that we all see in our intended is still intact ....we sometimes choose to only make a decision of the bad things...
And sometimes that is the correct solution.....but you have to be willing to work at success and try to honor your vows....they should not be entered into lightly....but we all have or at least most of us have.
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Till death do us part...the thing that died was the marriage and when something dies, I bury it.
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Shooting them means a long jail sentence.
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as per i think,divorce is a result of lack of mutual understanding and respect.Why would you want to stay married to someone who is selfish, continually lies and manipulates you? Of course...try everything before you choose to divorce, prove it's worth leaving. It's not rocket science!!
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Dervish_dervish: I appreciate the views of all. as per i think,divorce is a result of lack of mutual understanding and respect.
Exactly, when someone refuses to understand or communicate and doesn't respect you, why waist your life with them?
It takes two people and when one person has to do all the work, what's the point? If you haven't been married or divorced before..you will never have a clue.
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I divorced because she slept with a friend of mine
Marriage destroyed
Marriage destroyed
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Wineman42: I divorced because she slept with a friend of mine
Marriage destroyed
Marriage destroyed
Exactly...when the trust dies there is nothing left...game over
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Dervish_dervish: it seems that she was not devoted for marriage.wine you suffered a lot.
ya I lost a good friend lol
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rubendario: Why would you want to stay married to someone who is selfish, continually lies and manipulates you? Of course...try everything before you choose to divorce, prove it's worth leaving. It's not rocket science!!
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