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Sep 13, 2011 4:06 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
ferrari75
ferrari75ferrari75Enniskillen, Fermanagh Ireland4 Threads 206 Posts
Hi all,

I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.

About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.

I now feel that maybe hes not interested.

Has anyone any advice for me

Thanks xxx
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Sep 13, 2011 4:11 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
ferrari75: Hi all,

I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.

About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.

I now feel that maybe hes not interested.

Has anyone any advice for me

Thanks xxx
Looks like he is a small bit scared about giving you his number as he is thinking that ye're friendship might be going a bit to fast for him,just tell him that ye could do it one step at a time,he might be ok with that,i hope he is or he might even lose you altogether,Good luck with this,
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Sep 13, 2011 4:13 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
Where is *Aunt Vinny* when you need him? doh

The only advice I can offer is...

don't push it

don't worry too much about it (he may have become busy)

send another email just talking about your day, nothing about the exchange of numbers

wait and see what happens

JMO the Knight sad flower

(personally, I think he's kinda blind if he backs off from you)
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Sep 13, 2011 4:14 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
Lerie2010
Lerie2010Lerie2010Wellington, New Zealand869 Posts
ferrari75: Hi all,

I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.

About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.

I now feel that maybe hes not interested.

Has anyone any advice for me

Thanks xxx


Have you considered that he may be extremely shy in person or he could have a speech impediment. Check his forum threads etc for clues ... nothing else I can say really .. men are a mystery to me too ... always have been hug
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Sep 13, 2011 4:15 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
ferrari75: Hi all,

I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.

About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.

I now feel that maybe hes not interested.

Has anyone any advice for me

Thanks xxx


Well, he could have had one of those stalker type. You know, you give you phone number and they call all the time. So, he could be a little timid about that, until getting to know you better.
OR, he could be married.
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Sep 13, 2011 4:15 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
ferrari75: Hi all,

I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.

About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.

I now feel that maybe hes not interested.

Has anyone any advice for me

Thanks xxx
Important parts of life take time, and haste makes waste. He is just being a good sentry of his own interests, which is completely reasonable. Internet dating/meeting is scary--take care, Lovie.
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Sep 13, 2011 4:18 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
ferrari75: Hi all,

I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.

About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.

I now feel that maybe hes not interested.

Has anyone any advice for me

Thanks xxx



Did you bring up marriage, or wanting bear his children at any time?laugh

uh oh

wave
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Sep 13, 2011 4:24 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
ferrari75: Hi all,

I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.

About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.

I now feel that maybe hes not interested.

Has anyone any advice for me

Thanks xxx


It is too late now, but what I do after several emails and deciding I want to know the person more intimately, is mention that I would love to put a voice with the picture and words... Usually the person I am talking to will offer his number or ask for mine..Since it is too late to try this, why not just ask him why he is hesitant?...Maybe if you start a conversation about it, you can resolve the issue....Good luck!!bouquet
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Sep 13, 2011 4:31 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
hairymonkey
hairymonkeyhairymonkeyWoBurn, Massachusetts USA38 Threads 11 Polls 254 Posts
ferrari75: Hi all,
Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.
He's a leprechaun and he's worried that you're after his pot of gold. Or his marshmallowy cereal.

irish
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Sep 13, 2011 4:32 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
ferrari75: Hi all,

I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.

About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.

The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.

I now feel that maybe hes not interested.

Has anyone any advice for me

Thanks xxx
er......yes buy a lamp........grin
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Sep 13, 2011 4:35 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
wildspirit4u
wildspirit4uwildspirit4ulemoore,ca, California USA1 Posts
ummm i am bettn he has sumthing to hide babe no doubt? if he won't exchange numbers betcha he has a woman, maybe even a family, alot of lonely men here just tryn to game peeps, i do wish u all the luck take care now.
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Sep 13, 2011 6:12 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
Illumastorm
IllumastormIllumastormRockville area, Indiana USA1 Threads 8 Posts
could be any one of these things other people are saying, i am single again and nothing to hide from. actually i hate talking on the phone i would rather meet in person out in public. but thats just me.
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Sep 13, 2011 6:18 PM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
mustbnutz
mustbnutzmustbnutzKingman, Arizona USA33 Threads 5 Polls 3,730 Posts
wildspirit4u: ummm i am bettn he has sumthing to hide babe no doubt? if he won't exchange numbers betcha he has a woman, maybe even a family, alot of lonely men here just tryn to game peeps, i do wish u all the luck take care now.




So am I to conclude if you don`t "feel" like giving out your number that you have something to hide?
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Sep 19, 2011 12:28 AM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
hairymonkey
hairymonkeyhairymonkeyWoBurn, Massachusetts USA38 Threads 11 Polls 254 Posts
Always after me lucky charms!


sheep
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Sep 19, 2011 4:07 AM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
my first reply seems to have disappeared..confused ..still say only he can answer these questions for you..at the end of the day we can only give you opinions he can give you answers..bouquet
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Sep 19, 2011 4:07 AM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
boomboom_uk
boomboom_ukboomboom_ukglasgow, Central, Scotland UK51 Threads 3,257 Posts
my first reply seems to have disappeared..confused ..still say only he can answer these questions for you..at the end of the day we can only give you opinions he can give you answers..bouquet
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Sep 19, 2011 4:12 AM CST Is he interested,not interested or just afraid?? Let me know what you think.
Arverni
ArverniArverniRed Deer, Alberta Canada38 Posts
wildspirit4u: ummm i am bettn he has sumthing to hide babe no doubt? if he won't exchange numbers betcha he has a woman, maybe even a family, alot of lonely men here just tryn to game peeps, i do wish u all the luck take care now.


Yes, let's jump to conclusions that have no base in fact. That is always the way to go when offering someone advice.....
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