I want to make Babies so much that it hurts that I have no Partner. (62)
cooladyTrinidad, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago5 Threads 24 PostsOnly kind words,words of encouragement and words of solace needed please.
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coolady: Only kind words,words of encouragement and words of solace needed please.
Just hang in there. The right man will come along and you are still young enough to have a family. If all else fails you could try artificial insemination.
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coolady: Only kind words,words of encouragement and words of solace needed please.
The kindest thing I can say to you is.....Ask youself why you "so much" want to make babies.
When you come up with a good answer that will benefit the child, then you're ready for children.
You don't need a partner to have a child in your life. There are many children that want to be adopted. You would be doing a great service to humanity to adopt a child that you could love unconditionally..
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Thanks dearies,
I know that I can adopt or artificially inseminate. I want to have my own biological ones as I am fertile and have no fertility problem. If I have to adopt it may be later after I have had 2 or 3 of mine.
I appreciate your warm words all the same. it meant much to me.
I know that I can adopt or artificially inseminate. I want to have my own biological ones as I am fertile and have no fertility problem. If I have to adopt it may be later after I have had 2 or 3 of mine.
I appreciate your warm words all the same. it meant much to me.
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if all attempts failed , the best thing to do is to adopt
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coolady: Thanks dearies,
I know that I can adopt or artificially inseminate. I want to have my own biological ones as I am fertile and have no fertility problem. If I have to adopt it may be later after I have had 2 or 3 of mine.
I appreciate your warm words all the same. it meant much to me.
I know that I can adopt or artificially inseminate. I want to have my own biological ones as I am fertile and have no fertility problem. If I have to adopt it may be later after I have had 2 or 3 of mine.
I appreciate your warm words all the same. it meant much to me.
If you have never been pregnant how would you know if you are fertile or not? {I`m assuming you have not been}
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@Mmanika
Sweetheart, if I have a partner in the first place I will be smiling down at my baby/babies(could even be twins)in the next one year. The partner is just not there to complete the equation for me.
Do bear with me People, I didn't put those longings in myself. Methinks it's even part of nature's mathematics at replenishing our earth so I ain't to blame for loving babies and wanting some. Am I?
Sweetheart, if I have a partner in the first place I will be smiling down at my baby/babies(could even be twins)in the next one year. The partner is just not there to complete the equation for me.
Do bear with me People, I didn't put those longings in myself. Methinks it's even part of nature's mathematics at replenishing our earth so I ain't to blame for loving babies and wanting some. Am I?
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coolady: Only kind words,words of encouragement and words of solace needed please.
Well this will scare the guys off running for sure.. 
Mention the word "marriage" and "babies" and you will have a more difficult time finding a date..Try taking things slow and getting to know a man first before talking about this..It might help..
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Babies? Marriage? Whoosh!
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I understand the angle you are oming from dearie, I definitely can't meet a man today and begin to throw babies and marriage in his face. I have never raised that issue in a relationship, I always let things take its cause and use my brain to assess things.
I am only sharing it here because sometimes one just can't help reaching out to others for strength and thanks to you all nice persons for taking out time to comment and comfort.
to you all.
I am only sharing it here because sometimes one just can't help reaching out to others for strength and thanks to you all nice persons for taking out time to comment and comfort.
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if you would have my babys am ready
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It's not gonna easy to having a baby , why you not try to get close to the children from orphanage and see where it goes
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coolady: @Mmanika
Sweetheart, if I have a partner in the first place I will be smiling down at my baby/babies(could even be twins)in the next one year. The partner is just not there to complete the equation for me.
Do bear with me People, I didn't put those longings in myself. Methinks it's even part of nature's mathematics at replenishing our earth so I ain't to blame for loving babies and wanting some. Am I?
Sweetheart, if I have a partner in the first place I will be smiling down at my baby/babies(could even be twins)in the next one year. The partner is just not there to complete the equation for me.
Do bear with me People, I didn't put those longings in myself. Methinks it's even part of nature's mathematics at replenishing our earth so I ain't to blame for loving babies and wanting some. Am I?
there is nothing wrong with you wanting to have children. your biological clock is ticking and making you think about this matter all the time. I totally understand. You might be scared that you will get too old to have children. I wish you lots of luck. Contrary to popular opinion, there are men out there in your age group or older who have ticking clocks as well and really want to have a family.
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Swissblueeyes: Well this will scare the guys off running for sure.. Mention the word "marriage" and "babies" and you will have a more difficult time finding a date..
Try taking things slow and getting to know a man first before talking about this..It might help..
Try taking things slow and getting to know a man first before talking about this..It might help..
I kind of agree, Swiss, but not for the same reason. I don't think most men (most, I said most, I did not say all) are so afraid of fatherhood they would run for the hills. But the way the OP has it, any man would feel he was interchangable with any other man, just a "factor" in an "equation." Not terribly considerate to the potential father, I think, and not likely to spark any serious interest from any serious candidate.
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Dagosto: I kind of agree, Swiss, but not for the same reason. I don't think most men (most, I said most, I did not say all) are so afraid of fatherhood they would run for the hills. But the way the OP has it, any man would feel he was interchangable with any other man, just a "factor" in an "equation." Not terribly considerate to the potential father, I think, and not likely to spark any serious interest from any serious candidate.
I would disagree with you on that. She is talking about finding a partner. If she wanted to just have a baby, she could grab any unsuspecting man off the street and start reproducing. JMO
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coolady: Only kind words,words of encouragement and words of solace needed please.
I understand you very well.I'm a mother so what I tell you,it is my own experience.
A child brings happiness to our lives, you cannot compare a child's love,kisses,smile to anything more,
any kind of relationship isn't stronger and pure than our love to our children-and vice versa:)
And this love never dies,as your child grown up,you love them stronger and stronger...it is the most wonderful thing,the most amazing in the universe:)
But remember please that having a child is a very big responsibility.
You must take care of them,look after them all the time,provide not only love but also some'materialistic' things,and teach,teach,teach them the world..it takes A LOT of your free time...
When I gave a birth to my 'wonder',I hadn't had any private life for at least 7 years...just because I gave this time to him...
But he is getting more independent...and when I look at him now I am proud and happy...
So..think a little about it...are you already ready to take such a big responsibility?
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halakala: I understand you very well.I'm a mother so what I tell you,it is my own experience.
A child brings happiness to our lives, you cannot compare a child's love,kisses,smile to anything more,
any kind of relationship isn't stronger and pure than our love to our children-and vice versa:)
And this love never dies,as your child grown up,you love them stronger and stronger...it is the most wonderful thing,the most amazing in the universe:)
But remember please that having a child is a very big responsibility.
You must take care of them,look after them all the time,provide not only love but also some'materialistic' things,and teach,teach,teach them the world..it takes A LOT of your free time...
When I gave a birth to my 'wonder',I hadn't had any private life for at least 7 years...just because I gave this time to him...
But he is getting more independent...and when I look at him now I am proud and happy...
So..think a little about it...are you already ready to take such a big responsibility?
A child brings happiness to our lives, you cannot compare a child's love,kisses,smile to anything more,
any kind of relationship isn't stronger and pure than our love to our children-and vice versa:)
And this love never dies,as your child grown up,you love them stronger and stronger...it is the most wonderful thing,the most amazing in the universe:)
But remember please that having a child is a very big responsibility.
You must take care of them,look after them all the time,provide not only love but also some'materialistic' things,and teach,teach,teach them the world..it takes A LOT of your free time...
When I gave a birth to my 'wonder',I hadn't had any private life for at least 7 years...just because I gave this time to him...
But he is getting more independent...and when I look at him now I am proud and happy...
So..think a little about it...are you already ready to take such a big responsibility?
Shes 35. When do you suggest she starts?
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I hope you do find a husband that will love you, as you will cherish him.
From that love will be born your children to complete both of your happiness.
When you have your first child it is all, that love within you will be great and surely you are going to be a great MOM!
I pray that God will bless you.
From that love will be born your children to complete both of your happiness.
When you have your first child it is all, that love within you will be great and surely you are going to be a great MOM!
I pray that God will bless you.
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