I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
Looks like he is a small bit scared about giving you his number as he is thinking that ye're friendship might be going a bit to fast for him,just tell him that ye could do it one step at a time,he might be ok with that,i hope he is or he might even lose you altogether,Good luck with this,
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
Have you considered that he may be extremely shy in person or he could have a speech impediment. Check his forum threads etc for clues ... nothing else I can say really .. men are a mystery to me too ... always have been
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
Well, he could have had one of those stalker type. You know, you give you phone number and they call all the time. So, he could be a little timid about that, until getting to know you better. OR, he could be married.
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
Important parts of life take time, and haste makes waste. He is just being a good sentry of his own interests, which is completely reasonable. Internet dating/meeting is scary--take care, Lovie.
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
Did you bring up marriage, or wanting bear his children at any time?
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx
It is too late now, but what I do after several emails and deciding I want to know the person more intimately, is mention that I would love to put a voice with the picture and words... Usually the person I am talking to will offer his number or ask for mine..Since it is too late to try this, why not just ask him why he is hesitant?...Maybe if you start a conversation about it, you can resolve the issue....Good luck!!
ferrari75: Hi all, Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.
He's a leprechaun and he's worried that you're after his pot of gold. Or his marshmallowy cereal.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
ferrari75: Hi all,
I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
ummm i am bettn he has sumthing to hide babe no doubt? if he won't exchange numbers betcha he has a woman, maybe even a family, alot of lonely men here just tryn to game peeps, i do wish u all the luck take care now.
could be any one of these things other people are saying, i am single again and nothing to hide from. actually i hate talking on the phone i would rather meet in person out in public. but thats just me.
wildspirit4u: ummm i am bettn he has sumthing to hide babe no doubt? if he won't exchange numbers betcha he has a woman, maybe even a family, alot of lonely men here just tryn to game peeps, i do wish u all the luck take care now.
So am I to conclude if you don`t "feel" like giving out your number that you have something to hide?
my first reply seems to have disappeared.. ..still say only he can answer these questions for you..at the end of the day we can only give you opinions he can give you answers..
my first reply seems to have disappeared.. ..still say only he can answer these questions for you..at the end of the day we can only give you opinions he can give you answers..
wildspirit4u: ummm i am bettn he has sumthing to hide babe no doubt? if he won't exchange numbers betcha he has a woman, maybe even a family, alot of lonely men here just tryn to game peeps, i do wish u all the luck take care now.
Yes, let's jump to conclusions that have no base in fact. That is always the way to go when offering someone advice.....
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I have been talking to this lad and we are getting on really well.The e-mails are great(none of these one liners)We seem to have a lot in common and can talk about loads of different things.
About him- Just by reading the e-mails I know he has a great personality and is very funny.To me he is really sweet and has given me some very nice compliments.He is a good looking lad with a smile to die for that would light up a room of darkness.
The problem is I asked if we could exchange numbers and now he is backing off a bit.I know he has had a problem on this site before.
I now feel that maybe hes not interested.
Has anyone any advice for me
Thanks xxx