Is it OK to you if your boyfriend is making friends again to his ex Girfriend or hang around togethe (13)
ashiteruOita, Kyushu Japan10 Threads 67 PostsI have a friend who I go out with during my free days of work ,she mentioned me about her boyfriend recently who still keep intouch with his ex girlfriend and hang around to visit her home helping other thing and call most often..They argued about this because she is jelous and her boyfriend said they don't do anything wrong and my friend only thinks bad to them and when she mentioned this topics her boyfriend is very angry to her.. If asking me I think it's not good to having connections with the ex much often..And maybe the guy is still loved the ex and not her just only using her for a company,what do you think girls?
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yabbadabbadont: NO
Ditto...
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I will ask him to choose me or her 
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Perhaps the ex is a better cook ..... 
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manroe23: I will ask him to choose me or her
I think the problem is maybe not that he spends time with his ex, as much she doesn't trust her boyfriend.
Him ending contact with his ex smacks of her trying to control who he has contact and will this end her jealousy, or lack of trust? If he ends contact with the ex, who will she be jealous of next and ask him to stop seeing?
Does he become angry because she does not trust him and is trying to control, or isolate him, or does he become angry because he wants to get up to no good?
Either way, if she doesn't trust him, whether that's to do with his lack of fidelity, or her insecurities, she should consider getting out of the relationship. What is the point if there is no trust?
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gozoman2: Ditto...
I ditto that
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an ex is an ex there is no way he should be hanging around her it most likely means he still has feelings for her or vise versa its not an ideal situation for his new woman thats for sure! :)
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Hi dear it's good to see you here I am same like you busy girl ..lol tnx for the good comments ,yes honesty in a relationships hard to find if there is a wall in between ..My friend said her bf and the ex gf are get over for a year and the ex gf found a new bf ,so theres no reason to get jelous that was her bf said to her ,my friend had a right to get suspicious ofcourse she is the presents now.I told her to ask her bf about the ex if he still have feelings to that girl then make him to choose if she or the ex is more important..Well I guess she need to be prepared of her self in any answer ..
Ps.miss you dear hope you have a great days off mwahhh xoxo
Ps.miss you dear hope you have a great days off mwahhh xoxo
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Yes that was I thought too
Yes that was I thought too
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RDM59: Perhaps the ex is a better cook .....
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kitten5121: hello u sweet sister...missed u. Surprised to see u again here
Ok, my says is: Its depend on the reason why they broke up. Are they trully get over it? -i mean her bf and his ex gf-
Well, what attracted the ex to him or her in the first place, is probably still there. There's another list that still exists too, subconsciously. Now, they are argued, If her bf wise enough and wants the relationship still there, he should know what to do.
As i always said to u dear, honesty is a hard thing in a relationship. well, u know my story and yes its better not to let the exes around the relationship esp if they are being friends soon after the break up.. Sneaky signs. JMO
PS: Sorry i didn't reply ur email still in very busy at work and i know u too.
Hi dear it's good to see you here I am same like you busy girl ..lol tnx for the good comments ,yes honesty in a relationships hard to find if there is a wall in between ..My friend said her bf and the ex gf are get over for a year and the ex gf found a new bf ,so theres no reason to get jelous that was her bf said to her ,my friend had a right to get suspicious ofcourse she is the presents now.I told her to ask her bf about the ex if he still have feelings to that girl then make him to choose if she or the ex is more important..Well I guess she need to be prepared of her self in any answer ..Ok, my says is: Its depend on the reason why they broke up. Are they trully get over it? -i mean her bf and his ex gf-
Well, what attracted the ex to him or her in the first place, is probably still there. There's another list that still exists too, subconsciously. Now, they are argued, If her bf wise enough and wants the relationship still there, he should know what to do.
As i always said to u dear, honesty is a hard thing in a relationship. well, u know my story and yes its better not to let the exes around the relationship esp if they are being friends soon after the break up.. Sneaky signs. JMO
PS: Sorry i didn't reply ur email still in very busy at work and i know u too.
Ps.miss you dear hope you have a great days off mwahhh xoxo
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jac379: I think the problem is maybe not that he spends time with his ex, as much she doesn't trust her boyfriend.
Him ending contact with his ex smacks of her trying to control who he has contact and will this end her jealousy, or lack of trust? If he ends contact with the ex, who will she be jealous of next and ask him to stop seeing?
Does he become angry because she does not trust him and is trying to control, or isolate him, or does he become angry because he wants to get up to no good?
Either way, if she doesn't trust him, whether that's to do with his lack of fidelity, or her insecurities, she should consider getting out of the relationship. What is the point if there is no trust?
Him ending contact with his ex smacks of her trying to control who he has contact and will this end her jealousy, or lack of trust? If he ends contact with the ex, who will she be jealous of next and ask him to stop seeing?
Does he become angry because she does not trust him and is trying to control, or isolate him, or does he become angry because he wants to get up to no good?
Either way, if she doesn't trust him, whether that's to do with his lack of fidelity, or her insecurities, she should consider getting out of the relationship. What is the point if there is no trust?
I was about to write the same: as long as there is trust, then nothing will change. Then even if she tries to stop, I am sure it will move backwards. I am sure there is no aspect of cheating in aspect. If the trust has been built, then both of them are the center of universe and the other people are only supporting them.
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