Should I even reply to this? (55)
Rob1983: Well once again I'm in a situation where I don't know what to do. When you don't know someone well, it is hard to just be completely blunt and forward with them about their intentions but here is the scenario.
Met a girl at a party. 2 years older than me. We talked for a while and from what I gathered, she enjoyed it and was at least slightly interested at the time. Eventually I asked if we could hang out, and for her phone number. She gave it to me and I tried calling the next day. No answer, no voicemail message or anything. Sent her a msg on facebook asking if I had the right number. She said yeah I was just super busy, I hope you're having a good sunday. My assumption is that (I have no idea why already) she is not into me at all. Should I reply to this message or just give up and stop talking to her. I don't want to look desperate but I want to make sure this is not a missed opportunity too. What, if I should reply, should I say to make myself look not desperate or attractive (If and a huge IF that's even possible at this point)? HELP!
Met a girl at a party. 2 years older than me. We talked for a while and from what I gathered, she enjoyed it and was at least slightly interested at the time. Eventually I asked if we could hang out, and for her phone number. She gave it to me and I tried calling the next day. No answer, no voicemail message or anything. Sent her a msg on facebook asking if I had the right number. She said yeah I was just super busy, I hope you're having a good sunday. My assumption is that (I have no idea why already) she is not into me at all. Should I reply to this message or just give up and stop talking to her. I don't want to look desperate but I want to make sure this is not a missed opportunity too. What, if I should reply, should I say to make myself look not desperate or attractive (If and a huge IF that's even possible at this point)? HELP!
Reply.
Fortune favours the brave
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Let me have her number, I'll talk to her. 
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Jeeepers: Let me have her number, I'll talk to her.
OMG!!!! Jeeps! The island has influenced you
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she sounds like shes trying to be nice and not wanting to hurt you.. However she could really be super busy..
So wait a little while send a message to her and let her call you when she has time.. you'd like to her from her
If she initiates the call then shes interested in you.. If she doesn't then she not..
Does that help..
So wait a little while send a message to her and let her call you when she has time.. you'd like to her from her
If she initiates the call then shes interested in you.. If she doesn't then she not..
Does that help..
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What have you got to lose by giving her another call ... if she is attractive she may well have a busy social life .. so give it another go.
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" A lady was never won by faint of heart" 
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Jeeepers: Let me have her number, I'll talk to her.
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Jeeepers: Let me have her number, I'll talk to her.
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I asked a very similar question on here not that long ago, and the advice was to reply to it.
I believe the reasons were... she could be shy... doesn't like computers much... etc etc etc
I did, and we did end up meeting
So *reply*
I believe the reasons were... she could be shy... doesn't like computers much... etc etc etc
I did, and we did end up meeting
So *reply*
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70Libra: Reply.
Fortune favours the brave
Fortune favours the brave
.. she is right Rob, keep going but be cool. Call her again Tuesday-ish.( she could be busy, really :)
She did give you her number remember.... Best of luck ....
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RDM59: .. she is right Rob, keep going but be cool.
Call her again Tuesday-ish.( she could be busy, really :)
She did give you her number remember.... Best of luck ....
Call her again Tuesday-ish.( she could be busy, really :)
She did give you her number remember.... Best of luck ....
I think since she gave him her number her old boyfriend came back and now she's got the OP on her hands.
If he calls her he should be prepared for rejection.
If she really wanted to talk to him, she would call him.
I'm such a romantic...
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montecito: I think since she gave him her number her old boyfriend came back and now she's got the OP on her hands.
If he calls her he should be prepared for rejection.
If she really wanted to talk to him, she would call him.
I'm such a romantic...
If he calls her he should be prepared for rejection.
If she really wanted to talk to him, she would call him.
I'm such a romantic...
I'm inclined to think that too, communication is a two way street, and if it's not reciprocal, it's likely due to a lack of serious interest.
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Rob1983: Well once again I'm in a situation where I don't know what to do. When you don't know someone well, it is hard to just be completely blunt and forward with them about their intentions but here is the scenario.
Met a girl at a party. 2 years older than me. We talked for a while and from what I gathered, she enjoyed it and was at least slightly interested at the time. Eventually I asked if we could hang out, and for her phone number. She gave it to me and I tried calling the next day. No answer, no voicemail message or anything. Sent her a msg on facebook asking if I had the right number. She said yeah I was just super busy, I hope you're having a good sunday. My assumption is that (I have no idea why already) she is not into me at all. Should I reply to this message or just give up and stop talking to her. I don't want to look desperate but I want to make sure this is not a missed opportunity too. What, if I should reply, should I say to make myself look not desperate or attractive (If and a huge IF that's even possible at this point)? HELP!
Met a girl at a party. 2 years older than me. We talked for a while and from what I gathered, she enjoyed it and was at least slightly interested at the time. Eventually I asked if we could hang out, and for her phone number. She gave it to me and I tried calling the next day. No answer, no voicemail message or anything. Sent her a msg on facebook asking if I had the right number. She said yeah I was just super busy, I hope you're having a good sunday. My assumption is that (I have no idea why already) she is not into me at all. Should I reply to this message or just give up and stop talking to her. I don't want to look desperate but I want to make sure this is not a missed opportunity too. What, if I should reply, should I say to make myself look not desperate or attractive (If and a huge IF that's even possible at this point)? HELP!
Say this....I really enjoyed talking with you the other night and I wondered if you would like to get together this weekend, say Saturday night, for drinks, dinner, or both?....Don't ask her anything about not calling you or not answering when you called her, just ask her if she would like to get together....If she says yes, your off and running...If she says no, but does not explain or ask for an alternate day, you pretty much got your answer....Good luck....
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Take a chance Baby...women love confident men...I hope you win your fair lady
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Give her your number and let her know if she ever feels like hanging out, she can give you a call.
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montecito: I think since she gave him her number her old boyfriend came back and now she's got the OP on her hands.
If he calls her he should be prepared for rejection.
If she really wanted to talk to him, she would call him.
I'm such a romantic...
If he calls her he should be prepared for rejection.
If she really wanted to talk to him, she would call him.
I'm such a romantic...
Maybe she sobered up after the party....
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whowhatwherewhen: Give her your number and let her know if she ever feels like hanging out, she can give you a call.
Just my opinion, but I think that will make him look desperate.
Both of them are on Facebook. She knows where to find him if she wants to..
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montecito: Just my opinion, but I think that will make him look desperate.
Both of them are on Facebook. She knows where to find him if she wants to..
Both of them are on Facebook. She knows where to find him if she wants to..
The bus stops every 15 minutes...anyone is free to get on or off. (that's how I see it)
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Met a girl at a party. 2 years older than me. We talked for a while and from what I gathered, she enjoyed it and was at least slightly interested at the time. Eventually I asked if we could hang out, and for her phone number. She gave it to me and I tried calling the next day. No answer, no voicemail message or anything. Sent her a msg on facebook asking if I had the right number. She said yeah I was just super busy, I hope you're having a good sunday. My assumption is that (I have no idea why already) she is not into me at all. Should I reply to this message or just give up and stop talking to her. I don't want to look desperate but I want to make sure this is not a missed opportunity too. What, if I should reply, should I say to make myself look not desperate or attractive (If and a huge IF that's even possible at this point)? HELP!