Do I have to tell him that I'll be soon in his area? (7)
nomade2011: Hi there,
I need your advice...
First time that I visited the USA, it was with my ex-boyfriend.
We have broken off some months ago in sad circumstances.
And now, I have this opportunity to go back in the same area for an internship that I don't want to miss because of the opportunity to have a job experience and to keep improving my English (I'm a French native speaker).
Do you think that I have to tell him that I'll be there or do I have to hope that I won't see him? Which is the best solution to avoid any problem? (as we don't want to see each other anymore)
I need your advice...
First time that I visited the USA, it was with my ex-boyfriend.
We have broken off some months ago in sad circumstances.
And now, I have this opportunity to go back in the same area for an internship that I don't want to miss because of the opportunity to have a job experience and to keep improving my English (I'm a French native speaker).
Do you think that I have to tell him that I'll be there or do I have to hope that I won't see him? Which is the best solution to avoid any problem? (as we don't want to see each other anymore)
If the two of you broke things off, then it's none of his business about you being in the area.
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I thought you were coming to Canada to see me?
Unless you actually want to see him again, there's no reason to tell him anything.
Unless you actually want to see him again, there's no reason to tell him anything.
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nomade2011: Hi there,
I need your advice...
First time that I visited the USA, it was with my ex-boyfriend.
We have broken off some months ago in sad circumstances.
And now, I have this opportunity to go back in the same area for an internship that I don't want to miss because of the opportunity to have a job experience and to keep improving my English (I'm a French native speaker).
Do you think that I have to tell him that I'll be there or do I have to hope that I won't see him? Which is the best solution to avoid any problem? (as we don't want to see each other anymore)
I need your advice...
First time that I visited the USA, it was with my ex-boyfriend.
We have broken off some months ago in sad circumstances.
And now, I have this opportunity to go back in the same area for an internship that I don't want to miss because of the opportunity to have a job experience and to keep improving my English (I'm a French native speaker).
Do you think that I have to tell him that I'll be there or do I have to hope that I won't see him? Which is the best solution to avoid any problem? (as we don't want to see each other anymore)
No, you don`t...trust me on this...
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Thank you gentlemen... I gonna follow your advice. I think that's the best way to enjoy my stay overthere :)
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not unless you wish to initiate contact with him again. that is how it would be interpreted, and if u do not wish to initiate contact then don;t. it could upset him also - either because he does not want to hear from you or because he still has feelings for u and u will get his hopes up
jmho
jmho
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Absolutely do not tell him. It's none of his business, because you guys are through. If you accidently see him on the street, oh well.
(Of course, to be perfectly honest, if I were your ex, I would want to see you again, too, but that's me!
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(Of course, to be perfectly honest, if I were your ex, I would want to see you again, too, but that's me!
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I need your advice...
First time that I visited the USA, it was with my ex-boyfriend.
We have broken off some months ago in sad circumstances.
And now, I have this opportunity to go back in the same area for an internship that I don't want to miss because of the opportunity to have a job experience and to keep improving my English (I'm a French native speaker).
Do you think that I have to tell him that I'll be there or do I have to hope that I won't see him? Which is the best solution to avoid any problem? (as we don't want to see each other anymore)