Never ending story of Dreamkeeper (43)
Meet her half way
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Does the word "scam" mean anything to you? Maybe she's "genuine," but I wouldn't hold my breath, if I were you.
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a lovely novel comes to mind....." A Short History of Tractors in the Ukrainia"
by Marina Lewycka
by Marina Lewycka
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Thanks, the only sane answer so far. I did concider this option also, but if we meet in Berlin, we still know only about our selves, not about where we live, etc.
I will suggest it, see how she reacts.
I will suggest it, see how she reacts.
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The only sane answer? Ask yourself this question: No offense: this is a sincere question. Why do you think a beautiful, young, shapely Russian woman would want to be with you? Has she asked for money yet? I'd be willing to place bets if she hasn't, she will.
These Russian scammers are well known all over the Internet and have duped a lot of men out of money. Again, she may be as sincere as the day is long, but, I would exercise exreme caution if I were you.
BTW, what happened to the older woman in the other thread?
These Russian scammers are well known all over the Internet and have duped a lot of men out of money. Again, she may be as sincere as the day is long, but, I would exercise exreme caution if I were you.
BTW, what happened to the older woman in the other thread?
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I hear ya!!! Mostly I get from African countries. Story is always the same: It ends with: "Remember the colour or distance don't matter, but love does"
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No idea what you're talking about. If I'm talking about someone from Holland, you come with a story about somebody from Germany?
Get a grip!
Get a grip!
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You got it. I remember thinking all the women from Accra, Ghana, were supermodels. I must've received at least a dozen of those. I kept thinking to myself, "man, if I move to Ghana, I'd be a happy man..." 
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Do some research on Russian dating scams.
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I already know what's real or not. Being married to a Dr. of Culture and economics?
Research the Nigerian connection instead.....
Research the Nigerian connection instead.....
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Everyone is telling you about scams and to be careful.. well, my advice to u would be.. GO FOR IT! 
I'm saying so because it's so obvious you have ur heart set on this person, and that u believe she is sincere.. or u want to believe that. What better way is there to find out than u going to her place?
if she comes to u, u will have no idea about where she lives, how big/small is her house, how desperate/not so desperate her living conditions are.. and if you go, you will probably meet her kids as well and be in a much better position to decide if you want to continue the relationship. in my opinion, the fact that she is inviting you over to her country in a way shows that she wants to be honest with you, if you live with her for a while in 'her own conditions and space' you will have a better picture of who she really is, no?
So i would think it would be much better for you to go over there.. just keep an open mind about it, don't offer her money bla bla bla and LIVE UR DREAMS Mr Dreamkeeper... good luck
I'm saying so because it's so obvious you have ur heart set on this person, and that u believe she is sincere.. or u want to believe that. What better way is there to find out than u going to her place?
if she comes to u, u will have no idea about where she lives, how big/small is her house, how desperate/not so desperate her living conditions are.. and if you go, you will probably meet her kids as well and be in a much better position to decide if you want to continue the relationship. in my opinion, the fact that she is inviting you over to her country in a way shows that she wants to be honest with you, if you live with her for a while in 'her own conditions and space' you will have a better picture of who she really is, no?
So i would think it would be much better for you to go over there.. just keep an open mind about it, don't offer her money bla bla bla and LIVE UR DREAMS Mr Dreamkeeper... good luck
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Being married to a doctor of culture and economics says what about you? I don't get the connection.
Why should I research the Nigerian connection? It's of no concern to me. And as I said, this woman may or may not be "genuine," BUT the Russian dating scam is a well known scam. Believe it or not, makes no difference to me.
Why should I research the Nigerian connection? It's of no concern to me. And as I said, this woman may or may not be "genuine," BUT the Russian dating scam is a well known scam. Believe it or not, makes no difference to me.
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I did the first move, and never regret though it's over now. He lives in the Netherlands, and i live in France. First i felt a bit weird when he suggested me to go there. He was ready to come to see me first, but at the time, i lived with 2 flat mates. And finally it just came naturally: i decided to come to see him first. The moment we met at the airport remains one of the best in my life. The distance was too hard to handle, so we split after a year. But i don't regret anything. I lived a fairy tale, and i know moments like that don't come often in a lifetime
So listen, if you really care about her, go ahead!!!
If you have some hesitations, wait and see... if you're meant tp be together, a solution will pop up naturally.
Good luck
So listen, if you really care about her, go ahead!!!
If you have some hesitations, wait and see... if you're meant tp be together, a solution will pop up naturally.
Good luck
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There are scammers all over the net from everywhere in the world. So, I have to agree with jeanc and others. Meeting halfway sounds like a good idea to me, but on the other hand, you going to her sounds reasonable also.
Maybe I am reading too much into what you wrote, but her children are of the ages where they can be left on their own for brief periods of time. So you two would have the opportunity for some alone time as well as you being able to meet her children as well. And your comment about 'eat your heart out Dolly Parton' and 'these are real too!'......I think sounds rather piggish. Kind of makes me wonder what your agenda is.
Maybe I am reading too much into what you wrote, but her children are of the ages where they can be left on their own for brief periods of time. So you two would have the opportunity for some alone time as well as you being able to meet her children as well. And your comment about 'eat your heart out Dolly Parton' and 'these are real too!'......I think sounds rather piggish. Kind of makes me wonder what your agenda is.
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Read the other thread about the 70 year old. This guy is...well...he is....
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Uh-oh. Um, speaking of piggish, I would not really move to Ghana. I mean, there's no auto industry there, so hard for me to find work 
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erm.. thanks for the eye-opener dangerouslysweet, i'm kinda sorry i wasted all that time telling him to go for it.. cos he apparently needs no pushing
and a 40yr old man with a 70 yr old woman?? just for the record, does anybody here find that sweet?!
and a 40yr old man with a 70 yr old woman?? just for the record, does anybody here find that sweet?!
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You're welcome.
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She's now on a short holiday visiting her parents in a small village. Can't wait her to come back!
She wrote me in German: "Hallo, you sympathetic man, let's get to know each other!"
Of course I looked up her profile. Geeeez, eat your heart out Dolly Parton! And these are real, too!
She dresses like an angel.... Yes, I'm a dreamer, but just WOW!!!
I just don't understand how I can become so lucky. What is it with Russian women? Do they look beyond the surface? She lives in Latvia, which is great for me, because it's part of the EU and neither of us needs a visa.
Leaves me with just a question:
She suggested I come to Latvia and stay in a hotel, because a man should come to a woman first. Well, this is conventional, but I wrote her back, that she made the first "move", which is not conventional. So I suggested she would come to me first. We'd be alone, because she has 2 kids; a beautiful daughter of about 10 and a son of about 17. Both of them I would be happy to take care of.
So what do ya say: Me going over there, or she coming over here?
I already wrote her I have been to 22 countries, so I don't think Latvia is going to be such a big surprise to me...
Bless you all...